Summary: girls will fuck the alpha, AND girls will want commitment from the beta. Behave according to how you want to be seen by the woman you want to sleep with. In the first 20 seconds of the conversation, you have to embody the characteristics of an alpha to maximize your chances of closing the deal.
Body: Every single human interaction is built on the first few seconds/minutes of contact. Think back to a job interview you had. You walked in confidently, shook the hand of the interviewer and passed their tests. At some point in the back of your mind, you just knew that you got the job. The same applies for interactions with girls you want to fuck.
When cold approaching a chick, you must have extremely tight game in the first 20 seconds. There are 3 things you will establish in that first 20 seconds: * 1. You're sharp * 2. You're masculine * 3. You take what you want
These three qualities establish you in the mind of the target as someone she wants to continue associating with. Upon the first 3-4 seconds of the approach she will be on the exact same page as you. You don't know her, she doesn't know you. Now it's up to you to guide the interaction, while keeping her on board long enough for you to escalate to sex.
Humans label each other in a fraction of a second. This instinct to categorize is a primal mechanism that aids in our survival. Use it to your advantage.
The following list are actions that you can take to establish yourself as her alpha fucks (feel free to add what has worked for you): *gaze deep into her eyes *smile with your teeth showing *squint your lower eyelid a tiny bit (has an effect of making you look confident and charismatic) *speak in a deep hypnotic tone *hold her hand for 15 seconds more than what is comfortable
The next step after the initial conversation is absolutely crucial in closing the deal. You must relocate to another venue. Take her somewhere else, somewhere that you can escalate further. My favorite places to go are: * coffee * for a walk * to my place to show her something
It doesn't really matter where you go, what matters is that her coming along is a major indicator that she likes you and like where the interaction is going. No person would agree to an instant date unless they liked you.
After relocating you must physically escalate. Start with a teasing punch to the arm, or a pat on her shoulder. Move to more intimate forms of contact if she reacts positively. Play with her hair, smell it. Tell her she has something on her face and get up really close to it, then kiss her on the cheek. Get creative. This instant date is to get her wet for you.
The last 2 minutes of this interaction should be focused on you telling her about something she needs to see at your place. If you don't have your own place, but have a car, get her to your car. If the girl has had a good time, and turned on by your moves, she will most likely follow. The best way to get her to come along is by grabbing her hand and saying "let's go".
Once she's at your place, very little can go wrong. Enjoy your conquest.
Lessons Learned: The first few seconds of a cold approach are crucial. Be dominant, be touchy, speak slowly and deeply. After the initial approach take her on an instant date. Apply masterful kino escalation to arouse the girl. Take her home under the guise of showing her something really cool.
Oh and being hygienic and fit will make this process like playing a game on easy mode.
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