I am so tired.

MyPill · 2017-05-21T19:44:58+00:00

To everyone, the moment you find yourself in a situation like this, pull out your phone immediatly and start recording

Otherwise you risk getting a false rape accusation for turning down a woman who fears her reputation or lifestyle is at risk!

You got lucky for only getting sexually assaulted or raped and not falsly accused!

abstractcocacola · 2017-05-21T17:46:37+00:00

Honestly man, if your friend is going to dump you over his girl acting like a fucking thot and you told him about it.. Then fuck him.

I would KILL to have friends who had my back like that. Instead, most of my friends would probably seize the day and take it as an opportunity to take my girlfriend to pound town. I've dealt with this situation a handful of times and that was enough for me to just completely swear off monogamous dating. That way, there's no expectations for either of us, so it's really no surprise when the girl I'm fucking has another guy or 2 and there's no expectations for me to commit to her.

If I were you, I'd have a word with your friend in a 1 on 1 very calm matter of fact "sorry dude" type of expression. He'll probably be a lot more understanding and won't hate your guts over the situation. Then again, the power of the pussy is strong, especially with desperate guys who will burn bridges for the sake of sticking their head in the sand about their relationship.. So it's a tough call. But do you honestly even want friends like that?

Two of my close friends are your typical cuck (hate that word, but it's the truth). Their girls act like thots, cheat, then cry or somehow make it up by giving them a blow job or something and then it's on to round 2 of her escapades. It's done so much damage to their happiness and self-esteem that it sucks balls even hanging with these guys anymore. They're always just sad, somber, gloomy, and they never want to do anything except sit at the same old townie bar and talk about how they hate their job and relationship.

One of these friends even thinks he's turning schizophrenic because he sees his girl out dancing with other dudes who she's obviously sexually attracted to, he hears about her going on a cruise with the girls and rumors about how she fucked some dude on the boat.. And she straight up lies to him saying it's all in his head.

Never ever ever be thirsty for commitment. Never tolerate bullshit gas lighting behavior in a partner (I honestly say this for both men and women). It fucks up your psyche and self esteem. It makes it impossible to trust anyone anymore and can take YEARS to mentally heal from. As much as I think this sub can suck sometimes with the woman-hating and the "REEE!!!" incel teenager angst, I'm extremely thankful it helped me over-come that desperation.

Cool_Mob · 2017-05-21T16:28:00+00:00

Bro's before HOES.

You have two options, Saving the friend..or the friendship. You know what I mean.

MattyAnon · 2017-05-21T19:43:12+00:00

ove, and she tells me to lay down. We do this several times. Then I don't know what to do, if I put my hands on her to try and move her I don't know what she'll do with it. I am really getting freaked out because I know I have no power in the situation

As mentioned elsewhere: start recording. She can't stop you recording..... clearly say "I am recording this situation". She can't overpower you. She might dive for your phone, and this will look TERRIBLE for her on the recording. In this case keep your phone away from her and run out.

The other thing to do if you can get safe is to call a third party to come to the house or door. Not the police, but any other person.

One is she's my friend.

No she isn't, she obstructed your exit. That would be kidnap if you were a girl. It's extremely serious, she put you in an impossible position. Intentionally and selfishly.

You're right to be extremely cautious. Rejected women can and do file rape complaints against you for revenge.

Even if I had engaged with her and whatever, he wouldn't leave her. So many reasons but whatever he just I know he wouldn't leave her.

Not your problem.

She really fucked this up.

Here's the cold hard truth: she didn't fuck this up. This isn't a good person making a simple mistake. This is a bad person. She did a very bad thing to you with full and complete intent. And showing no remorse. This is who she is and you do need to accept that. She isn't a friend.

I have been in a position like this before, sort of, where I was at a party and a friend's girlfriend got into the bathroom right behind me and tried something similar, then I told her boyfriend and then he just believed whatever it was she told him and I lost him as a friend and several others as well.

Knowing that women behave like this towards attractive men, you need to take steps to avoid being in this situation with women you don't know well. They have complete unaccountability and power in today's world, they're horny as fuck for attractive men, and are egotistical and selfish. Take steps to protect yourself and not be in this situation in future.

I don't know if I can be in a room with her again

You can never be alone with her. As regards seeing her with friends - just barrel through it. You'll be fine.

S0n_Of_Zeus · 2017-05-21T16:32:27+00:00

You need to tell your friend exactly what happened.

If he is truly your friend he will trust and believe you.

