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Yep, this sort of thing has been posted before. If you really have that much money, get a second place. One that is a lot more lower class and see how women act there.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 06:58 AM
0

I'm with you dude. People try to make it a political issue, it isn't. It's a scientific / hormonal issue.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 07:25 PM
2

You should use fake names rather than letters of the alphabet. I found this impossible to read, sorry.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 07:52 PM
2

I don't think it's true... he was married to Andrea Elmer for four years or so.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 07:48 PM
9

Big government replaced a masculine household leader.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 08:08 AM
2

Sure, in shit hole places like Haiti and China maybe...
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:18 PM
7

Damn, what an excellent response.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 05:17 PM
0

Uh, becoming fertility negative isn't a good thing guys. It's self-extinction. Is that really what the red pill is about?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 07:54 PM
2

Also, journaling.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 06:30 AM
1

Practice makes perfect..
/r/askTRP28/04/15 05:48 PM
3

Interesting take on it, thanks.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 05:35 PM
1

Look into NLP and watch some Derren Brown stuff. You can essentially trick your mind into having a very negative association of her. Although it works, I personally don't recommend this, and can expand on why if you'd like.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 05:27 PM
2

I free meal is a free meal. No real downsides and several upsides (social proof as needed)
/r/askTRP28/04/15 05:25 PM
2

I don't feel guilty because not everybody is equal, biologically. Life is competition and it's survival of the fittest. Africa is filled with people with a 70 IQ. African Americans have around an 85 IQ because they've mixed with European genetics, but it's still painfully low. http://psychology.uwo.ca/faculty/rushtonpdfs/PPPL1.pdf http://www.aei.org/publication/bell-curve-20-years-later-qa-charles-murray/ It is not a PC topic and while people hate admitting that some groups might not have the sa…
/r/askTRP28/04/15 05:23 PM
1

Ignore for a while then ask if she wants to come over and watch a movie.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 05:20 PM
2

How so? Because it was RP or not RP enough? haven't seen it yet, going this week.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:11 PM
2

Honestly, just pursue money. It makes everything way easier. I make decent bank (read $50k / year), enough to buy a decent sized house with a pool. So I throw pool parties once a month, have people over for game nights and BBQs, etc. Women show up with friends and basically try to blow me b/c I'm the guy with the house who throws all the cool parties. I barely have to try. But really it just comes down to money / status. FYI I didn't figure any of this out until my early thirties, it's not like …
/r/askTRP20/04/15 01:52 AM
6

maybe more" - she said this so when you find out she didnt go to the movies she will be like "yea we went to the party early" She fucked / blew somebody else and it wasn't as good, basically.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 11:04 PM
1

LOL, wow, you are bad at escalating dude. she didn't tell them that she was with me She didn't want her friends to say she was with another dude earlier in the day, because it might have affected her hooking up with Chad at the party. Hey I wanted to invite you but I know that you don't like those people so I didn't "I didn't want you to meet potential guys I'm fucking, you'll still be my orbiter though, right?" Do you show me off to your friends? "Do you have any friends who are more alpha than…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 10:59 PM
6

Sometimes it's really fulfilling to be needed. Otherwise life can get pretty boring.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 02:03 AM
6

Does you "disbelieving" in it somehow make it disappear? No. Government is a fact of life. Your philosophizing doesn't change that.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 01:26 AM
1

You're going to have a blast. ;)
/r/askTRP17/04/15 08:58 PM
2

Just say, "I tried my best, but she did some things that were not forgivable." If they keep pressing... "I'm not going to get into details, I'm sorry." They might be surprised at first, but they'll respect you for it more long-term.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 08:54 PM
1

This is why you have other plates.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 08:32 PM
2

Your son will be better off without two parents who are resentful at having to live together. Also your wife's behavior is reprehensible. Please leave now. You'll be fine. Everything will get better.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 08:31 PM
69

Social justice warriors tend to lack social grace and poise. Shocking, I know.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:00 AM
1

Career? Hobbies?
/r/askTRP16/04/15 09:48 PM
2

It just happened... I had a really alpha dad, so even as a teenager I was a huge punk / shit-talker. The subreddit totally explains how a bunch of my friends co-workers act though.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 09:01 PM
2

She makes me very happy in the relationship, she splits everything with me even though i make more money then her. She helps me with my school work, and is willing to literally do anything for me and with me (in bed). Shes doesnt hide anything from me example; lets me use her phone anytime. Shes also going to therapy. I can be a little forward at times and put her in her place when she acts up but thats just who i am. I dont plan on ever getting married and having kids with anyone its just not m…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 08:35 PM
1

I have a somewhat weak chin and I'm a pretty driven, Machiavellian asshole... don't think it's as cut and dry as all that. Also, most black dudes have a strong chin and a dominant personality... but also an average 85 IQ and little ability to fit into a modern society, so... eh. I wouldn't personally think of this as a useful stereotype.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 08:21 PM
1

And if you were raised by real world experiences instead of by television, Disney films and government school curricula.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 07:58 PM
21

You know she could be fucking both of you and you could both be pretty alpha. AF / BB doesn't mean it's exclusively that combination at a 1-1 ratio.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 07:44 PM
10

They are basically on your nuts. 90% of guys are invisible to women, so if girls are following you from class to parties to say you're arrogant, it means you got their hamster spinning and they are pissed you aren't paying them attention. Meaning, literally desperate for your cock / any interaction with you. It also means they are projecting their insecurities onto you. They think you're out of their league, so they come confront you about it without even knowing you first. Immature, lame behavi…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 07:10 PM
0

Just ignore her for a couple days
/r/askTRP16/04/15 07:07 PM
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Yep, I'd agree with you on all of those points. Just a personal bugaboo when people try to correlate trp with ethics and moralism when an obvious overriding theme here is that most women are anarchist, solipsistic hedonists who subconsciously would love nothing more than to watch civilized society burn, as long as they came out on top.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 06:57 PM
1

Forget about fixing your credit until your income improves. Get a degree online and a better job.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 06:55 PM
1

If your goal is more long term and involves more than that, you need to use integrity, discipline and personal development to rise above the sexual aspect of the game entirely. Not really dude. I live in one of the most affluent areas of the country, it's full of rich post-wall housewives and divorcees. The less integrity I displayed in gaming them for their assets the better off I'd be long-term.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 06:52 PM
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go and try to get them to buy you stuff.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 06:38 PM
5

The fuck does it have to do with integrity? I could black night dozens of women a week and it would be a valid sexual strategy...
/r/askTRP16/04/15 10:14 AM
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Should I just get over my dignity and fuck some feminists anyway until I finally miraculously find someone who's ok? Yeah, basically this. This is something you can't get around... you have to go through instead. it just seems meaningless and degrading to me if I don't care about the girl. You're a good person. Girls will come along that you care about, eventually. But you need to get good at pulling tail first. And that takes experience.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 08:30 AM
1

And they aren't. They don't care about red pill bullshit, they care about terrorists and potential bombers.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 05:59 AM
2

primal diet, sprints, some lifting as a start...
/r/askTRP15/04/15 10:37 PM
2

You should probably break his nose, yeah.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 10:34 PM
1

Yep. Instant repulsion.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 10:15 PM
1

You can do it. Just keep to yourself and read a lot of books.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 11:17 AM
3

Bail dude, you are crazy if you stay any longer at all.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 11:06 AM
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You can have a RP mindset and still fall in love. You're just a more cynical person overall, but cynics still get surprised now and then.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 07:34 AM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/329ixn/how_do_you_have_enough_energy/cq9evzg
/r/askTRP15/04/15 07:33 AM
1

Yeah, you're right. I'm fairly naturally charismatic so it's difficult for me to give advice about "how to talk to" girls posts. I just think, "Go over there and be silly and show her a good time, works for me." Is your screen name a reference to this product? I use it for weed growing...
/r/askTRP15/04/15 05:30 AM
0

You basically loudly flirt with another girl to create social proof.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 04:56 AM
1

