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[–]PlanB_pedofile 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
MRA is like the anger phase.
Thing about phases is it should be temporary.
Get fucked over by a female society? Get angry, hate women, call out the bullshit, but then move on... don't stay stuck in the anger ohase wor you'll never reach the improvement and other phases.
A guy I know got fucked over in a divorce. He's bitter over it. Very very bitter. It's been 20 years since he was divorced and still bitter like it happened 3 months ago. His anger prevents him from moving forward.
I had my mra anger phase. Then accepted the awalt and gone about my life.
Society is unfair, the feminists are taking over. Adapt, lift, spin plates, tinder, and alpha up.
[–]redpillthrower 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am feeling these days that this sub is a phase in of itself...like all good things come to an end, and i have already learned what i needed to do from this sub
[–]1Dev_on 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm so glass I wasn't the only one. I was getting ready to unsubscribe there for a while
[–]TRPocracy 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are we lumping things like #likeagirl and paternity testing in the same category?
I'm not really concerned with some menial social trend but the paternity testing laws (specifically during divorce) is something I feel TRP should be able to discuss. That's just my opinion though.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
exactly. I come here to learn more, not be brought down were told that there's no way any of this going to work because boy is it working. I've never been happier and never enjoyed meeting women as much as I do now. I'm 46, I've been out of monk mode for 3 weeks. I am finally enjoying interacting with women in a sexual way. No longer something I fear it's something I look forward to.
[–]rainbowhotpocket 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
It's just noise, man. Let it go over your head.
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We all control the thoughts we let take hold in our minds. We can let them piss us off and wreck our day, week, month, etc, or we can let them pass and focus on what will help us better ourselves and those we care about.
[–]PookIsLovePookIsLife 15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly. Refreshing post.
I wish some of the MRA/Feminist News posts could be kept to a minimum. What is the point, exactly? We live in a feminized society, that's clear. I'd love to see more posts about how to exploit RP knowledge in order to improve our lives instead of focusing on the suffering of BP AFCs.
[–][deleted] 24 points25 points26 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Life is good indeed. No whinging, just pure hardwork. Lift, make dough, use every woman to fulfill your needs. Laugh at the idiots making the mistakes you made ever so often (also at the idiots ruining this place for me). Best part? It will only get better.
[–]getomc 10 points11 points12 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It can only ever get better, if you work for it, because you got a dick.
In some of my favorite words on the subject by Hank Hill, "We got the long end of the stick on this one, Bobby, don't knock it."
[–]Poskito 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The constant negativity is what puts me off this sub
[–]RedSweetBeans 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Constant Negativity?
Yeah maybe that's true from time to time. However negativity is a part of the transition and becoming a RP Man because a lot of men start TRP from the bottom of the barrel something needs to open their eyes.
Just enjoy the bad and the good parts,
And as always go lift
[–]fuck_da_haes 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks so much for this post, all the MRA posts make me feel like a shit (or at least paint the world like a shitty place). I have a great job with huge possibilities to rise, I lift, I ran, I fuck plates or ONSs, I have my own place and no debts outside the mortgage ... fuck! I live a dream! And yeah, thanks TRP, it would be much hurder to achieve most of it without finding this place.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I did three shows in three nights this weekend. I was knucking fackered yesterday and the promoter on Saturday was a dick.
But about 1000 people enjoyed seeing me doing what I love to do. Life is good.
[–]rainbowhotpocket1 points 11 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Way to do something you love, man
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I forgot to mention that I got my first groupie from this industry. That's how much fun I had performing
whydid you delete your original post? Did the mods take it down?
[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorNightwingTRP 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I think TRP is inclined towards realism rather than optimism.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The realism perspective is being poisoned by whiny betas complaining about Double Standards favoring women. Or threads where a man provided for 20 years only to have his wife leave him after "all he did for her." This is all nice guy passive aggressive beta bullshit that is masquerading as Red Pill.
[–]1Dev_on 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The problem is that people are equating anger and negative for realistic. Most things are a matter of perspective, and just being a dick doesn't make things more honest
[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorNightwingTRP 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yet not being a dick when it's needed means you're avoiding honesty in favour of feels. As in all things RP, calibration is key.
The problem is that people are equating anger and negative for realistic.
This is a bad attitude to have because the anger stage is real and needs to be worked through. Obviously it is not the realistic end product of where we want to be, but it is still realistic. No less realistic than the acceptance which comes after. See the current stickied post on hate. If you have reached acceptance, you need to be tolerant of your brothers who have not. It has to be worked through and we're here to support each other because there is no support network for the majority of men anymore. That's realism. It's not all good or bad. The way we calibrate is what is good or bad.
