When it comes to being a man of value having a strong inner game(genuine internal strength/confidence)is absolutely crucial and more important than having a strong outer game(looks/body). The redpill community preaches to get in shape and max your looks potential. While that is very important, a man’s real value to women when it comes to arousal is in his inner strength.

We as men are motivated to have sex and procreate with women solely based on their looks. When it comes to our commitment we do look for more in a woman(feminine qualities) but as for straight arousal and sex we men focus solely on a woman’s looks. It doesn’t matter whether she works at McDonalds, she is super shy, or she is a bitch, we men are still drawn to want to fuck that hot girl whether it’s multiple fucks or a ONS.Our biological drive is to spread the seed with many beautiful healthy women and pass as many healthy offspring into the next generation.

But when it comes to women it is very different. Sex on a evolutionary level is more risky for women. A man can spread his seed with multiple women so if one of the offspring dies he still has a lot more remaining or the potential to make a lot more. But for women they can only have one kid at a set piece of time and each kid takes a toll on her body. Back in our evolutionary age before contraceptions, sex with a woman had a high chance of pregnancy and there was nothing you can do about it. The woman would then be impregnated and have to carry that one man’s baby. She would then be dependent on that man to protect and provide for 9 months while she is weak and vulnerable. This scenario made women a lot more selective of which man she would sleep with because her survival depended on it.

Today, we are in a new age of contraceptives and abortion so women of today are a lot more free of risk and less cautious with who they sleep with. So if they make a poor hypergamous decision there is still a chance that they can recover from that choice. But as science proves all the time in the end biology always wins. No matter how much contraceptives we invent today, a women’s primal brain doesn’t care and has not change from the brain of our evolutionary ancestors. So on a subconscious primal level women are still as selective today of who they sleep with. (FYI alcohol does weaken that primal filter tho). This is why women can not fuck a man until she at least shit tested him a few times to in order to test his inner strength.

Back in the evolutionary age, a man’s inner strength is what determined whether his family survived or not. He could be big as fuck with a lot of muscle but if inside he was a scared weak bitch who was a slave to his emotions his family would die right along side him. You could look like “the Rock” but as soon as a saber tooth tiger approached you and your family , fear took over you and you were the tiger’s next meal. So when it comes to survival a man’s inner strength is everything and primally a woman knows that and relies on it.

This is why the “shit test” is inevitable when you are getting close to fucking a female. They say when a woman shit test you, she wants to fuck you.Your looks can get you in the door but on a primal level a woman MUST test your inner strength before she can allow you to get inside her .She deploys vague shit test(subconsciously sometimes) in order to watch your reaction gauging how strong your inner strength is. Primally, she is just testing to see how you handle/react to the shit test because if you can’t handle a shit test how can you handle a saber tooth tiger lurking near your family.

So while it is good to workout and max your looks, it is better to have a strong inner game than to have a strong outer game. It is the difference between getting looked at and actually getting the girl in bed.