The problem is I am desperate. I haven't fucked in ages and it's starting to get to me to the point where I'll do something like and kill whatever chance I might have had. If you want to get laid, hire an escort or go to a full service massage place. If you want to pick up women read through the /r/seduction material, this isn't really the place for pick-up tips.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 04:55 AM
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Gentlemen Ugh. I text her "Do me a favor, lose my number". She already had... take a hint man. Please help guys! What am I doing wrong here? This is you... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8teRxOSNHs
/r/askTRP15/04/15 04:53 AM
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I've actually developed feelings for a girl who i will never fucking date (because she has the worst mentality alive, isn't girlfriend material). Stop seeing her for a while, simple.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 01:25 AM
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Apparently its this shit... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kWeY0J4fryM
/r/askTRP15/04/15 01:24 AM
4

Fertility negative is a good thing. Not in white populations. We are already a massive global minority.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 12:08 AM
1

Oh and sometimes I can have some small problems with erection, idk if that is really negative for her, in the end it's usually solved and she gets her pounding and multiple orgasms. Jelqing, edging and clamping, btw.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 12:03 AM
1

How does she really appreciate our relationship if she has no reference point? Or is that not required? Definitely not required. As for the guy who said it sounds boring, you need stability to raise kids. So if you want a family (and you know, a genetic legacy) now is your chance.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 11:48 PM
4

I mean, the slight majority of relationships I've noticed in person aren't hierarchical anyway, so how can 80% of them be doing hierarchy well? You wouldn't know unless you saw how they sort through conflict. The happiest women I know are in relationships where the man takes the lead and puts them in their place when they get out of line. The unhappiest women I know are stuck in LTRs where the guy is a pushover and tries to do whatever he can to "make her happy." You would think a woman-led dyna…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 11:22 PM
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It works for most relationships. Probably 80% or so. Men and women are biologically different. Most women want a leader they feel safe with, and many will essentially abuse, manipulate or shit test men they see as weak or powerless. Or, worse, just pretend they don't exist sexually. Most men are simply invisible to women... hence the "where have all the good men gone?" rhetoric. Basically, life has hierarchy. While it may not be ideal, that's the way it has worked for millions of years, and it's…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 10:57 PM
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Yep. Healthy male / female relationships have a hierarchy.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 10:36 PM
2

You have misdirected empathy towards people who are manipulative and borderline abusive. Time to forge your own path, bud.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 10:32 PM
1

Texts me later that night before I go to bed that she isn't into casual sex. I wake up and text her, casually calling her out on her paradoxical BS and tell her she's confusing. Why is that confusing? That's the hallmark of a higher quality girl... She says "Okay..." walks off and gives me the finger. I laugh to myself. We talk a couple days later on FB and she is into me again. Trying to get together again soon. Yep, this girl is more of a slut and you played it fine. Not sure what the issue is…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 05:46 AM
2

ryan gosling dont lift lolol
/r/askTRP14/04/15 05:44 AM
3

You. Owe. Them. Nothing. If anything, they owe you. They are the ones who created you, not the other way around. It's not like you had a choice in the matter. when they literally have nothing to worry about anymore. I know exactly what you mean, people like this are the worst. Go far, far away. Best life choice you can make.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 05:41 AM
3

Brag about being in jail and don't say what it was for.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 05:41 AM
2

Also... top 20% of Alpha Fucks are ex-military / ex-cons / fighters, etc. If you're hanging around 4 other random guys, are you the toughest, meanest, most muscular, dominant guy there? If you're surrounded by ex-cons I guarantee they will be better at pulling women than you, even though they are complete wrecks and wastes of space in every other way. Plus it's all relative to where you are... a dance club in New Jersey is very different than a hipster bar in San Francisco.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 05:29 AM
1

Haha, yeah depends on the area of course.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 05:19 AM
3

You're right, it is an interesting dichotomy. I personally disagree with the idea that external value doesn't matter. Both internal values and external results matter for sexual strategy, I'd say about equally. For instance... take two men. They both have $400k condos, $75k Teslas and have jobs that pay $70k a year. Both are 7/10 looks-wise and fairly self-confident. Guy A only owes $200k on his condo and his Tesla is paid off. He is an extremely skilled programmer for a small startup and has so…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 05:11 AM
1

Their goals are illogical, their strategies are Machiavellian.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 04:34 AM
5

Do you own a house? Do you own a car? Do you have a job that pays over $40k? If you throw a party, can you get a dozen people to come pretty easily? If you hit those, I'd say you're top 20%
/r/askTRP14/04/15 04:33 AM
3

Same here, for the same reason. ;)
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:45 AM
36

If a guy's wife is stepping out, there is a VERY REAL chance he will blow her fucking brains out onto the walls, ceiling, windows and floor... and you don't want to be an extra in that particular horror show. There's an incredibly LOW chance of that happening actually. Like maybe a dozen cases a year in the US, if that. Basically statistical noise. Man a lot of you guys on here are pussies.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:44 AM
1

It's a personal experience like many others.. if you don't think it's useful downvote and move on.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:43 AM
0

Yep, exactly. But then we're back to voting liberal. It's a fucking catch-22
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:51 PM
1

Thank you dude. I moved from an old factory town on the East coast to the SF Bay Area not too long ago for programming work. Everyone here is quasi-Buddhist / Be Here Now / zen-yoga wannabes, etc. It's just pretentious bullshit. It's philosophical hedonism. It's a lack of long-term planning, avoidance of responsibility, being ruled by emotions and impulsivity, blaming the "universe" when things go wrong, being disconnected from reality. I hate it.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:16 PM
1

Also a ton more low-IQ Africans ruining your city and breeding out of control.. http://www.kare11.com/story/news/2015/03/20/tensions-run-high-following-somali-protests-in-st-cloud/25085701/
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:09 PM
7

It's all about ownership. Don't work for companies long-term that you don't have at least partial ownership of. It's as simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:07 AM
5

Except for the unfortunate libertarian "open borders" philosophy..
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:06 AM
3

What does that mean in practice though?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:03 AM
5

Sometimes it comes across as more of a chore. That's why no ma'am was founded. It also dulls with the more people you experience it with. I remember when I got into my first proper LTR in my early 20s the sex was significantly better. Yep. That's why the idea that men don't pair bond is ignorant. We do, just not to the same extent, and not based on the same criteria.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 09:05 AM
1

It wouldn't be that uncommon in 2nd / 3rd world countries. It's only half in jest.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 05:35 AM
3

He's saying that politically correct, whitewashed, feminist society is one frame, and not one you have to recognize as valid nor be a part of. That's all. You made a lot of poor assumptions about his meaning.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 05:15 AM
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I couldn't agree me, and this is an important post. TRP is useful as fuck. To an extent. After a while, you're just basking in confirmation and circlejerking. Go work on your businesses. Go work on paying off your car an house. Go hustle. Go dance. And just keep the TRP lens in mind. Hell, if you're anything like me you wouldn't be able to forget it if you tried.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 02:53 AM
1

it's just practice dude. Like, I wake up at 9 or 10. I fuck around and surf the internet, and lift and do whatever cleaning needs done until 1 or 2. I work second shift, so I'm at work by 4, off at 12. Then I go out with friends or chill at home. Kino takes no effort once you're used to it, it comes naturally. I don't bother to "look sharp" all the male fashion advice on reddit seems pretty gay to me tbh, I get laid just fine wearing what I always have -- jeans and plaid shirts. I don't do any r…
/r/askTRP12/04/15 02:18 AM
1

You're a power broker who uses his harem of women to sew strife among his enemies, but while impregnating all of them to expand your familial empire.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 02:12 AM
9

Women don't care about any emotions but their own. Letting your true feelings out was a mistake, they like their men being their "rock". A rock has no feelings. http://buttersafe.com/comics/2008-03-13-Harvester.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 08:34 PM
1

Yeah, see. Fucking women man. Oh well, it is what it is.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 07:43 PM
2

Hey thanks for being constructive and not getting offended. You seem like a good dude, hope it works out well.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 09:11 AM
1

Sounds like aspergers... is that a fair assessment?
/r/askTRP10/04/15 03:11 AM
1

Title says all. Not really. There are about 1000x ways this could manifest. Anxiety? Narcissism? Autism? what are some situations that made you come to this realization?
/r/askTRP10/04/15 02:39 AM
1

