Some people asked to make a thread about this based on one of my posts, so I'll expand the topic here.

First of all, I'm quite new to TRP. Currently in the process of making some big changes. This place inspired me like no other to actually get to it, and the results are great.

Summary

Throughout my years as a lonely beta, the lack of sexual and physical contact began to take it's toll on me. This made things even worse and awkward in a self fulfilling spiral.

Thankfully around here, prostitution is something perfectly legal and quite common. So I began every few months to use their services in a way to satisfy my physical needs when I really needed.

Maybe due to my "betaness" I always thought sex should be a little more than humping and leaving. So I always made the effort to talk a little bit with these women and to know a few of their motivations and what made them tick. It made for some very interesting and enlightening conversations.

These are a few observations I've made in the couple of years back when I used their services. They might be wrong or even contested, I don't care, because they're just based on personal experiences, not some word of law.

Reasonings

A lot is said on the media and by feminist about how prostitutes are poor marginalized victims of society. Getting to know them made me realize how utter and complete horseshit that was.

I mean, there is sex trafficking and all, but I guess that is probably a very small fraction of sex workers. Especially in a country where is all legalized and taxed like mine.

The crux of the anger, is that they're selling for cheap, what the "rightful" ones sell in an increasingly overpriced matter.

But you may ask as I did, what makes these women go into such jobs? Here's a few of those motives that I've personally encountered:

  • They're too fucking lazy for real work.

Yes, they make more money by having sex than by working whatever low end job they might be able to get. Not to mention not having to work on the clock or waking up early like the rest of the office drones.

What astounded me in this one, was the utter and complete lack of long term thinking. The thought that they will not be able to do this forever doesn't even pass their minds. It's retarded, they live for the now and tomorrow doesn't matter.

  • They do it as side jobs.

Many of them do have normal jobs and don't expect to keep doing this. Around here there are also those that use it to pay for college. That hot girl in psychology might be a hooker and you'd never know it. Quite common in some of these courses actually. I even heard of a "family girl" who used multiple sugar daddies and random hook ups to pay for frikking med school.

  • They just love sex.

These ones are the rarer to find. You have to be a special kind of depraved to enjoy this so much, but they do give the best service. They tend to be somewhat mentally unstable tough. Perhaps it's not even the sex, it's the idea of men lining up to fuck her and the emotions this unravels.

Further notes

One thing I've noticed, is that almost all of them would never "go public" with their profession. There is an element of stigma to it, that I assumed was the whole reason. Nope, most of them keep it hidden, because they expect to someday have a regular relationship and children with some dude who will never know about their past.

They actually expect to be "saved" by a BB when they're too old for that shit. Let that sink in for a minute.

What disgusted the most about this was not the intent to be "normal" again. It was the absolute lack of remorse and empathy they demonstrated on the idea of lying about this. That was a talk I had with more than one of them btw.

Just think about this. You're in love, thinking you found the perfect unicorn. Unbeknownst to you, she has a sordid past of depravity and prostitution, in which she wont fell the slightest amount of guilt in not telling and letting you think she's the perfect little angel. Does that sound like a good deal to you?

Another thing that astounded me, was this one girl who actually had a boyfriend. And HE KNEW what she did for work. How the hell one does become so cucked to end up accepting an LTR with a hooker?

I really cannot imagine that dude being happy with me and metric loads of other guys nonchalantly pounding away at her.

Another one: Some of those girls had multiple beta orbiters. One of them showed me the messages she received. It was pathetic. Dudes where sending her cutesy messages while I literally had my dick inside her. Don't be that guy.

Lessons Learned

  • Go the hooker route at least once if you can. These interactions really taught me how to keep my cool with physical contact and made me realize sex is really no big deal. For an awkward nerd, this is a blessing as it will prepare you to deal with these situations in a calm, experienced manner.

  • All sex is transactional. Some more than others. Accept it and it becomes easier to accept rejection. You were simply not able to provide the part on the transaction that she wanted (be it money, emotions or affection). "Fairness" has no place here.

  • Women are masters of deception and have absolute no remorse or guilt about it. (They do regret being found out though)

  • Sexual strategy is amoral. There is no fairness or right or wrong here. Don't expect the world to bend to your righteous idea on how it should be.

  • If one day you feel like going to a psychologist or therapist. Instead of paying for a feminist harpy psychologist who will just hear you and pretend to care and not feel disgust for you problem. Go to a prostitute instead and fuck her brains out. After that, you can talk about whatever bullshit you want (without winning about your useless problems of course you idiot). They make for the best therapy session that ever existed.

  • Obligatory AWALT.