NimbleStorm · 2017-05-21T18:50:05+00:00

This is sexual harassment at the very least, what can you legally do about it though, I have no idea. Personally I would make it a point to not be in a room alone with her again, and perhaps record when permissible.

Some may question your actions OP, giving alternate advices about whether you should take advantage of this opportunity. Whatever you're personal morals are, it seems you've made it a point to stick with them. Continue to do so with this unfaithful cunt that gives the title "wife" a bad name. Setting boundaries and sticking to them is often repeated around here, and for good reason.

It's sucks that this is what it is right now. It leaves a bitter taste in your mouth and makes you really question what relationships mean to different people. It'll get better though. Focus on your mission. If, in the end, it doesn't include your friendship with that couple, than so be it. You've got bigger fish to fry.

I wish you success in all future endeavors.

TheLaughingRhino · 2017-05-22T00:27:31+00:00

I worked with a truly top 1 percent guy for a long time. My older brother is a top 5 percent guy.

Just by exposure, seeing what most women, married women and women supposedly in committed relationships do around them, or try to do around them, it's pretty sad.

As Chris Rock said, most women are constantly evaluating their next best option ( i.e. they know who they are going to sleep with next) The "most" probably comes from factoring in the subset of women who don't have those options, but would likely exploit them if they could.

My older brother said it best, if she's not engaged or more, she's single. Totally and completely single. He wasn't talking about his view on them, he didn't mess with chicks in relationships, he meant their view on everyone else. Everyone has cracks they want to hide. I knew a couple that "seemed perfect" he was high status with a super high earning career, she was a close to SAHM with a part time job she liked and the kids were popular and doing well, they had a good social life and all the trappings of the American dream. He is under constant stress of keeping and performing at his career. He slips, he stops earning, he can't keep up the lifestyle she is used to, the private schools, the nice house in the nice neighborhood, and she will leave him. He's cheated on her before, she's ignored it because his status is too high for her to leave. She pretends it doesn't happen.

People you think have good marriages, look closer. People you think have ideal relationships, look closer. It was the tagline in the movie American Beauty - Look Closer.

You rejected her, she will systematically eliminate you from your friends life. She stayed as long as she did because if you slept with her, you'd have to share the shame, that you did not means you can tell the guy and expose her or try to, she's not sure what you will do next.

Hire a private detective, spend the money. If she wants to cheat with you, she's going to be banging some other dude on the side. Get evidence, copies made, send it anonymously to every person at her job, every person at her church, every person that was at her wedding, every friend she has, all of both sides of the family. Once she's established as a trollop, she can't throw a false rape claim at you.

As for you not doing anything wrong, as my older brother told me as a kid, with regards to women - You are there, that's all you need to be do to be wrong in their eyes.

Linoran · 2017-05-21T22:49:48+00:00

When this happens I fake beta behavior.

Trustedflipper8 · 2017-05-21T15:57:18+00:00

Is this erotica or something ? Also if this did happen you where RAPED dude you need to talk to the freind and get things cleared up she forced inappropriate contact on you

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-05-21T17:11:59+00:00

This is tough...

Damned if you do - You tell the husband she made a pass at you and he doesn't believe you and she then creates some fake story (fake news) where Russia... I mean you are the one that made a pass at her. Your friendship is destroyed.

Damned if you don't - You say nothing and grow some balls and insist you won't fuck her. She still makes up fake news and this time FBI ex-director Comey will verify you actually fucked her.

Option Three - You fuck her once then get her to agree that it will remain forever a secret.

nolanite · 2017-05-21T19:09:57+00:00

I commend you for being as moral as you were. There aren't many men like that anymore. I have a friend who was just like you, and just like you, he shunned his friends' wives and girlfriends when they pulled shit like this with him, but eventually, he broke in one instance. It started an affair that nearly ruined his life.

He's a human being, so while I was disappointed that he broke that once, I also appreciated that he, at least, took that long to break. So many instances before that had him act like you did here.

Good for you.

iamneptuno · 2017-05-22T13:35:39+00:00

Halo effect has its downsides, yes.

NamledaEcteff · 2017-05-22T02:05:16+00:00

You hid in a bathroom because a woman wanted you to fuck her? Am I reading this right? You asked a woman to move and she didnt move? You were physically unable to leave a room because of a woman? This is a joke thread isnt it?

UrsusG · Sun May 21 16:00:11 2017 UTC

Fanfic? Humblebrag? Trolling the community to see how we react?

WTF is the purpose of your post?

Title	I am so tired.
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Date	May 21, 2017 3:46 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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