Story?
/r/askTRP09/04/15 11:30 PM
1

In your specific case? It should never get as bad as it is... so I'd make up a medical excuse to take a vacation. Take four days off or so for the flu and just chill and relax. The company won't go under.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 11:28 PM
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It's just the demographic. 18-28 year olds who are learning self-confidence and how the world works. But not how fulfillment and joy come about, long-term. That's a different story.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:08 AM
1

Either you're attracted to her (dick is hard as fuck) or you aren't. If you're into her but don't want a LTR then just keep dating her when you feel like it. I don't see the issue.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 04:03 AM
5

If you say so bro. I know quite a few "long-time" bachelors who are extremely unfulfilled people, even with money. I know some long-term married people who are the same way, but at least they love their kids and feel like they did something important by raising them right, etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:42 AM
10

Go hang out in Detroit for a while and see if you still feel the same way.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:40 AM
2

If you wanted to have kids and a stable home life she would have been a great choice.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:52 AM
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40-50 year old bachelors generally aren't happy people. We're pretty ingrained to raise kids at a certain point.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:48 AM
6

m'trilby
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:47 AM
13

That's where you want to be in life. Free - including emotionally free. Kids are still nice though. And we need the smart people to keep having kids of society will go completely down the drain..
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:46 AM
3

"Oh we're going after doctors now? Should I stop settling for hot nurses?"
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:43 AM
1

let her leave and pay child support and never know my kid... Allegedly my kid anyway. Yep, this one. There is potential for the child to not be mine. Probably not yours, paternity test.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:18 AM
2

I'm actually starting a surrogacy company (gradually) with that aim. Why go through the hassle of pregnancy when you can use a mexican surrogate for $15k?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 02:17 AM
1

This is the most updated one I could find... http://i.imgur.com/6OpnpAI.jpg Makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 02:02 AM
1

What are you working on nowadays..?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:46 AM
7

I always picture Peter Gregory from Silicon Valley for guys with 150+ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUxMY77i0q4 I'm a lowly 135 and that's... just fine. Any smarter and I think I'd go crazy.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:39 AM
1

Yeah. Best case is having a high IQ but still being well-adjusted and successful. I do think plenty of guys hit this combination, but unfortunately they don't tend to have a lot of kids.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:37 AM
3

Women's IQ distribution curve looks nothing like men's. Really? Never heard this before... You know where I could find more info or charts on this?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:34 AM
7

You really handled this perfectly. Great screenshot and thread. She is truly entitled as fuck, it's almost surreal to me. I'm trying to imagine a role reversal, with myself typing stuff like she did... I can't imagine what my mentality would have to be like to write those things unironically. She's so skeezy, churns my stomach a bit. She's a lawyer but she is acting like an escort, while dressing it up as feminism.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:51 PM
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"140 lol." Then NC forever.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 03:58 AM
3

Sure it can be, if you don't mind plates who are so stupid that they are attracted to dudes who are outright mean to them, sure.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 03:46 AM
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Yes. I politely but firmly told her right away I felt she had misrepresented herself on her profile and I was going to take off. Fuck wasting my time with people like that. I don't even mind curvier chicks, liars just annoy the crap out of me.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 03:39 AM
1

define effective? depends on your goals..
/r/askTRP07/04/15 03:38 AM
1

Basically, this goes away with age. Let's say when you were a kid, you were in the bottom 20% for around ten years, from 8 to 18. Once you hit 22, you get your engineering degree, you have a nice pad, you look good and you're fit, make good money, etc. Unfortunately, 1 year of success doesn't trump 10 years of feeling inferior. Those feelings need to be overwritten gradually. Just the way our minds work. If you felt like shit for a decade because of your childhood, it might be 4-8 years of stabi…
/r/askTRP07/04/15 03:34 AM
3

Daily journaling. Type 10 or 12 paragraphs when you wake up of whatever comes into your mind. If nothing comes to mind right away just type, "I have nothing to say. I have nothing to say," until something dislodges. For me at least, this is better than meditation... it helps clear my thinking a ton. And makes setting goals easy. It also only takes like twenty minutes and makes you a faster typer as well. Excellent for sorting through old issues and bitterness. I was shocked at some of the stuff …
/r/askTRP07/04/15 03:26 AM
7

realize their opinions don't matter. Facile shit like this.. hahaha omg i heart u you're witty Should really just annoy you because it isn't contributing to anything.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 08:15 PM
9

No, don't be a fucking pussy. Do your best at everything in life, that's the whole point of living.. finding a girl you click with is a great thing, not something that should terrify you like this. Nut up. Rather than suppress your emotions, write out some stuff that you can accomplish that would make you feel like you deserve her more. And then work even harder toward your goals... rather than puking your lovey dovey feelings onto her work harder on yourself. Get what I'm saying? Redirect that …
/r/askTRP06/04/15 10:18 AM
2

Regular sex but not gangbanging, rough sex, bondage, anal, etc.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:47 AM
19

Yeah well, they all have nasty surprises waiting for them in their 30's and 40's.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:46 AM
2

Ignoring drama
/r/askTRP06/04/15 01:30 AM
4

Sucks that your work friend didn't have a better circle. Now you know I guess. What a depressing scene, all told. I've never understood why clubs have the appeal they do for people.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 10:31 PM
3

A large portion of the planet is already having issues good. Too many stupid fuckers around whose parents never should have had them. We need a good culling.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 10:21 PM
0

Well played and nice analysis.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 10:20 PM
1

Sure, and in the 95% of cases where it's invalid bullshit you tell her to seek therapy. In the 5% of cases where it's something legit, you take time to mull it over. How is that terrible advice?
/r/askTRP05/04/15 10:06 PM
1

And don't listen to /u/realdev . Terrible advice. Why is that? You need to figure out whether her concerns are valid or not to even know whether it's worthwhile being in an LTR with her.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 10:01 PM
1

"we're just going to watch a movie.."
/r/askTRP05/04/15 09:39 PM
3

This is why all the best higher-level drug dealers I know are gay.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:36 PM
2

"The no oral sex thing is sort of a dealbreaker for me, sorry."
/r/askTRP05/04/15 09:27 PM
1

Basically, he can bug the shit out of me all day long but if I object to it then I'm the bad guy who apparently has something wrong with him. He has neediness and insecurity issues. For the love of God don't tell him that though. Does your Mom treat him like shit? If so, maybe picking petty fights with you is one of his only fun distractions. Regardless, it sounds pretty toxic. Sorry dude.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 09:20 PM
2

Then make fun of her for not being any fun
/r/askTRP05/04/15 09:17 PM
1

Like the other dude said, it's all mental and you've already lost. You have her up on a pedestal to the extent it's absurd. You need to withhold judgement for a while until you get to know her better. You don't know someone after a few days. You know them after months and years. Stop being an immature spaz. No offense.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 07:36 AM
16

You're literally non-existant to her. This is what women mean when they say there are "no good men around." They mean, aside from all the nobodies whom I wouldn't even consider. It wasn't a shit test... she needs to care about you to shit test you, and she doesn't, not in the least. It wasn't really an insult either. You literally don't exist to her in a sexual way. You exist only as an obedient little helper. An orbiter. She later asked me to help her with her robot. I "Helped" her Orbiter. Any…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 07:30 AM
1

The answer is kino and escalation dude. You already know this. You just didn't do it because you aren't well-versed / comfortable with it and you're making excuses.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 07:21 AM
1

What you have to understand is that to her, typical romancing tactics from high-schoolers are probably pretty gross. Case in point... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8teRxOSNHs Make sure you are meeting her sexual needs first and the romance will follow. You are putting the cart before the horse trying to be romantic first.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 07:05 AM
3

in case that would compromise any longer term crap... honestly I just want her to want me, oh god why... why would you be thinking this way..? it's over bro. I'm sure she has picked up on your reticence and you are now friend-zoned indefinitely. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 03:05 AM
1

