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[–]MEpicLevelCheater[M] [score hidden] 8 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
Banning OP for not reading our rules, and banning everyone in here who answered this fucking question, [https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6uwtcp/reminder_do_not_ask_personal_questions_or_you/](per our recent policy post).
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Read about Ronald Reagan, Winston Churchill, and other men through history. Esp. Those who the elite talked shit on. Ignore the politics if you must, but focus on life course.
[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
You think the Elite took a shit on Ronald Regan? Ronald Regan acted as an FBI informant during his Hollywood days reporting all the libs for wrong think.
Regan sucked the Elites dick and they returned the favor. It was a 69 of Regan and the Military Industrial Complex.
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He only snitched on communists.
[–]Captain_Save_A_Hoe_ 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Here's a list of things OP needs:
1)To make boundaries on first contact so he cannot be mentally abused by malevolent people.
2)Stoicism. Stoicism. Stoicism. It takes some real nuts to go do shit you don't like and keep doing it even when you feel like shit for the remaining day and everything turned abysmally for you. Read anything by Marcus Aurelius or just Google "Stoicism books". You will get a whole list and you cant go wrong.
Here's what the IRC channel suggests and it has done wonders for me:
http://sergenubretforever.com/serge-nubret-workout-method/
http://www.phystopia.com/index.php/2017/08/17/intermittent-fasting-one-meal-per-day/
[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Hurr Durr 6-7 days a week because I don't understand what recovery is and I don't train hard enough to need it.
Hurr Durr I dont know the difference between Anabolics and pain killers.
Hurr Durr let's recommend books to a guy who needs a ground up psychological transformation.
Just really wish cluless idiots would stop giving generic thoughtless advice. But you never will.
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Then how about you give some (however harsh) constructive advice instead of just being an asshole ?
[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My advice is to join a Mexican boxing gym and have Pablo beat the victim mentality out of you. If you think your faggot ass first world problems are a big deal your not being punched hard enough or frequently enough.
You need to discover the Real. The Mexicans can help with that.
[–]2mental_models1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
gancho izquierdo Yea, 6-7 days/week is physical therapy, not training. wtf @ the steroids pseudoadvice coming from left field. Matterfact... backup... Reagan on a 'masculinity pedestal'?(*I fully understand his deifying in certain political circles, just never knew about the alpha male side). I feel like I just got caught w/ a left hook that I never saw coming. The ring is spinning.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not gonna lie, that had me howling.
[–]Rznk138 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I've been told that steroids are bad, because women are attracted to effort and steroids take effort away from lifting.
[–]russbussdp2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women don't give a fuck about effort. Just results.
[–]Old_Memes_Never_Die0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah that's like the only one true big downside of steroids.
[–]Daddie02 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry to hear what you went and are going through. I didn't have it as bad as you growing up, I do understand some of the shame.
It sounds like you are on a good start reading those books, keep going.
You are lucky to have realized this at 17, I wish I would have.
[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link
This shit post is value leaching it's exactly what every other woman and beta fag was does. First you start off with a few paragraphs on why I should feel sorry for you, despite the fact that you grew up in the most prosperous decadent country on Earth and have it better then 95% of the world's population.
Last week I skyped a Jamaican teen who made money cleaning chicken coops. Before that it was an Egyptian kid who was beaten senseless, he wanted a workout plan for someone with a fractured rib. But your just a fagwad who wants me to feel bad for him.
Sorry I don't feel sorry for first world decadent faggots. Go join a boxing gym in a working class neighborhood. Obviously thats not the feel good advice you were looking for so just fuck off and go back to watching Netflix and masterbating.
[–]lovesalkali 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I get your point and I hate the victim attitude too but tbf the guy was abused as a kid. Doesn't matter if you were raised in Buckingham Palace or Somalia that shit still affects you. Just tell the guy to start lifting instead of telling him to fuck off maybe?
[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If he doesn't know our policy on lifting he's clinicaly retarded. He just wants to hand out tickets to his pity party. A beta faggot only stops being a beta faggot when it's too painful to continue to be a beta faggot.
Judging from his first couple paragraphs he hasn't reached that point yet. You can't rush the process.
[–]throwawaygod12x5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I agree with the guy above , dont you think your being just a bit to harsh?
