"I have honestly turned guys down before because they were TOO nice and accommodating to me." RedPill truths everywhere in r/askmen.

seattleron · 2015-02-16T19:13:30+00:00

And my personal preference, I also like men who will tell me what to do a little bit. Who will step up and say some harsh things without being too afraid of hurting my feelings. Some things need to be said, and some times I just need to be told when we are having sex whether I feel like it or not.

If only more guys understood this. Sometimes chicks WANT to be told to fuck off, shut up, sit down, no you wont, time for you to go, GTFO, maybe next time, no we're not, etc.

Why? Because it shows you're a man and that is attractive to a woman, it's the same reason a woman being sweet and thoughtful is attractive to you.

This shit is not that hard to understand.

darkstout · 2015-02-16T20:00:47+00:00

Women categorize men into either lovers or providers. Practically every romantic film has two men, each playing this trope.

Alpha Fux/Beta Bux. It's always been this way.

Remember that "Beta Bucks" is more than about money. He is a safe emotional provider. His emotional commitment is his currency. And he usually gives it too freely, like a slut spreading her legs for low status men. How can a woman respect such a man?

screamingATtrees · 2015-02-16T19:06:51+00:00

Woman have "preferences"

Men have "fetishes"

DevilBoyZero · 2015-02-16T20:17:43+00:00

I can't have meaningless sex with him. He's not the hookup kind of guy. He is boyfriend or husband material...

That bit me. Makes me wonder if the reason girls don't want to fuck me is because they see me as "boyfriend material", and it turns out that they're just a bunch of dumb sluts who are looking to fuck a bunch of guys until they hit the wall and decide it's time to commit.

Fuck that. I don't want to be a fuckboy, nor do I want to to be the boyfriend of some girl who's already been slammed by slews of other men. Neither of those would be fulfilling. For that reason, I go my own way.

tombreck2 · 2015-02-16T20:08:05+00:00

Comments from women on reddit should be taken with a grain of salt.

Google images of "reddit meetup" and you'll see what I mean

Transmigratory · 2015-02-16T21:13:54+00:00

If we at RedPill were to say "You need to tell your girlfriend she is having sex whether she feels like it or not", we would be branded as rapist misogynists and the quote would be all over the internet for months. But when a woman says it, that just makes her a strong independent female who knows what she wants.

Hence why when we use RP or RP material in life, we should seriously STFU about it. Use it silently; don't be vocal about it.

Transmigratory · 2015-02-16T21:15:22+00:00

He is boyfriend or husband material, and I don't want to be the woman who fucks him over for the rest of his life.

Why do most people forget being boyfriend/husband material? A lot of women think like this... an overwhelming majority, in fact.

killcat · 2015-02-16T19:24:09+00:00

"This is fucking rich. He's husband or boyfriend material... and therefore I shouldn't have sex with him! Because you know, having sex with your husband and boyfriend is such an unheard of, and scandalous, thing to do! Perfectly illustrates alpha bux, beta bux right here."

I disagree slightly its entirely possible she means "I don't want to hook him if I have to dump him later because I move" although that's probably for her benefit rather than his.

Title	"I have honestly turned guys down before because they were TOO nice and accommodating to me." RedPill truths everywhere in r/askmen.
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Upvotes	16
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Date	February 16, 2015 6:10 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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