I didn't KINO, sorry but not that interested in getting it on with her quickly That fucked you a bit. There is a limited time frame for girls to think of you physically. She is already putting you into the non-sexual / eunuch box. Or rather, you put yourself there. apparently she told her friends that she had a great time and all but again, shes done with guys from our school. Read: "He isn't a real man, he didn't even make a move on me when we went out before prom." more of what should I do to …
/r/askTRP05/04/15 03:02 AM
2

When I'm asked my opinion on something, I speak my mind. Stop doing that, first off. Think strategically. Don't just puke out whatever you think about an issue without giving the context and your goals consideration. Apparently the fact that I take a stance is "taking a hard-line"? Humans are social creatures. It's evolution. You're expected to go with the flow a bit. If you don't you just look like an asshole. This is where "pick your battles" comes from. Keep hard-line opinions to yourself. My…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 02:49 AM
9

She basically doesn't think you're hot enough. She liked the confidence, but you didn't quite pull it all off. Sounded close though. Just no response and leave it alone.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 02:42 AM
3

"no thanks" "I'm good, thanks" "I'll need some time to think about that, thanks." rinse, repeat.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 12:56 AM
1

text back, "you'll get over it."
/r/askTRP05/04/15 12:26 AM
5

Who gives a fuck. You went to frat parties. People need to calm down with the paranoia here.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:13 PM
3

I am around ghetto chicks a lot, Well there's your problem
/r/askTRP30/03/15 01:35 AM
1

Women are all roughly the same value Not exactly. i mean, if you want smart kids, you'll want to LTR with an intelligent woman. IQ is something like 80% hereditary.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 06:53 PM
1

.... MBA programs have some of the least politically-correct courses you can take. Accounting, economics. Hell, even my sociology class made it a point to discuss how "in-group diversity" statistically causes more strife and less productivity.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:41 AM
0

You get to dump all your problems on someone who has to sit there and listen to your loser ass drone on and on about everyone you don't like. It's great.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:38 AM
2

And we're back to alcohol. You can't want "good girls" and be a drunk yourself.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 12:38 AM
0

http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/30exdm/too_vulnerable_easily_catch_oneitis_help/cprz616
/r/askTRP27/03/15 12:22 AM
1

My advice... if you can afford it.. get the house first and then start having a weekly game night where people can drink / etc. Hell advertise it on meetup. Expand your social circle that way. Then gradually (over a period of a couple years) turn it into a quasi party house. If you're into that, it isn't for everyone. That's essentially what I've done with my place anyway. It's like a 3,600 square foot McMansion in the suburbs with a pool. People drop over to have a beer or BBQ all the time. It …
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:53 PM
2

I had a really close friend / business partner who was shorter than you, maybe 5'4 and looked really young, like 14. That being said, he was handsome, he just was a very petite guy and very short guy. He actually had bone cancer / chemo when he was a kid and it stunted his growth, not that it matters. He was also an arrogant, fast-talking, cocky little shit. Very smart, very good at shit-talking in an indirect, non-confrontational way. Very impatient and driven. Somewhat chaotic and impulsive. V…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:39 PM
2

haha, chill, answer my followup questions.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:26 PM
1

Well, the height is the biggest issue. Sucks balls. You need to act super cocky / arrogant to overcome it. Might also look into lift-type shoes like Robert Downey uses. That's why so many short guys are said to have napoleon complexes, because it's the only way women are attracted to them. Nice job on the career and having your own pad. -- Follow-up questions... Are you making like $40k a year or like $80k / year+? How nice is your apartment? Do you like the city you live in?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:12 PM
5

You're correct... but you know what they say about fools and their money. Besides, only savvy people will be reading your blog post, right?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 10:57 PM
1

Your post doesn't say anything about who you are to give context.. How old are you? How educated? What's your living situation like? How mature is your career path?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 10:54 PM
0

Almost all those 8's and 9's could be considered 10's in the right setting. Like the image says, it's up to the observer. So what if she was a 8 that the OP saw as a 10? You're just being pedantic.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 10:40 PM
6

Great technique to practice mindfulness. Nice post.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 08:38 PM
8

Very. Phone protection is the clearest sign of an affair.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 10:26 AM
1

I've been trying to get off Adderall for the last couple weeks and have been performing poorly on some work projects Modafinil Modafinil Modafinil.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 07:26 AM
2

She's into you...? or perhaps she thinks her hubby is a chump and wants you both to look bad because it suits her worldview for whatever reason..
/r/askTRP26/03/15 02:05 AM
3

Are you suggesting that we men of /r/theredpill practice sexual abstinence so as to avoid potentially giving our future wives HPV-related throat cancer? Personally, before I got married, I didn't fuck outside of LTRs / potential LTRs for that reason... so yeah. I'm personally not on board with the whole plate spinning thing... seems like it's for guys trying to overcome confidence issues, etc. To me spinning a plate that isn't going to go anywhere long-term is just boring as fuck. Once the poten…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:56 PM
4

Ehhh. Online forums are sort of perfect for this sort of discussion.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 01:49 PM
12

STDs are way, way more common than false rape claims.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:23 PM
35

I flipped my shit when I found out but went to counseling instead of breaking up, for another year. wow dude, you were a chump. I know you know, but damn.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:21 PM
14

In graphic terms, if you had a choice between eating out a former slut wife vs. a low count/virgin and chose the former, you are literally at higher risk for throat and mouth cancer. Just ask Michael Douglas... Catherine Zeta Jones had her fun on the CC, then gave her sugar daddy, beta bux, celebrity husband throat cancer.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:16 PM
4

it all depends on the situation. For some, absence makes the heart grow stronger. For others, they freak out because of lack of attention. 14 days of no calls or texts either though? I mean, it takes like 15 seconds to send a text. I tried to start talking to her then and she has been screening me, more or less. go no contact then... it's pretty clear this woman is no catch so i'm not sure why you're trying to project lessons from her onto other, higher-quality women.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 08:54 AM
5

.... you aren't in the friend-zone so you're overthinking this a bit. Don't hang out with her friend there too, unless you are impressive enough socially to impress them both. If you aren't sure, you aren't. Don't reply back to her text at all and see if she writes you first. Good first test to see if you are actually on her mind at all.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 08:52 AM
3

The fuck? .. Are you 15 or something? Why can't you kiss? Why would you tell a girl you can't kiss? Why didn't you try to fuck her when you laid down? I'm confused by this entire post. But yeah, she friend-zoned you now because you came off like a loser with zero confidence.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 08:49 AM
1

Getting involved with a woman to the extent of seriousness that you're having children with her would not allow me to keep working/traveling/and living as I am. It takes about five minutes to get someone pregnant and about another five minutes to send $200 a month. if you are making decent (over $40k) money it doesn't seem like much of an issue. A bunch of village kids raised in a third world country doesn't exactly give me much opportunity for a family business legacy. I'd probably yank them ou…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 08:20 AM
0

Why would you raise them? She would continue to raise those kids. You would just work / travel / keep living as you are. And she would raise your kids as well.. So you would have both a tangible, present-day legacy (large family, grandkids, possibility of a family business, etc.) as well as a genetic legacy long-term. But that's just how I see it.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 07:46 AM
0

If you say so. Personally I see raising a large family as a road to a very fulfilling life, long-term. So while special needs kids aren't ideal... as long as she could still have a few more kids, sounds great.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 07:39 AM
6

Lots of changes for five weeks, nice job..
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:14 PM
1

Thanks for writing that out, I had no idea...
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 09:37 PM
1

I'm not I understand why you wouldn't relationship her... Can she still have more kids?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 09:35 PM
4

I think many of the twisted ideals we see in our (American) culture today are a byproduct of excess wealth and comfort. Case in point, almost all of the baby boomers. I've never seen so much narcissism and self-entitlement among a group.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 09:32 PM
1

Just talk to your Dad about the money. "No I don't want a loan, I don't want our family money going to these random women."
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:33 PM
18

You should do what you need to to advance your career. None of the rest of this bullshit drama concerns you. I also meditate often, so my perception is heightened fucking luls. So enlightened that you've completely enabled this manipulative girl to fuck over you, your friend over, bring a kid into the world that will have her as a mother... terrible stuff. And she still has you on the hook. You are a chump, face it.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:31 PM
1

