Hey guys. Back again - I promised I would update on the last field report. If you haven’t read it, you can get to it from my profile. Regardless, here’s a TL;DR of the last field report:

My LTR, S, started getting distant. “Going through the motions”. Was obviously getting attention from elsewhere, so I decided to go out and spin some plates. Started fucking another girl on the side, E, and chatting with a few more. Used RP principles to recognize the problem and furthermore solve it for myself.

Follow up:

It’s been about 10 days since I started spinning plates again, and oh how abundance has changed everything.

Since i broke things off with S, we texted a bit, and even chilled a couple times to smoke.

This past Thursday - Sunday, I ignored S cold - and had close to 30 texts and 50 missed calls. Despite me telling her we were done, this complete withdrawal of attention got her hamster wheel turning. What was I doing while blowing her off? Fucking E, playing basketball, and chilling with my friends.

I finally answered S on Sunday morning and told her to come get her shit. Like a puppy, she came over instantly, and wanted to talk. Sure, we talked.

She told me the reason she started getting distant in our relationship was because she started regularly texting/snapping a co worker, and his lack of interest (friend zoned her) made her actually start liking him. This made her confused about her feelings and she withdrew from me. She also liked that he was good with kids, which shows positive traits (she works at a school)

She said she thinks he’s gay because they smoked together after I told her we were done, and he never made a move.

We had a good laugh. He’s never been a threat - there’s levels to this shit.

Lesson here: his lack of complements (shit you do when you friend zone a girl), made her feel like he has abundance. The funny thing is, I know the guy - he’s an orbiter, is probably in love with her, and just too scared to make a move. Lots of crazy mind fuckery going on here, ALL of which we have learned through the hallowed Red Pill.

She asked me if I’m fucking anyone else. I said yes. No need to bullshit, were not dating anymore. She told me “I don’t wanna share my man”. I said you’re gonna have to. We fucked later that evening. She shit tested me with “condoms” and “no head, idk where your dick has been”. Round one, I hit it raw. Round two, she sucked the soul out of me. Women will break rules for men.

S is back to being the obedient, feminine woman I took under my wing in the start. But she’s gonna have to work to get my commitment again. I didn’t impose any restrictions or ultimatums, didn’t tell her to stop talking to X, Y, or Z - this shows that you are the prize, and that other men are nonexistent in your frame. They simply don’t exist. If she wants to interact with them, she can, because they are not a threat to your rock solid foundation.

Meanwhile, if S starts acting up, she knows I have other options to serve my purposes. So she won’t.

S is now a plate (probably my favorite plate due to the chemistry - makes sex great). E is my booty call, whenever I feel like getting laid without having to bool with the bitch. And I have a few more options I’m cultivating in the background.

Felt like sharing. Thanks for reading.