i developed a plate recently who actually has some real LTR qualities

  • cooks well (without me telling her to)
  • cleans (also without me telling her to)
  • does a lot of nice shit for me without being asked to
  • not a promiscuous slut
  • very family oriented
  • wants to have a kid before she hits the wall (pretty early by contemporary american standards, all the female friends i have around or above that age don't have kids)
  • knows how to be a woman to a man
  • foreign, not particularly influenced by feminist culture in america. from a country and culture with really traditional gender norms.
  • oh and you know we get along like two peas in a pod and a bunch of other shit.

the problem is i'm not down for a serious relationship right now. I've made that clear to her, and she presumes that I've got other situations going right now - i didn't explicate anything, just hinting and letting her mind wander.

i'm not putting this bitch on a pedestal - i've learned my lesson from past experiences. i'll be happiest if i can keep the LTR option open with her. But i could not do exclusive, monogamous relationship. so what's the next best option I could think of? LTR with plates. have my main bitch and then tricks on the side that rotate in and out and serve no purpose other than sex.

I've tried to broach this topic in my last LTR but it was painful for my partner (obviously) and I did not execute properly. I want to avoid that happening this time around. What is my best plan of action here? I'm not jumping into the LTR with her, ** i just want to keep that option open** but that requires a bit more investment from me than i'm used to giving at this point, and i'm not sure how I can do that while still maintaining frame of alpha fucks with side bitches.

i also don't want to just lie and cheat cause i'm not a bitch like that. if i want to see other women while i'm in a serious relationship i'm going to do it - i'm just unclear on how best to develop this IF I do indeed end up wanting to LTR this girl.

TL;DR - plate has real LTR potential, but I'd only enter into LTR if she was okay with me fucking other tricks. What should i be keeping in mind as I try to develop such a situation with her?