I think of that type of crying as catharsis... being "overwhelmed by submissiveness" Women have to "let go" for rougher sex... and there's a strange catharsis afterwards for them.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:38 PM
10

Stop going to women for affirmation.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:17 PM
1

Just don't put up with bullshit, basically.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:54 AM
0

Stop internet dating.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:51 AM
1

It's the only one I've tried and I don't need anything else. Good call though... nootropic fanboys weird me out too.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 09:31 AM
1

Modafinil > Adderall > Vyvance
/r/askTRP20/03/15 11:18 PM
2

Sounds like a career issue. The hot ones only stick around if you're successful or a badboy.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 11:00 PM
7

I don't get where the idea of "hatred" comes from..? I don't hate cats for acting cat-like, for instance. I just recognize them for what they are and live my life accordingly. It shouldn't be this huge newsflash that women are drawn to power, authority and assertiveness.. and it certainly shouldn't make someone hateful unless they are a total simp.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 10:58 PM
2

... You've already fucked it up by asking her a zillion questions about her sex life outside of you two. Non-exclusive means non-exclusive, dumbfuck.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 08:07 PM
1

... it was probably just a joke dude.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 12:35 AM
3

I don't. I don't want to be a beast, and I have zero desire to see what that "experience" is like. I accumulate assets and holdings and prefer to look unassuming / corporate for business transactions. I'd much rather look like Mitt Romney than a powerlifter. when I hit 40, perhaps, depending on hormone levels. I'm cut but not huge and prefer to stay that way.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 12:33 AM
3

I would like to set up a second date and push things further now that we have seen each other. So do it. TRP is 90% about knowing what you want and going for it, no matter what the obstacles are.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 12:27 AM
1

and yesterday one of them had the nerve to call me a "loser". In what context?
/r/askTRP20/03/15 12:26 AM
1

How old are you? imo, if under 40, no. If over 40, yes. I want to be absolutely beastly, and I want to see what the experience is like. Well, of course the answer is yes then.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 12:24 AM
4

peak oil, climate change, antibiotic-resistant disease, unsustainable debt, manufacturing has been completely outsourced, widespread erosion of skills and motivation, widest income inequality and wealth concentration ever...
/r/askTRP20/03/15 12:16 AM
2

It sounds like you are up her ass about stuff that shouldn't matter to you. Of course that is going to stress her out. Worry about your goals, not hers.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 11:07 PM
1

Get rid of the debt first and don't worry too much about dating. That is plenty of challenge enough.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 06:35 AM
3

Who knows what she meant exactly, or whether your bro is being 100% honest.. I would forget about it unless something comes up again.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:10 AM
0

I would just completely ignore all those messages. Or maybe, "lol, ok"
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:01 AM
1

You can still find women who aren't as blatant about it as your wife seems to be. No cleaning because my neck hurts is pretty fucking crazy. And she's still young. Imagine what shit she would be coming up with at fifty.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:25 PM
2

Prepare yourself for hysterical bonding where she completely changes her behavior when you serve her. It's just a trap..
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:22 PM
2

The last time she initiated sex was at Christmas Yowch. She no longer does much housework because her neck hurts out of stress about me not graduating LOL Do I really want to be this woman's ATM for her retirement? Fuck no you don't. End it before you have real assets. If I start a high paying job, won't that mean I have to pay her a bunch of money every month in the case of a divorce? Yup. But I don't want to put in the hard work of becoming alpha again for her after the way she's treated me as…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:21 PM
2

w/e neither of the blondes are all that bad for prison guards. http://kptv.images.worldnow.com/images/26337669_BG1.jpg
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 08:39 PM
9

They weren't bad actually. http://kptv.images.worldnow.com/images/26337669_BG1.jpg
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 08:36 PM
2

Here's a pic of the dude.. http://kptv.images.worldnow.com/images/26337669_BG1.jpg
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 08:35 PM
1

eldest_cock Man that sounds like a great MMO screen name.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:32 PM
1

People with bpd can be extremely challenging and vindictive. It can also be a way for girls to act like giant assholes and basically never take responsibility for their actions. So, yeah, just maintain frame and boundaries. It'll actually be a good learning experience. Have fun.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:23 PM
3

Have a purpose. Self-improvement is mental masturbation without a purpose.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 09:33 PM
0

Despite what people here are saying, it's most likely not worth it. Unless something serious happens (not grading) professors can run the classroom however they like. If you have an A and want to keep it, I wouldn't say anything else.
/r/MensRights17/03/15 09:27 PM
1

Yeah, I second the tip about wrestling. I played tennis in high school and in hindsight I wish I had wrestled instead. My best friend did and got a lot out of it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 04:29 AM
0

Of course... you want to meet her single friends, don't you?
/r/askTRP08/03/15 06:21 AM
3

http://reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2hfx9u/did_you_guys_know_that_rtheredpill_cannot_be/ True story! Test it yourself.. Reply to any comment over there, but include a link to this subreddit. Then wait a few minutes for auto-moderator to remove it, click the comment permalink from your account, and log-out. Poof! Comment vanished. From the mods.. http://i.imgur.com/W10qreh.jpg The confusing thing to me is why the mods here removed my post about this after it hit #1? They wouldn't answer in mo…
/r/askTRP08/03/15 03:58 AM
11

It's completely realistic thinking. Human evolution hasn't caught up to the "modern society" we currently reside in. Traditional gender roles have been successful for literally millions of years. Traditional family structures are how we got this far as a species. The concept of gender equality is only a few decades old. Just a drop in the ocean of human experience. And if you don't think lineage matters you just aren't paying attention. Intelligence is 85% hereditary. Social mobility is difficul…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 03:46 AM
16

I personally think yes. It's not as pronounced as with women, but men still pair bond. Why else would there be so much oneitis on here? Plenty of guys are hung up on their ex's. Men still remember their best lays and miss those girls, just like girls with high numbers remember and miss their best cc days. I basically think that with women it's more pronounced because they aren't used to having any responsibility in life. Guys in their late twenties are used to getting fucked over and having to c…
/r/askTRP08/03/15 02:10 AM
8

Good for him... it wasn't an sexy situation and his dick knew it.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 02:07 AM
2

What you have is so, so rare.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 10:56 PM
1

Try journaling on a daily basis. You force yourself to type out least a dozen paragraphs every day. If nothing comes to mind you just type, "I have nothing to say. I have nothing to say." over and over until it flows. It won't take long, you're a smart guy. Some of the stuff that comes out might shock you. The root of all this anger is probably somewhere where you don't expect it to be. It also could be stifled creativity of some sort. Finally, self-forgiveness. You need to forgive yourself for …
/r/askTRP07/03/15 10:41 PM
2

Do I need to give myself permission and just start pushing kino regardless? Pretty much this. See if this video helps... it has some specific kino techniques that might work well during day runs. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmZa-dtruFI#t=16s Everything you said made sense, of course kino is easier in a club, it's just practice getting used to doing it in the daytime.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 07:25 AM
4

It takes a long time bro. It's a marathon. How old are you? What are your hobbies?
/r/askTRP07/03/15 07:17 AM
1

Did something traumatic happen that made you depressed or did it just gradually come on?
/r/askTRP07/03/15 07:14 AM
3

The guy is a little bit annoying, but the technique he teaches is legit and approved by me. Skip to 13:25 on that if you want to skip the foreplay / massage rants.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 01:13 AM
-1

she suddenly became a bit flaky. Started seeing someone else. A day later, she responds back indicating that she just wants to be friends and not lovers. Someone hotter or richer. Seeing as how I want to avoid the dreaded friend-zone like the plague, I respond back telling her that it is odd for us to continue to just be friends because (1) We've already been intimate with each other and (2) I'm attracted to her. I told her that this will not work out... I would have been a lot more terse. "No t…
/r/askTRP07/03/15 01:09 AM
3

Ugh, your friends suck... and unfortunately I know the feeling. When did everyone become so devoid of ambition and drive?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 10:31 PM
2

haha, he got inside your head. The only thing that matters is whether you're happy with yourself. It doesn't sound like you are, so work on improving the areas you want to.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 10:18 PM
3

