Looks obsession

hunting2fish · 2016-12-20T05:41:38+00:00

this is life. you are blessed with only one vessel. don't be ashamed of it. don't be so hard on yourself either bra. work out, don't smoke/drink and eat healthy. you know what you have to do to be the best version of yourself so just do it.

Swole_is_life · 2016-12-20T04:53:56+00:00

By...looking around you? The competition gets worse every day with the rise of obesity. Everybody can be fit and swole, so if you are you're already pretty far ahead of the curve even if you're not naturally attractive.

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2016-12-20T04:42:36+00:00

Confidence and not fretting over looks is how to get over it. You have to develop something special about yourself, and carry yourself with some mojo because of it and not fret about unchangeable things.

185poundsofhatredWIP · 2016-12-20T08:55:45+00:00

I have yet to see a butt-ugly dude having success thanks to frame or whatever else guys here will tell you is more important than looks. Some of us are just doomed to not get a hole to stick your penis in without paying money.

Auphor_Phaksache · 2016-12-20T05:16:47+00:00

Physical looks <Personal style <Emotional balance <Social behavior.

Basically how you look is not as important as how you dress. How you dress is not as important as how you hold your frame, your frame is not as important as how you consistently behave. All these then factor in together as a separate parts of a whole. So if your genetics are shit, you have to make up in the other three areas.

SeemedGood · 2016-12-20T10:12:08+00:00

Fix what you can (naturally) and forget what you can't.

Skin disease, premature greying/thinning hair

Try changing your diet. Cutting breads/gluten might be a good place to start given what you've described, but remember that different diets work for different people. Find what works for you.

Get to the gym, that'll help. Helped me.

Beyond those things focus on your areas of strength and pay no attention to the stuff you can't change (your genetics).

Pierre-Marouille · 2016-12-20T09:13:39+00:00

Skin disease, premature greying/thinning hair, below average D size, don't have masculine facial features/cheekbones, etc.

If you're comparing your D size to the porn standard, well...
Skin disease and premature greying/thinning are related to poor digestion. You're most likely drinking coffee/tea and alcool. Maybe you smoke. Try to remove or at least drastically reduce theses and see the results.
For the rest give nofap a try. It improved skin dramatically for lots of people. Facial features improve as well. It helps tremendously with mood and overall outlook on life. For me and for many it gave a strong DGAF attitude.

AmericanHistoryAFBB · 2016-12-20T08:10:04+00:00

This is more fit for askTRP but I'll bite.

The answer is to max out your looks as best as humanly possible.

As for a sex life, well if you aren't conventoally attractive it will be a bit harder but not impossible. And if you're just plain hideous looking, escorts are an option.

Praecipuus · 2016-12-20T10:59:01+00:00

Besides being able to shave your head and ask for a prescription to control your skin to a dermatologist, there are a lot of things you can work on to become attractive: your body, the way you dress, the way you talk, the way you present yourself, your frame, your game, your social status, your hobbies.

Shit would be a lot worse if you were a girl.

Nagicman1 · 2016-12-20T12:48:09+00:00

Get a hair transplant, start taking minoxidle and finasteride. Go see a plastic surgeon/maxillofacial surgeon to see if there is anything that can be done, and lower your body fat.

If none of that helps you, you should just use escorts.

solarcon6 · 2016-12-20T12:31:25+00:00

Do / create / learn something, you may be confident of. If you have something like that, if you know, you can earn good money by yourself, that you don't have to be so much afraid to get fired out of your cozy job, that you can lift heavy weight, that you can really help, lead or kill someone, then you know you have some certain quality within yourself. That makes a LOT. That gives you the true DGAF frame. You may still have some weaknesses, but you won't be so much obsessed by them. You will know, you are not perfect, but you are something. If you have confident spirit, your looks, what you can see in the mirror, it will get better.

wtf793 · 2016-12-20T12:34:05+00:00

Looks don't matter at all dude. I look pretty decent, but I see so many ugly guys with great chicks and I'm here single af because of my beta behaviour. It all depends on your attitude and confidence.

ChadIsDead · 2016-12-20T13:41:41+00:00

How do you get over having poor looks?

Blue pill solution: accept yourself, ignoring the socioeconomic effects of physical attractiveness.

Red pill solution: maximize your looks by lifting, losing weight, grooming well, and dressing well, then stop focusing on it since there is nothing more that (seemingly) can be done.

My solution: rule out psychiatric conditions. follow RP advice. then, if you really, really, want it, there are ways in 2016 to increase your physical appearance beyond your natural limit. if you are truly motivated to go this route then you'll be able to find all the answers on your own.

I'm obsessed with my looks and I focus on my appearance constantly.

This is a symptom of BDD. If you truly obsess about your appearance, this might be the symptom of a psychiatric disorder and you should see a psychiatrist to rule this out.

Skin disease

Talk to a dermatologist.

premature greying

Dye your hair

premature... thinning hair

Talk to a hair transplant surgeon about non-surgical options. He will likely suggest: finasteride/dutasteride, LLLT, 2% ketaconazole

below average D size

This is a relatively small contributor to overall physical attractiveness unless it is significantly below average.

don't have masculine facial features/cheekbones, etc

Masculine facial features is the easiest area to address in male cosmetic surgery. The areas that contribute to a male face are the jaw angles, chin size, chin shape, nose, cheekbones, brow, and forehead.

Title	Looks obsession
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	19
Comments	26
Date	December 20, 2016 4:14 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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