long distance

Blake55 · 2014-08-24T06:42:26+00:00

LDR is the epitome of scarcity mentality. A year is a very long time.

Scoundrel_ · 2014-08-24T07:13:09+00:00

Long-distance relationship = Fake-ass relationship

Real men have actual sex with actual women. Leave the Skype/texting bullshit to the delusional goobers.

rebuildingMyself · 2014-08-24T08:31:52+00:00

Agreeing to an LDR is failing a huge shit test. She gets relationship validation/beta bux from you while being given free reign to fuck local Alpha cock and have her hamster take care of the finer details.

Meanwhile you sit there with your dick in hand while she flakes on another Skype session, turning down potential relationships/plates right in front of you.

You only have this life. I suggest you split off and when she comes back then open up discussions of getting back together of you like. She's going to eventually fuck around anyway, might as well do the same yourself.

SkorchZang · 2014-08-24T12:01:41+00:00

Do not agree to LDR.

"Babe, I know how you feel, but... let's just take it as it comes, yeah? I want you to know you're a great girl and I look forward to pick up where we left off when you're back, if we're both single at the time. I don't want to rush us into anything, wouldn't be fair to either of us."

Then give her a hug and be all "best friends forever". Of course in reality, you absolutely aren't going to be her long distance friend/emotional tampon. You'll just be curtly polite, bare minimum texting to "stay in touch". Because you'll be fucking other girls. When she gets back where you are, then maybe the two of you rekindle something, don't burn any bridges there either dude, no need.

SupALupRT · 2014-08-24T20:24:37+00:00

How can you put your dick in her when shes so far away?

andrew53812 · 2014-08-24T23:18:41+00:00

If your woman knows your worth and always tells you what's up, doesn't hide shit, doesn't disappear or flake, always calls/texts you, treats you like a man...where is the problem?

When she knows your worth and you live your own life outside of her, she knows you can pick up a woman, she will be the same as any other woman nearby would be.

Some of these guys need to realize that no, not all women cheat. There is such thing as a female who is not fucking all the 'alpha cock' in the vicinity. Can you be there watching every second every day, no. Having trust in any relationship and not being a controlling douchebag is part of being a man.

This also belongs in r/asktrp.

TheReason13 · 2014-08-24T14:28:24+00:00

If you are currently in an LDR then you are a fool. Hopefully you posting this inquiry proves you are coming to your senses. This is a waste of your time. Break all contact without any explanation. Go no contact as in cold war no contact on her.

Johnny10toes · 2014-08-24T14:31:26+00:00

Like what? Unless you guys both make an effort to see each other regularly there is no relationship.

The only LDR I went into I had to get out of because we were young and there was no good way to see each other and I had a lot of other options I couldn't pursue while I was "with" her.

MontePrince · 2014-08-24T15:48:51+00:00

I am in a LDR. This girl sends me food all the time. A pizza is on the way as we speak. She just gave me money for medical bills and is helping me find a car. She calls me when she goes out and tells me who she is hanging out with and what she is doing. She is paying for me to come see her ($2000) in November. She'll be back home in January. She hasn't flaked on me one time.

FortunateBum · 2014-08-25T00:05:53+00:00

Cheat. And...she'll be cheating on you.

Why maintain the fiction? I hope you're getting something out of it.

Title	long distance
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	11
Comments	15
Date	August 24, 2014 6:38 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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