I personally don't think there is any "right" answer. I think a combination of biological mechanisms and social norms essentially turn sexual strategy into a catch-22 for many men nowadays. The typical advice here is that the lower her number count the better for LTRs. And that seems to be backed up by scientific research. There are also tons of guys who just want to have sex with as many hot women as they can with little or no exclusivity. So there is certainly some inherent hypocrisy there in …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:28 PM
0

I love how you're getting downvoted for basically having emotional stability / maturity.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:12 PM
10

If it was the exact opposite, where the guys had banged 30 girls, it'd be okay. Women pair bond and get alpha-widowed in a way that men don't. There are substantial differences between the genders. While it can be convenient to ignore that fact, reality is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:10 PM
0

Damn, you two are going to have some over-the-top handsome children.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:08 PM
13

It's good that's screencapped b/c he erased it all. u/poly_failure
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:05 PM
2

My bias is towards ignoring... that being said it's all about setting and enforcing clear boundaries. Might help to know the specifics that she's bitching about..
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:40 AM
1

Eh. Here are the blue pill aspects... Had the balls to finger this girl during the new years. Fingering a girl is that big of a deal to you...? Knew that she'd say we cant be together when we meet again, well before we met today. How would you know that she wouldn't want to meet up? I took the news with a smile, told her I knew we weren't meant to be You lost your frame and entered her frame. And then you were dishonest. This is the worst part of the post to me. Don't be a pussy when you're reje…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:27 AM
1

How old are you? For me, it went away as I aged. I have about 100x the life experience now, in my early thirties, compared to my early twenties.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:18 AM
1

Rock climbing gym.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 04:34 AM
1

Learn to play the guitar, skateboard and soccer, rather than play video games.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 04:30 AM
1

She isn't going to fuck with your GPA. my reputation with the faculty Are you a post-grad or something?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:31 AM
1

Yes. Definitely. And it will never get better until you run your own business. And even then, it will not be easy, since there are multiple "authorities" and "agencies" in place to tell you how to run your business. True independence is like gold... precious and rare. Still better than working for some one else though.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:29 AM
1

idk man, The best places are more expensive and you won't be able to save as much. I think the choices you listed are solid. Is there a reason you can't try some places out before making the final call?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:22 AM
1

You're on the right track with not divulging all of your personal info like it's a job interview, but you're over-thinking this one question.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:19 AM
0

Is this just some bizarre hypothetical, or what?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:18 AM
2

Easy, you have a midlife crisis and buy a sports car.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:16 AM
2

I feel like "don't shit where you eat" should apply. For fuck's sake... how do you fucking idiots keep coming up with this same misinterpretation of that phrase? Shitting where you eat is referring to the workplace, not college. Does Accounting class pay for your grocery bill somehow? If I'm not wrong (I sure wouldn't mind that!), how would interacting sexually with an older woman with authority be different from gaming students my age? Who knows. Depends if she is into deflowering guys. Might b…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:15 AM
1

So don't neg her...? What exactly is the issue with her you're having?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:13 AM
2

In the beginning, it's best to go with a reward / punishment frame. If she's being a flake and you're rewarding that behavior, it makes you look like a chump. That being said, this isn't your fault, she's just a flake. You generally need to have a mindset of knowing when you fucked up and when you didn't. You didn't fuck up here. She is the one who lost something of value... you. If you don't genuinely feel that way, there is still plenty of self-improvement to be done.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:07 AM
1

I am currently in a LTR, with a newly born little one, where i haven't felt the need save, and, but feeling there is a good balance of power in the relationship, so I am quite concerned If there's a good balance of power, why are you "quite concerned?"
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:05 AM
3

I'd say it's because these women are basically adrenaline / dopamine junkies. They get rushes from all the guys hitting on them online. Then they get addicted to that constant attention. Once they meet you... they are basically in withdraw. it's real life again and their egos aren't being constantly padded.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:03 AM
1

Or just simply, call me Ed That.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:59 AM
7

Why is everyone here so worried about coming off like a dick / asshole. If you don't want her friend there, say you don't want her to come. Group dates are for middle-schoolers.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:59 AM
3

"Hey, guessing you got the dates mixed up again, let me know if you want to continue the conversation ;)" Why are you all happy and smiley that she is a fuckup? I would have texted, "Where are you?" and left it at that.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:57 AM
2

Could be where you live. Some smaller towns don't have many eligible guys, so the locals go crazy for someone halfway fit and attractive. Or it could be that the guys on here exaggerate (In fact, I'm sure they do.) I'm 6'2, 200, blue eyes, good facial aesthetics, etc. Girls never come up to me or hit on me on their own, beyond short chubby girls. I get a lot of play in social settings by being a funny, somewhat hyperactive person. But if I'm just being quiet, nope. Lifting and fitness aren't eno…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:51 AM
20

I think I may not have used Amused Mastery enough. I was too serious at some points. Yep, exactly this. Girls want to have a good time, not be judged constantly.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:06 AM
2

Personally, I think the number of guys a girl has "hangups" on is more important than her overall number. The whole "beware the number" thing has to do with how deeply women pair bond / become alpha widows. If your girlfriend doesn't have those issues or hangups, it could work out just fine. That being said... if she was hung up on one or more of those guys, she probably wouldn't tell you. If there are attributes she thinks you're lacking, she probably wouldn't tell you.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:02 AM
2

You haven't even tried the program yet. Try SL for 60 days, eat a lot of calories (whole milk works great) and see how it goes. You're quitting before you even start.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 12:58 AM
4

Try journaling on a daily basis. You force yourself to type out least a dozen paragraphs every day. If nothing comes to mind you just type, "I have nothing to say. I have nothing to say." over and over until it flows. It won't take long, you're a smart guy. Some of the stuff that comes out might shock you. The root of all this anger is probably somewhere where you don't expect it to be. It also could be stifled creativity of some sort. Finally, self-forgiveness. You need to forgive yourself for …
/r/askTRP05/03/15 12:53 AM
1

I mean it's prime-time for having kids and if you want 'em you should be considering that. 25-35 is really the only "normal time" to have kids.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 10:35 PM
1

Yeah, well you're 28...
/r/askTRP03/03/15 09:19 AM
3

Kids and a genetic legacy...?
/r/askTRP03/03/15 02:34 AM
24

For fuck's sake... how do you fucking idiots keep coming up with this same misinterpretation of that phrase? Shitting where you eat is referring to the workplace, not college. Does French class pay for your grocery bill somehow?
/r/askTRP03/03/15 02:30 AM
3

Yep, you're right, white knights do more damage than any other group.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 02:17 PM
65

Guys like him are playing to be seen as alphas to other guys. You mean paying to be seen, right? Excellent post, this sort of behavior drives me crazy. You've been hanging around a girl for weeks and all she is doing is telling you gossip? Fucking lol. I wouldn't even tell them they are doing anything wrong... those type of stories are their own reward.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 02:16 PM
1

Yeah, it also tends to attract AHDH girls who aren't as stable, you're right, mixed results.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:29 PM
17

Totally, first thing I thought of as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:27 PM
2

sativa, definitely
/r/askTRP02/03/15 09:01 AM
102

"I can't make decisions, I need big daddy government to make them for me."
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 08:45 AM
2

Yeah, the only thing holding you back is your fear of going out alone. Do it six times and you won't even think of it as an issue anymore. Pack hunting is for pussies. Go out, talk to every 6 or above in the bar, make a second round on the ones who seemed receptive, then either go home with someone or onto the next bar. Meanwhile, if you see any guys who look fun or like potential friends strike up conversations with them too. It's just practice. Awkward moments happen but they pass by and every…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:30 AM
1

Wow, worst idea ever. She is going to think her value is 100x what it really is. Not to mention the substance abuse issues she'll potentially take on. And her boss is a perv, huh. So she told you that... probably acting like she isn't into it but who knows. I broke up with an ex when she started working as a bartender (against my wishes) and I've never regretted it for a minute. I mean, if she is an emotional ROCK and can just go there and make money and not let anything get to her on any level …
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:28 AM
5

