By working I mean not on the intellectual or superficial level.Had been texting back and forth with this chick.Tried giving her a call to set up a date up and her phone goes to voice mail.She sends a text back saying "I'll call you back in a bit". In my BP days I would have been waiting on my phone to ring in case I miss her call, wondering what's taking her so long.

Instead today I went on my way and started reading about computer programming.Glad to report back I made my first HelloWorld program.And by the time she did call back(5 hrs later) I was on such a high from my albeit small achievement, I went into some kind of zone where I got her to agree to pick me up and she is paying for dinner.