First post, so first FR. Be men and comment on anything I do wrong rules wise and also share your opinion on my story. I'm from Spain but English is one of my native languages, I might have mistakes anyway.

I'll start by saying that I've been lurking for maybe half a year, I have always had a RP way of thinking but have been Beta in action, I awakened two years ago when I let myself be treated like shit by my ex. I discovered TRP whilst being in a LTR (not the ex I mentioned before). The relationship was a RedPilled relationship, she respected me and looked up to me, I had the lead and was on charge, she loved it as I was her first RP bf. TRP put names and theories to things I observed in real life, and also proved to me that my LTR was a really RedPilled woman.

For circunstances that I can't change for a few years (long distance and still at college) I decided to break up. Thanks to TRP I took it well and didn't suffer from oneities.

Now going to the main part of the story. A few weeks after breaking up I decided to try dating sites and found a 9/10 blonde and decided to meet for the next day at 17:00 (Sunday). My car broke down a few days earlier so it was set that she'd come to pick me up (I live in the middle of nowhere).

Didn't text her all day and waited. She didn't text me neither so I decided to hang out with my pals and played football (soccer). Here is where I had a beta moment and when I arrived home a few hours later I texted her to ask how come she never came. She answers saying that she had been out with her family and didn't think it would take up the whole day. I was the first texting but she proposed meeting up another day, so I went along and told her on Wednesday, which she agreed.

Didn't text her for two days as even in my BP days I knew everything goes like the BEP song 'Meet me halfway', you don't put effort inyo someone who won't put it into you.

Wednesday came and she didn't show up or text. At this point I knew I had been stud up again. I decided to let it go on Sunday hamstering that it had all been rushed too quickly, but today I wasn't going to be fooled again, so said nothing and went on with my studying. Later that night she texts me saying that her phone had fallen into a bowl of water and the screen had cracked, so it hadn't been working. I laughed my head off really hard, this was a new way of letting people down. Told her that if she wasn't interested she should tell me, we are all adults. Her response was that she is interested but didn't think I was because I didn't text for two days. I answered by saying that if she was interested we meet the next day, as I was getting tired of all the nonsense. She agreed and we arranged meeting Thursday (the idea was that she still would be picking me up).

The next day she tells me a few hours in advance that she can't make it, as she has to acompany her mother to some place. Told her fine, have good day and that I would be studying. I knew she was playing me, had given her too many chances and I was quite sick of the situation, so I continued studying.

The next day in the morning I recieve a message from her asking if I'm available that afternoon, that she'd pick me up. I didn't have anything to do so I agreed, even knowing that she had had too many chances I gave her another one, suppose I was curious after all.

She turns up at my place, we go elsewhere and takes me. Turns out she looks like a 9/10 in pictures but a 8/10 in real life. We go to the beach and in between getting to know each other I can sense she's nervous. I admit I wasn't doing well with getting close to her as in contact, but I did slowly get closer and was being very confident and cocky, teasing her and playing with her. Her nervousness was getting me a bit nervous too, as everytime I tried to establish contact it seemed she wasn't fond of it. Anyways I stayed close in predator mode. After reading TRP I have had lots of motivation to try new things and to be risk taking, so I went for her and held her face and kissed her with passion. It was unexpected and it took her for surprise, but she did respond.

We made out in her car but didn't escalate to sex. Sex on the first date istn't something I've done before, hence the name of the title. Anyway, had fun, she seemed like a nice girl (turns out her phone was all cracked, so maybe the story of it falling into water is true) and I have another date coming soon.

The reason of the post is that even with all my RP actions I got weak and had a few Beta moments and a lot of shit to improve on. Thanks TRP for putting names on things I had noticed and explaining things I didn't. I have found risk taking really thriling and had the guts to try. Never be scared as it might turn out that you're doing everything well and not even noticing. Will be waiting for your responses.