Practice practice practice. For me, I journal every day. You force yourself to type out least a dozen paragraphs every day. If nothing comes to mind you just type, "I have nothing to say. I have nothing to say." over and over until it flows. Basically after I journal my mind is really quiet and my priorities are obvious. Then I make a list and start running through it.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:25 AM
8

Cool, what's your question..?
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:23 AM
32

He is basically MAGELLAN stop killing his buzz. Also, getting tied up? Not that common for college-aged girls. Nor is masturbating in front of someone. I don't find it that hard to believe it's her first time doing those things.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:13 AM
1

Where does everyone else party at at your school? My university had a bunch of houses everyone went to. Just crash parties, nobody generally minds and you can easily chat people up when you get there with some practice. This post seems more about... a general lack of extroversion and social skills than anything else. Meeting new people is a skill and like anything else, it takes practice.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:09 AM
1

Honestly? Accumulate resources. That is the best indication of useful intelligence. Do you have in-demand skills? Can you afford a nice house and car? And so on..
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:08 AM
6

Self-forgiveness. Journaling. You force yourself to type out least a dozen paragraphs every day. If nothing comes to mind you just type, "I have nothing to say. I have nothing to say." over and over until it flows. It won't take long, you're a smart guy. Some of the stuff that comes out might shock you. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:06 AM
4

Why can't you make new friends? I mean, just go out Friday and Saturday nights and meet people / strike up conversations. What am I missing here?
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:04 AM
5

What I’m wondering is… is that her hamster attempting to rationalize that one day she’ll settle for a guy she finds un-attractive? In other words, is she self-sabotaging her sexual desires so that she will just accept a sexless but comfortable marriage[4]? Yes, definitely, that's exactly what it is.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:37 AM
0

It was already exclusive, I said since my needs weren't being met I needed to see multiple women and since her needs were being met she shouldn't need to see other guys. I didn't lay down the law, I just acted like it was no big deal. And it was fine until I started seeing someone else more than 1-2 times a week. At that point she suddenly had "needs that weren't being met" too and it the whole ltr unraveled.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:34 AM
2

Eh, what works for me personally is being amped up/cocky/funny. I basically look and act like Matthew Lillard in Scream 1, if you've seen that. I was a hyperactive spaz of a kid, I'm still ADHD today. Girls love it. it's unpredictable and fun. That's my natural persona, I didn't have to work to develop that. If anything I need to work to calm myself down semi-frequently. The best advice I can give you is enthusiasm and very little filter. Your mindset should be, "This is boring I'm going to make…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 05:27 AM
3

Good luck. I've pulled it off for brief periods but most girls will want to either be fully exclusive or have both parties be non-exclusive. It's really difficult to justify a one-sided open relationship.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:17 AM
6

Enthusiasm. What are you passionate about? What is she passionate about? Arguing about petty topics.. what's better, South Indian food or North Indian food? And so on.. The more life experience you have the easier it is. It's about 100x easier for me to have conversation now, in my early thirties, than it was for me in my early twenties because I've had a lot of life experience / several careers.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 05:02 AM
2

Yeah that's the field I work in too. It's basically easy money, depending on the city. It won't make you less boring but it'll certainly pay for your interesting hobbies (I hang glide a couple times a month, for instance.) I'd start off with a super boring job at a bank, hospital or insurance company and try to not make any waves for a few years. Build your resume up with name recognition. Also during that time you can complete an online MBA (WGU is only $5k and you can do it in a year,) save mo…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 04:55 AM
1

Hey dude, feel free to take it out on me, I can handle it. But yeah, retail, yikes. What is your field of study?
/r/askTRP02/03/15 04:44 AM
1

Eh, people can reproduce when they're pretty young.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 04:43 AM
2

All fair points. You're right, succeeding in the modern, capitalistic world isn't easy. But it's the most important thing you can do. Take it from someone who came from nothing and makes high five figures now in his early thirties, it's worth the effort.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 02:44 AM
2

Giving your kids lifelong head injuries (potentially) isn't the best idea either. I'd rather train my kids in martial arts than football, personally.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:48 AM
2

What is the first male contraceptive exactly?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:45 AM
16

Sounds like you are out of her league.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:41 AM
2

Yep. You need to find a career with upward mobility though. I knew that even as a 19-year-old restaurant manager. Retail doesn't really have that.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:38 AM
1

"I matter more than her" Repeat 1000x a day, every day. ;)
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:31 AM
1

Well, women with shitty communication skills and a lot of confusing bitchiness aren't exactly LTR material anyway. I wouldn't give it much thought. Also, great advice from /u/framewalker.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:27 AM
1

How tactless on her part. I'm dumb-founded as to why she would want to tell you about all that. Anyway, I usually don't advocate breaking up over trivial things but all of that is pretty classless on her part. Yuck.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:23 AM
3

Yep. That's my take at least. She deleted her tinder. She wanted you to meet her friend. All her pissyness seems to come from a lack of commitment on your part. She assumed you would want an LTR with her because you guys had a good sex life. It was less girl game and more just a cocky, baseless assumption on her part. She is probably used to guys trying to LTR her pretty quickly.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:21 AM
2

My question is, how do i better manage my time with a number of women, or does that come with practice? Yeah, it comes with practice. Boundaries boundaries boundaries. How do i get over my ex fully? If anyone knew the answer to that they would be a multimillionaire. It would probably look a lot like Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind though. I always seem to think and go back to her. It's like any other habit, it takes time for your brain to adjust to new patterns. TRP likes to think that guy…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:17 AM
4

It sounds like she was interested in you as relationship material.. once she realized that wasn't happening she is slowly moving on. Yeah, soft next is the way to go.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:11 AM
11

She was probably somewhat pair bonded to you after two years, yet felt the need to leave you because you were so beta. Her frontal lobe / rational mind was telling her to stick around because she knew logically you were a decent guy. Then the more primal / instinctual parts of her brain were telling her to RUN far away. She likely had some inner turmoil about it. But ultimately most women are controlled by their biological instincts and urges. So she probably wiped away those crocodile tears pre…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:07 AM
2

you invite her over for a movie and she'll get the hint.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:01 AM
1

Basically, in real life, there is a REAL hierarchy and true diversity, and the girls aren't 18-23 any more.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:16 PM
1

How did it even come up? And was she talking about his dick or was that something you just added in?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:14 PM
2

It's not even social Darwinism, it's literally natural selection.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:10 PM
26

100% alpha lands you in prison pretty quickly.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:00 PM
2

http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/21/kill-the-beta-2/
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:47 PM
1

She completely broadcast when that change happened though, had he been more attuned he could have just left.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 10:29 PM
2

http://www.orangutanrepublik.org/become-aware/orangutan-specifics-40237/relationships-a-mating-strategies
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:20 PM
6

You're like an alpha widow, but a dude.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:18 PM
11

Lift until you look built without a shirt, buy a house with a pool, throw parties once a month or so, invite the hottest girls from your town to them and see what happens.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:16 PM
1

retail job post-college, lol. How did that happen?
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:14 PM
1

You aren't really using trp principals. What would you do if a 4 year old slapped you? Certainly not freak out, lower yourself to her level, call her a cunt a bunch of times, etc. Like you said, it didn't even hurt. Stop feeling so justified about your reaction. Are you a men's rights advocate first (whiny bitch) or a solid guy who gives no fucks when a little girl tries to get a reaction out of you. Your friends know you're the former, now. Which was exactly what she was going for. Morgan outpl…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:08 PM
2

My interpretation? She knew the slap wasn't hard enough to really hurt. You had been doing such a good job of being alpha that your reaction was completely unexpected. She didn't expect you to throw a temper tantrum. She expected you to keep being sexy and funny and cocky, like you had been all night. You fucked up. Badly. This wasn't some stranger who slapped you for no reason. It was part of a lighthearted banter session. Something a real man would have not given a second thought to. You could…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 11:08 AM
1

It's a lifelong process man, sorry. Just keep correcting negatives as they arise and you notice them..
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:57 AM
3