[–]aanarchist5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
he's simply following what trp told him to do, being a douche is better than being a pussy, but he never learned how to be both strong and kind.
[–]Snazzy_Serval0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What kind of garbage is this?
People who live in a first world country can't have problems?
Your post is unnecessarily hostile.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
You are a prick , is this seriously how you respond to people who have just discovered the red pill and come on here asking for advice ? I'm not asking for sympathy nor am I saying I have had a hard life , I'm merely explaining what I believe to be responsible for my psychological make up , a boy raised by a man and having been around strong masculine figures will clearly have developed different behaviour patterns from someone who has had the exact opposite.
[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
The Red Pill is only the Red Pill when it's ugly. If you didn't know that then you are an illiterate. Your explanation of your life is an invitation to your pity party. Sorry I don't want to attend. Your also trying to shift the blame onto your parents. All I'm seeing from you is externalization of your problem.
The Red Pill is a Hypermasculine community either get with the program or head over to Men's Rights MGTOW AskCucks. You can jerk each other off while using your tears as lube.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I'm not blaming anyone or asking for pity , I'm simply asking the opinion of what makes a beta , and what a beta can do about it , I've read and read and have now pointed out my specific flaws , and you've took the time out of your day to just be a dickhead instead of offering any sort of constructive criticism.
[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
All of this is constructive criticism. Your just not a person constructive enough to restructure yourself.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
But I've came on here asking for advice on how to do that and you've not given one bit of advice ?
[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
asking
Then go to asktrp. We aren't your personal therapists.
[–]Sartyrh2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
1) Read the sidebar.
2) Lift.
3) ???????
4) Profit.
[–]Endorsed ContributorUrsusG3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All of his responses ARE advice, you just refuse to see it because it's inconvenient advice that pokes you in the feelies the wrong way.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
"Your" good at using the whole "tough love" approach.
[–]Old_Memes_Never_Die0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Good cop / bad cop TRP version seems to be Bad cop / Bad cop.
Though they're right, if you can't even brush off comments by strangers on the internet you have a problem.
Go lift some shit and get out there instead of thinking books are a magic thing that will teach you life.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
As a 23 year veteran teacher in a rough urban high school, I have seen my share of fake tough guys like "Lube." They make me laugh, especially when they spout "bad-ass" wisdom using "your" instead of you're. Also, books ARE magic thing(s). I've been lifting for 34 years and, at 45, 4 years ago, my 3 lift total was over 1700lbs.
[–]Old_Memes_Never_Die0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Books are nothing without actions and that is true for any field what I meant is that you should start by action without caring if you re doing it the right way, when you can act then you can start to find the right way to do it.
As for GLO I think he said that because his post reeked of self pity and justification of his bad situation saying that somehow he didnt deserve that, but hey you get what you deserve.
He shouldnt care about his past, if he's still caring that much and still defined by it then he's not ready to move on and change.
TL;DR : Yes you're a piece of shit, don't care about why it happened it is YOUR fault and you will be greater because of YOUR actions.
[–]3LiveAFTSOV0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
pics or it didnt happen
gg
[–]aanarchist0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
take careful note of his behavior and how it affects you, this is how he was made to feel and he created his persona to push back against the people who affected him the way he's affecting you now, which is basically the mentality of fight fire with fire. the reason i'm saying this is to warn you that you don't become a red pill sociopath like 90% of the betas on here. it's all one giant defense mechanism over the shame they feel over having emotions that don't fit in the box of what is acceptable for a man to feel and what is not acceptable, as well as their inability to handle those emotions in a productive manner. there's no shame in having emotions, it's proof that you're human. the point of trp is in what you do with those emotions, and you have the choice of either responding negatively or positively to them. you can take your suffering and your pain and let it motivate you to do better for yourself, that's what trp actually is. as for the morons that are going to try to tear you down for saying anything besides parroting what they say, think of it as a shit test, like hazing if you know what that is. imbalanced people will try to abuse you to conform to their expectations of you, and you can choose to either let the weight crush you into conformity, or you can rise above it and choose to become your own man.
[–]MEpicLevelCheater[M] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You did not read our rules. No personal advice questions in the main sub.
A lack of respect for a lack of respect. Enjoy your ban.