[–]NotTheFlash2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Life isn't good for seahawks fans right now...
But i gotta say, yeah life is fucking awesome. All in all, there are too much posts in here repeating the same depressing stories. You gotta go out and experience all the awesomeness, without always having awalt or double standards or whatever in mind.
Even then, wasn't so bad. You have to admit, that you got a good bang for your Buck that game. Jesus only gives 5 miracles a game, they needed 6 was all.
I feel bad for that catch. Could have literally been the guy who win the Superbowl with a miracle catch on his back. Now it was just a cool play
[–]bihari_baller 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha yea, I honestly don't know what Russell Wilson was thinking. We'll come back strong next year though.
[–]rainbowhotpocket 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha they should've run Marshawn
[–]RapistHere 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I stopped visiting r/mensrights because I felt they had brought themselves down to modern day feminism's level and weren't doing anything important. Every day the top posts were "radical feminist blog said this! imagine the outrage if the tables were turned" and I would comment "yes but why are you entertaining an argument made by a niche source with low-credibility?" to many downvotes.
I like redpill because there's a lot of emphasis on improving yourself. I don't personally agree with all the ideas that you guys have but I don't think that's a bad thing at all. I'm a very critical person and I love to play devil's advocate even where there is consensus.
It's important to have a men's rights presence here, but only to the extent of empowering yourself. For example, maybe once a week have a thread where we talk about gender issues and tie into it how redpill can help. Instead of fixating on how the government and other institutions use a false wage gap statistic of women .77 men 1 and why this is malicious, just briefly acknowledge that it happens and talk about how you should rise above the complaining and focus on doing the best you can at your job as a means of furthering your career. Talking in depth and at length about what is happening and why it's wrong just makes you more depressed, anxious, paranoid, and cynical.
[–]thederpist666 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like this post. Despite the world's bullshit, I have a goal and am working toward something and it feels really good. A lot of people go wandering through life without purpose. My goal is to get an advanced degree and get out of the city and live life. I also am always trying to pick up new skills. A lot of people seem to just want to go to bars and be in a bunch of cliche social circles, but I have always respected red pillers for their drive to achieve a higher goal in life and be the best person they can be.
[–]soccerplusaviation 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your right man. Being able to see the world from the right lens, making improvements in all aspects in my life, my hardwork is paying off. Life is good.
[–]heyImMattlol 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck yes. It's such an awesome time to be alive. Even "existing" is something to be deliriously happy about.
Lift weights, read books, have sex, make music. Those are all the things I need to be happy.
[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TRP is about sexual strategy in a feminist dominated world.
Since I unplugged the sex in my marriage has gone from twice a month to every other day.
Life is good.
Thanks for the reminder and thanks TRP.
[–]DrinksCrystalKush 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The amount of reading in these comments is just sad and boring.
This sub is becoming more and more activist, which is fucking waste of time and energy.
The front page is full of whining wussies violating one of the first premisses of mature masculinity: first accept, then set out to change. Don't go whine on the internet.
Also we used to call on each other bullshit, now tribe mentality is getting stronger and everyone is agreeing with who has more upvotes.
[–]1knitro 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Great sentiment but I think you're fighting against the tide that's already overrun this place.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Traditionally the mods will identify an annoying new trend and purge it. I'm surprised this hasn't happened with the mensrights bullshit increase. I doubt it will since there's a mensrights flair, but if I want to view mensrights material I'll go to r mensrights.
[–]1Dev_on 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can't really filter it with my phone app, so kind of annoying
Maybe that's true, but i think this MRA wave is temporary.
[–]Trail_of_Jeers 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Life is. I feel pretty good about some of it.
Excellent post on focus. What we focus on is what we become, and we only have a little bit of focus to give.
And you don't sound like a concern troll - too much.
I wish the new male handshake would be to hit each other as hard as you possibly can in the gut. That's how satisfying your post was to read.
[–]ProjectShamrock 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bitch about the fact that the next president of the USA will likely be female
I don't want to get into a political debate here, but this idea amuses me more than concerns me. The reason is because obviously, any woman who becomes president is going to have very masculine behaviors. It's like with Barack Obama being elected people were expecting him to be like Jesse Jackson or Snoop Lion and instead he's just another politician.
Your post just gave me a sense of calm and happiness. Thanks.
