good signs on a first date

CaptainFalconer · 2014-07-23T00:03:07+00:00

Generally, if you take physical/conversation risks, and she lets you get away with it. Or better yet if she obviously likes it.

meesterdarby · 2014-07-23T06:03:46+00:00

If we're sitting at a bar or table on the first date, I test the waters after a few minutes of conversation by creating contact with her leg using my knee (i.e. just resting my knee casually against her leg). If she doesn't mind that, I keep escalating throughout the night. Just don't make a big deal out of it one way or the other, but always push forward. And if she doesn't seem receptive to it or pulls away, don't make a big deal out of it, and DO NOT say "Sorry."

AlphaXpipubs · 2014-07-23T00:24:27+00:00

She grabs your cock while you smirk and say is that it?

favourthebold · 2014-07-24T06:22:18+00:00

You should hold her hand within 5 minutes of meeting her. If she won't let you she isn't down to sleep with you.

FLFTW16 · 2014-07-23T06:25:34+00:00

Depends on what you are looking for, OP. If you are a plate spinner, I don't know, read the other comments.

If you are looking for LTR material: she should have a low N-count. <5. 0 is ideal but winning the lotto is also ideal so be realistic. More than 2 LTRs in her history will be problematic.

She should communicate a passion for domestic activities like baking or cooking. She might casually mention a new recipe she just tried. If she acknowledges you as a high-value man she will offer to bake/cook it for you in the future.

Career-wise, she should be capable of paying for herself, while simultaneously disinvested in her career, because whatever she does to make money is less important than making her man happy if and when she finds him. She knows she will always be in the support role as a woman.

She should be warming up to you, and clearly attracted, while at the same time maintaining her boundaries and remaining reticent because she doesn't know your intentions yet, and she isn't just a sex toy to be used and thrown away. If she is a high value woman she won't allow herself to be devalued easily. You will have to work for it and prove you are LTR material, and not just going for a pump and dump.

I'm sure there are many other green flags to look for that other TRPers can relate. When desiring an LTR always be on the hunt for a "redpillwoman", there is a subreddit of them where you can learn more about them.

IamAwaken · 2014-07-24T00:09:53+00:00

Well I'm going to be making some gross assumptions here since you gave 0 details in all 2 of those sentences.

Since you're beta and don't have any past luck with girls you should aim for sluts. Your goal is to fuck on the first night once. Progress is how close you get to that. BJ means you're getting close.

Or if you meant signs she isn't a slut... Is she Amish?

Title	good signs on a first date
Author	lylasxoxo
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Date	July 22, 2014 11:04 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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