[–]2mental_models0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are becoming self-aware, and that can be a painful frame to hold. Keep growing. Your upbringing sounds like it was very tough, and may have slowed your development (becoming a man now @ 29, rather than 18), but now your life is in your hands. You are free to move on, and work on yourself and become the person you want.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm not offended or hurt by anyone's comments , I actually think mrlubeoil is very funny , I'm simply Admiting my shortcomings , pointing out some factors that may have contributed to it , and asking what someone like me can do about it , you guys are making out that I already know what to do but I'm too pussy to do it , most of the responses could easily be translated to "you should already be an alpha , if you are not , fuck off" Which makes no sense
[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Really your not offended because I remember you calling me a bully. How can a bully bully without offending. This is beta male double think. Your rationalizion hamster is a powerful one. Either way my advice was to join a Mexican boxing gym and have the delusions beaten out of you.
Kinda hard to misinterpret that. But you'll find a way.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Pointing out that someone is displaying bullying behaviour does norm make me offended. Ok thanks
[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Considering my statements to be bullying implies that you are offended. Honest question. Are you stupid or just delusional. I sincerely want to know.
What is your highest level of academic achievement? What are you standardized test scores?
I want to know if I'm helping you wake up or if I'm beating a hopeless retard who has no idea what's happening.
What's your sat verbal or national equivalent?
[–]nyamiraman0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eat meat, eggs, increase testosterone, be man.
[–]silverspork19860 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lift weights. Best course of action for changing your phsyique, and your mind. It's easy as hell to figure out a routine and diet, just through reading online, unless you are a dolt.
If you go 6 days a week you don't push yourself (don't know how to be intense).
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Also I do lift , and I do jui jitsu , when ever I get bigger or stronger I self sabotage and find reasons to not be successful , as I don't feel that I deserve to be successful , the same goes for my business decisions or anything good that comes into my life , I've came here to what I thought would be masculine male leaders who want to help other males not wannabe alpha bullies who just want to shoot others down. The reason I mentioned abuse was not for sympathy , it was to find some answers and opinions on how having the idea , that you are worth nothing , hammered into your head from a young age can surely have an effect on your self esteem as a man.
[–]Endorsed ContributorUrsusG1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude.
The shooting down and the 'alpha bullying' by GLO is part of the process.
You need to develop a thick skin first, then become really angry and focused, instead of talking about your problems like a woman.
Because you are talking about them like a woman. You approach them with a female mindset, female thought patterns and female language.
tl,dr: harden the fuck up, get angry, stop reading, start lifting.
Obviously thats not the feel good advice you were looking for so just fuck off (...)
Yeah, kinda.
I get that , this is exactly what I mean , i understand and dislike how I am behaving and how I think , I agree with what lubeguy is saying , I'm simply asking what can I do about it ?
[–]Beesto51 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What can you do? You can man the fuck up and OYS, stop complaining, and start the process. Read the fucking sidebar, from top to bottom. You're here. It doesn't matter where the fuck you started. The only thing that ever fucking matters is where you're at, and where you're going. It's a rough process. The reason you are getting shit from everyone here is that they aren't going to baby you like some woman, nobody gives two fucks about your life growing up.
The other thing you CAN do, is read these harsh comments and rationalize that we are all cunts and assholes who love picking on other people who ask for advice, trying to make ourselves feel more "alpha". Funny coincidence, that would be such an EASY way to not do ANYTHING at all, so that way you can go back to enjoying your festering, pushover, beta life without Actually having to do any work, or take any real responsibility. I wonder how long you'll be able to live with that feeling though.
The difference between you and someone who was raised with a strong masculine presence in their life, is that other person had no option but to go through it, develop thick skin, Not Give A Fuck about what other people think, and be masculine. You have a backup option: keep doing nothing and continue being beta, because it's so fucking easy! You don't HAVE to do anything.
[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well then you must Cuck lift and go to a snuggle huggle Jui Jitsu gym where the penis hold and ball fondle technique is emphasized. I've never met a man who could deadlift double bodyweight with a victim mentality so advanced. But I've met a lot of half asseers in the gym.
The fact that you are a sympathy begger is readily apparent. Also a lot of rationalizion here. Dr. GaylubeOil has successfully diagnosed the problem.
Have you been to therapy yet? If so I'd recommend it as you seem to have a few issues going beyond women.
Fear of success and self-sabotage are things you absolutely need to get taken care of.
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