Good morning RPers,

Typical field report here for you. Just want to share to continue to solidify these ideas in your head.

4-5 months ago I was in a really bad state. I was with a girl for 3 years, was putting up with family events I hated, having to hear about how big the wedding was going to be, the four kids we were going to have, the big house I was going to have to pay for. I didn't want any of it. I enjoyed our time together and became clingy over those 3 years. Girl was religious and didn't want to get as 'down and dirty' as I wanted with things in the bedroom. I was heading down the road of being a permanent 'beta bux'. After not committing in three years, she found a 23 year old who apparently says he wants to after just meeting.

With the New Year on the horizon, I planed a bunch of things I wanted to do in 2015 that I never would have gotten to do. My back was up against the wall, I had nothing left in my social life. Car meets, rally events (racing), autocross... can you tell I'm into cars? I jumped on my life purpose 100%. I bought a camera and started making a Youtube channel based on cars. I stepped up my lifting, got my finances better in order.. all the typical RP things preached here. Essentially I dropped pursuing all women... I didn't want a girlfriend. This was third time I was burned hardcore in 3-4 year relationships. I the past, I NEEDED a girlfriend to feel ok about myself; accepted by society.

Started hanging out with this girl, a sister of a guy I know through the car scene. I commented on a link she posted on FB about why she's "undateable". I always thought she was attractive, or so I thought, but never pursued. She's 21, I'm 27. I always thought we had to 'date' our own age... I laugh at that now.

I immediately took the bantering from FB to texting, then texting to a meetup within a week. Example of the things she's said then:

"Is it possible for a guy to actually want to be with a girl rather than just sleep with her? This is partially why I have no hope with relationships and I have learned to hate them."

Hearing this and not fully embracing TRP, I felt I needed to sit back, be nice, yadda yadda. We met at some burger joint, ate, went back to her brother's place to hang out with them. Another date, she was bringing up 50 Shades of Grey and how she was with a previous guy just because that. Interesting... very far away from the quote before. Even at this point, I realize the door was basically open, but I didn't see it.

I actually didn't want to deal with her. Wishy washy, seemed like she wanted to wait, she lives a bit far away. I started not responding to her texts for a few hours because I was lifting and working. Attraction spiked through all this. I wasn't pursuing - I was being truly uninterested in her.

She continuously says in person things like "Why do you hate me so much?"... I don't hate, I just don't care either way about how she feels about me. My value is with me, not from her.

The third time we hung out, it clicked for me. I didn't care anymore what she thought. I saw her and just grabbed her without saying a word and started 'passionately' making out with her. Tossed her around, grabbed her jaw, etc. I didn't fear her rejecting me doing this because I actually didn't give a shit. Other things went down too obviously from this, but we'll leave that to your imagination.

Let me give you some examples of the texts now:

"Soooo I've been thinking. And I definitely think we should fuck this weekend. :)"

"I'm not wearing socks, and I have the underwear to match"

"I wanna be fucked into next Tuesday, yo"

"Dude. Let's test drive one and fuck in it" (after a comment about an R8)

"Why do I feel like I'm going to be covered in bruises when you're done with me?"

"I'm a sex freak, believe it or not"

I am amazed. I have never had a girl be this sexual with me in a short amount of time. I've always waited MONTHS. The great thing is I get to pursue all the things I want not related to women, yet still have at least one very interested. At work, I've seen the girls there perk up like little rabbits coming out of their holes when I walk by. I went to a happy hour and had this very attractive 9/10 girl in my department getting very touchy feely with her boyfriend right there.

Points to take away:

*Be on your mission. Go to work, do well. Pick a hobby and go balls out with it. Create a social circle with the people you want to hang out with.

*Women will say one thing and want another. All women want sex. Always think this was. Always escalate until she verbally says 'no' to your face.

*Always pursue in a sexual manor. Subtle hint at sexual things periodically. Don't be a total freak, but bring it up.

*Hypergamy exists. Take it from the girl I was with for 3 years and the girl at happy hour.

*Use texting as your friend. I see a lot of people just text only for logistics and to meet up... I slightly agree, but feel you can use texting to your advantage. Girls love texting. Don't be her emotion tampon, make conversations fun and sexual. Keep texts short, but keep conversations going throughout the days in between seeing them.

*SMV is the rules to the game. This girl is 21, just graduating... I have my MBA, a job, and 3.5 years experience. Finances in order, decent body, tall-ish. This is 10x more than any college guy she's around has going for them. Attraction is easy at this point as long as you stick to your guns.

Hope this helps someone. I still feel I have a long way to go and have made some mistakes through theis experience, but have learned from them. Learn from me.

Cheers.