I'm really confused and I need some help.

ANALGAPE · 2013-06-07T19:53:42+00:00

angry at my parents for not telling me the bullshit that awaits me.

Just keep in mind that they probably don't know any better.

TDCRedPill · 2013-06-07T19:51:15+00:00

But what do I do?

What YOU want to do. Yeah, it's weird understanding that you have that choice, but it's all on you to decide and execute.

Do I shun relationships?

That's up to you. If you want a relationship, you can go the extra step to say you want a relationship that improves your life. Then you can judge the relationships you're in to see if they meet that criteria, and discard relationships that don't meet that criteria.

Do I stay celibate forever?

If you want, but I doubt that's the case.

are misguided, both biologically and by society. But what do I do? Do I shun relationships? Do I stay celibate forever? I'm at a point where I am angry at society for not correcting this, angry at my parents for not telling me the bullshit that awaits me, and I'm angry at women who use men (knowingly or unknowingly).

Get over it. The world, society, everyone, doesn't owe you squat, nor vise versa. The anger will pass, especially when you realize that this new mindset shows a world of endless opportunity. It will seem daunting. It is kinda daunting. But you'll realize you MUST live it, and quickly realize you CAN live it, and in short order you'll love the hell out of it more than you ever did before.

socal83 · 2013-06-07T20:50:20+00:00

that strange feeling of confusion you have is the feeling people get when they realize they have freedom to do what they like.

30303030303030 · 2013-06-07T20:01:40+00:00

Do I shun relationships?

if that's what you want

Do I stay celibate forever?

are you crazy? Why would you do that? Pussy is great.

I'm at a point where I am angry at society for not correcting this

stop expecting anything good from society

angry at my parents for not telling me the bullshit that awaits me

Your father is probably a beta and doesn't know. Does you no good to think about it, you know and that's it.

I'm angry at women who use men (knowingly or unknowingly)

we all are/were. It will pass. Usually few months. Keep on improving yourself and keep learning, soon bitterness will go away and you will see them clearly, as they are.

I really don't have a clue what my approach to love should be

Give it time, let it mature. Nobody will tell you what you should think and how to approach love. I'm personally fighting myself to not fall in love. Does me no good to be in love, every time I've been in love my life turned to worse because of it.

[deleted] · 2013-06-07T19:50:15+00:00

As quoted by the character from Matrix, upon which this subreddit is themed, "All I'm offering is the truth, nothing more." Most people in the subreddit seem to be of one consensus - go out with women, have sex with them, but don't get them pregnant and by God, do not marry.

In essence, you are given Red Pill knowledge and it's up to you how to use it. I, for example, am very much the most-beta of social betas. Can't flirt with girls or relate to most people. I know I could probably read a lot of material and get some game to put on an alpha disguise, but I choose not to, I just do my own thing in life. You've got choose what you want to - be a PUA and pump and dump, stop paying attention to women all together or whatever else? It's up to you.

pirateundies · 2013-06-07T20:20:04+00:00

Do I shun relationships? Do I stay celibate forever?

For now? Yeah, I'd say shun relationships. But just go get laid. As long as you're angry you won't develop any healthy relationships with the girls around you (no matter what the level of commitment).

Eventually you'll stop being angry and that's when you'll be able to think about how to develop healthy relationships that are right for you.

anthropophobe · 2013-06-08T03:56:21+00:00

There is no need to give up on relationships. The idea is to get what you want, to be successful, and you have to choose what that is for you.

A big part of that is realizing that women are not special. They are about as good, evil, clever, stupid, honest or deceptive as men. They want sex about as much as men. The one asymmetry is that a majority of women want a man to dominate them sexually, and in the current public mind this is unacceptable.

Of course women are attracted to men who are confident, who demonstrate high social status, have lots of money, and are physically attractive. That is the most obvious thing in the world. So get out there and hit the gym and go to school and get a solid career and be sociable.

Yes, guys have feelings of insecurity, laziness, and weakness too, but it makes no sense to think that women would be attracted to that; who the hell would?

Just get out and live and succeed. There are many clever women out there who are not fooled by fake, short-term stimuli and who can deliver a good long-term experience, if that's what you're looking for.

ubercoolhipsterguy · 2013-06-07T19:27:06+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/179n1g/is_going_through_severe_anger_part_of_the_process/

redpillschool · 2013-06-07T20:52:20+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1fss9l/mod_announcement_red_pill_dating_live_advice_chat/

VZPurp · 2013-06-07T22:33:53+00:00

I'm angry at women who use men (knowingly or unknowingly).

You don't have to let them use you. Cat's outta the bag! Shazam!

Title	I'm really confused and I need some help.
Author	ultranumb_360
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	June 7, 2013 7:17 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1fvq4v/im_really_confused_and_i_need_some_help/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/im-really-confused-and-i-need-some-help.4747 https://theredarchive.com/post/4747

Comments