[FR] Recently divorced guy getting back into the game, with a question

blacwidonsfw · 2015-08-25T03:30:41+00:00

You don't need to clarify the situation just keep fucking her. If she brings it up just say you are having fun and want to continue to do so and see where it goes in the future. In the mean time hit up new girls and I advise you to hit on girls in public as it will help your game way more than swiping right. Good luck bro

bea5tly · 2015-08-25T06:13:29+00:00

Next morning I planned to send a light note saying how I had a good time but she beat me to it.

Never text the next morning. If she texts first great. But ignore it for at least half a day. Got to be busy and not readily available.

Other then that keep fucking her and start hitting up other girls. Good job getting back in the game brother.

Grompher · 2015-08-25T03:38:09+00:00

I typically say nothing until she brings it up. Just stay neutral and if she pushes for an answer "I'm not ready for a relationship". "Your moving fast". Or whatever. Drop a plate like its hot. Just have other ones lined up. And don't ever marry or get her pregnant.

oldredder · 2015-08-25T03:59:32+00:00

actually you didn't fuck up: the less clear you are the more mystery there is and women find mystery attractive because that which isn't yet defined is some kind of sexual and/or emotional adventure to her. That's what she really wants. When the adventure is gone because the mystery is solved then often the sex will be gone shortly after

Derbi50 · 2015-08-25T04:30:23+00:00

A lot of shit has changed in the 7 years you were out of the game.

For one girls assume you ARE NOT exclusive until you say you are. Even then they don't believe it until they see it on your faceyspacergram pages.

Danedina · 2015-08-25T09:42:59+00:00

You got her into bed, so there's no need to micro-analyze everything. Personally, I don't get too caught up in the whole who pays for what thing. Then again, I don't normally invite women on expensive dates until I feel like getting dressed up, which certainly isn't until I've gotten lots of action.

Your enemy at the moment is oneitis. You have got to got to got to retain your abundance mentality. Believe me: she is fucking other guys. As soon as you drop her off she is chatting with other dudes, probably before she's even taken her shoes off. Just know it.

All of my success lately is through online dating. Socializing has produced absolutely squat, and I still have quite a bit of approach anxiety when it comes to cold approaches (I'm fine if I have even the slightest excuse, like a meetup.com gathering).

NightwingTRP · 2015-08-25T11:04:07+00:00

One of the things I've had great success with is when agreeing to give a girl a lift home, I also tell her we're going to "have a nightcap" so it gives her a platonic excuse to hamster with... while giving me legitimate reason to be not only in her place, but also to kino hard once we're in private.

In some cases... the nightcap is never had. Try it in future. I think it'll help you hit that home run on the first strike.

projectself · 2015-08-25T03:58:43+00:00

"unless we have a specific conversation stating otherwise, assume I am seeing other people".

bsutansalt · 2015-08-25T11:53:42+00:00

This belongs in /r/asktrp

Title	[FR] Recently divorced guy getting back into the game, with a question
Author	bonerpotpie
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	August 25, 2015 3:07 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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