[–]jerrytheman1998 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're right but having opinions and sticking to it is pretty RP but like you said these whining posts ain't helping anybody
[–]NeoreactionSafe 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Always find ways to experience things in life that are good.
In some ways Red Pill is about UNBLOCKING your natural instinct to feel good.
It's being Beta and internally blocked that makes you feel twisted and tortured.
MGTOW is after all letting your inner animal "go it's own way" and be free.
[–]rainbowhotpocket1 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Agreed. Betas are unhappy simply because they're unsuccessful.
[–]NeoreactionSafe 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
And the irony if we take this line of reasoning further is that it's the feminine "model of happiness" that makes the Beta miserable.
The switch from dreamlike happiness (feminine and hamster wheel driven) to the more grounded stoic and masculine frame means we stop chasing those sugar highs. We stop caring and no longer seek that approval.
The masculine mind holds an amused mastery type of pleasure. (calm, steady, relaxed, indifferent)
So it's an actual change in mental patterns.
Outcomes aren't required to be any different. (the success is in the unplugging)
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[–]silentao 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I really don't relate to the notion of MRA as "Whining".
A lot of aspects of today society are really hard for a lot of men, not everyone had the luck/insight of getting RP education. a lot of weak men are suffering in the sexual marketplace and in life generally because of the society view of men.
it used to be the same way (Even worse honestly) for women few hundred years ago, when they had zero rights and a lot of time were considered as property.
So egoistically speaking saying just cope with the current system, is the practical short term solution. But the real greatness is changing the social circumstances. It's harder, not as rewarding as going selfish red pill - but it will help much more men than just preaching red pill.
I think a real man should do both, Improve yourself and become stronger. But also be a good person and try to make society a better place for the weak men that can't sometimes fend for them self.
TL:DR WEAK MEN ARE VICTIMS, NOT VILLAINS, on the long term MRA has the potential to make the world a better place.
They are victims. I agree. But I personally don't care. If i care about a specific person, i help them to get stronger.
[–]silentao 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, I personally believe in doing good for masses of people even if i don't know them. But morals are subjective.
I don't understand though why bashing people who trying to do good, by presenting them as negative and whining.
I have a really good life, but still - I really wish i could do more to help other people who have it worse. Trying to get people attention to unjust social norms is really important. Shit doesn't have to be like it is right now - Society can be better towards both men and women.
The key for me was to find a balance where I hear all the chatter around me but still be able to not give a shit about anything other than what I can control. While I don't want go through life ignorant of the world we live in, I also don't want to be so wrapped up in my surroundings that I can't enjoy life.
A lot of the crap out there is just there to distract you. Don't let it.
[–]MrFritzH 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just ignore the whiney, MRA posts.
But it is kind of ruining this forum.
Yes, men must know the system is "rigged" in many legal ways. Once you know however, dwelling on such a thing that one cannot fix yourself will simply make you angry.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I am sad to say that as trp has grown the level of quality posts has drastically declined. Best post I've read this week.
Thanks my man. Just trying to spread a (real) positive attitude.
Yeah, being a better version of yourself is what the redpill is about, not reading about some bitch who cheated on some beta.
Have you guys not noticed how everyone is complaining all the time? Not just TRP but people everywhere.
Coworkers, family, friends, the guy behind the counter at the store, waiters, etc.
It's everywhere all the time. I never really noticed it until I really started listening via pill ears. It's also highly contagious. You stand with a group of people and the next thing you know complaints fall from thy own mouth.
I am very aware of it and do my best to avoid adding to it.
The other day I was at a restaurant and they had a guy playing guitar at peoples tables, everything was jolly and then he goes on to tell us about his dead dad and how shit his life is... This seriously spoils atmosphere, and just look I'm complaining about someone complaining... For fucks sake...
[–]Goldfulgore 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's how I live my life BUT
TRP should not change attitude. I wouldn't have abandonded my blue pill life if I read "yo man.....sssiiipp .... life is good" posts.
There should be some whining in TRP cause of the urgency of the situation.
[–]RejectionEquality -1 points-1 points-1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You know, all this feel-good positive thinking crap is the real problem with this world.
[–]rainbowhotpocket 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You like being miserable? Be my guest. I'm gonna enjoy life
[–]silentao 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What about being realistic?
Life is full of shit, cruelty and suffering. If you prefer hiding you head in the sand be my guest, Just don't bash people who can see the world for what it is.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lift that bar with a new personal bench max, shoulders and chest feeling liquidy
I don't believe in barbell bench press.
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