You come across pretty needy and suspicious to me on that text exchange. Too many fucks given. You're supposed to be a fun guy to fuck, not a jealous detective.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:50 AM
2

You need to find a job you actually feel passionate about.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:45 AM
5

can't get a job Yes, you can. That's always #1. Career is your foundation. You can't go through the next 40 years unemployed, depressed and useless just because you messed up a bit in your late twenties. Stop drinking. Get a job. Take 10mg of adderall or something if you need to be upbeat and confident during the interview. Try journaling on a daily basis. You force yourself to type out least a dozen paragraphs every day. If nothing comes to mind you just type, "I have nothing to say. I have not…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 07:37 AM
1

Restaurant server / bartender
/r/askTRP01/03/15 07:31 AM
2

I see what you're saying, but monks don't socialize. It just becomes a poor metaphor at that point.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 09:18 AM
14

Higher social value --> higher bitchiness.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 03:54 AM
1

It's plausible. The implications of that are scary, but maybe women can literally smell humiliation. I wouldn't even be surprised at this point.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:59 AM
3

Social skills depend on the specific situations at hand and can't really be painted in broad strokes like you're trying to do. Fitting into a rally car club is totally different vs. an outlaw biker gang or vs. a college frat. The most important person in the group is going to be the one who is able to most further its interests. The could require athleticism, money, tech skills, popularity... it just depends on the group.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:52 AM
2

Are you willing to post a pic? Should have said something to them... "Man, why do fat girls always have the worst attitude.. Jack in the Box closed or what? " I mean, 90% of trp is saying what you really think without a delay. If a random fat girl tries to give you attitude I'd give it right back. But yeah, I agree, they were trying to raise their value by lowering yours / making you feel bad.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:29 AM
0

Is this genuinely a problem you can't figure out how to solve? C'mon..
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:21 AM
1

It's called surrogacy.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:20 AM
1

Did it work?
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:20 AM
1

All your responses are excellent.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:19 AM
1

"watch your language, little girl"
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:18 AM
1

lol. She is trying to friendzone you, hard. You are a fucking chump if you don't see it.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:17 AM
6

It was exactly what you would think... they were disgusted with you. They wanted to make sure you wouldn't try to hit on them. How attractive are you on a 1-10 scale?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:13 AM
1

Use imgur.com to post your photos, your links don't work at all.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:08 AM
1

This has nothing to do with monk mode. This has to do with being successful in an easy environment. Home field advantage, so to speak. You're comfortable in your work-place and that helped you get laid. Monk mode is for when you want to work towards owning the record store, rather than just working there.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:00 AM
2

LOL the drugs have rotted your brain, friendo. Best of luck to you.. you'll need it.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 01:57 AM
-2

This is why we must uplift youth and make sure a larger concentration of Men swallow the pill and dedicate themselves to tireless self improvement instead of trying to leech and steal off others. LOL, dey just need mo' money for dem programs! It's why you have these vigilantes such as Zimmerman and others who unfairly target the innocent ones instead of contributing to the community Zimmmerman was neighborhood watch, how is that not contributing to the community? and Tray-tray wasn't innocent, h…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 01:50 AM
10

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/04/08/five-minutes-of-alpha-fifty-years-of-pining/ Genuinely one of the most eye-opening aspects of evo-psych.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:56 AM
13

She is an alpha widow to her ex, dealbreaker. Such a bad case that she had to leave the country and was breaking down in tears over dinner. There was always this unquenched curiosity You're thirsty. Without hesitation or regret, I actively made clear to my FWB that the intimacy we shared is over and that I needed to follow my heart. LOL what?! Profound mistake. When I asked why this wasn't made clearer to me, she had the audacity to tell me that it is because I never asked! Women and audacious b…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:39 AM
1

Well, the trp answer is to ignore the dude, because your frame is that you're awesome and he's meaningless. So she shouldn't wander regardless. That being said, it seems a little sketchy to me, so take that for what you will.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 12:06 AM
2

You said they "had no physical contact." A tight pussy doesn't imply that. He could have had a smaller dick, she could have blown him, he could have ate her out for hours... any number of things. Hell, maybe she did a bunch of kegels.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 11:29 PM
2

You realize Pao, who is this article is referencing, is the current (interim) CEO of reddit, right? http://recode.net/2015/02/27/the-ceo-of-reddit-is-also-on-trial-on-reddit/
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 11:24 PM
2

How would you know that for a fact?
/r/askTRP27/02/15 11:14 PM
3

Wow. You did everything wrong you possibly could. What do you mean, "What should I do?" Start leading instead of following...
/r/askTRP27/02/15 11:13 PM
1

You're not happy being alone. Learn to be happy being alone.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 08:23 PM
1

I'm not saying it was your fault... as she is obviously culpable for making the false accusation. But it's important for people here to note stories like yours and to take heed. People should be aware that they can get fucked over in a BIG way by making seemingly innocuous mistakes. I don't know if you knew she had a boyfriend. if you didn't, you have zero culpability whatsoever. Just thank your deity that you only lost out on going to the school of your choice... worse things have happened to p…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 07:53 PM
2

Avoid a lot of genital contact / rubbing when you fuck. Condoms do substantially mitigate the risk, they just aren't foolproof. Surely guys who have fucked 30+ have it? Huge assumption there. 80% of people can't boil an egg either... doesn't mean the top 10% of men who are banging the most chicks don't take precautions.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 03:09 AM
1

I personally like tynan.com Just a good, chill guy who consistently posts interesting content.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 03:02 AM
1

but she seems to be receding backwards in progress lately. you'll need to clarify this.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 03:00 AM
1

Stop being a lazy, apathetic person in general?
/r/askTRP27/02/15 02:59 AM
7

When you have a keylogger installed on her PC and know her phone password.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 02:58 AM
3

14-15 is plenty old enough. If you don't want to pressure her, don't. Glad that you have the moral compass to make her first time a good one and not a sleazy one. If you just take the lead at the right time, it'll probably happen pretty quickly. How do I approach the subject Why would you need to "approach the subject?" Girls talk, guys do. Take the lead when you feel the time is right and see if there is resistance. If there is resistance, back off for a few minutes, do some foreplay then go fo…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 02:05 AM
2

You know, I say this again and again... and people don't listen. Don't fuck women who are in relationships. This is the sort of destructive result that can happen. Typical TRP ideology is, "What does it matter to me if she's with someone else?" Let me tell you: You're encouraging her shitty behavior rather than shaming her for it. Which makes you part of the problem. You're putting yourself in a situation where she feels like she needs to lie to save her LTR, exactly what happened here. You're p…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 01:13 AM
1

it worked perfectly, what are you going on about?
/r/askTRP27/02/15 01:09 AM
1

If you engage with the drama you're letting her define the frame. Your frame, your life. If you don't like her contributions, kick her to the curb. "You keep bringing up this other girl, it's like you're obsessed. We've already discussed this."
/r/askTRP27/02/15 01:00 AM
2

It depends if you have assets. If you have a decent job and a nice house... of course, you're the gateway to a woman having a nice life. inhibiting their ability to ride the carousel. Of course some women are too stupid / short-sighted to understand the value of this... but just next those idiots.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 12:57 AM
2

Because you have a purpose...? Perfectly normal.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 12:56 AM
1

my advice would be to work on your personal goals... How is your career, education, home life, etc? I have funny one liners and interjections in group conversation and can dominate the frame with weak people but my storytelling is shit and I bore myself a lot. That’s if I can even remember what I’ve actually done and what stories I used to tell as a lie for attention. I sound smart and intellectual on most topics but that’s surface deep, anyone with actual expertise realises I’m a fraud soon eno…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 10:34 PM
1

We live in a sociopathic world where everyone is a liar That's a little extreme... plenty of honest people out there.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 09:03 PM
1

LOL, okay. Well... that says it all, doesn't it? Your wife is a mess. And there is no scenario where it is going to work out. If she's on drugs there's always the possibility of an overdose I guess. Less violent than driving off a cliff. Good luck, whatever you choose.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:25 PM
5

but he didn't want to get latched down and stick with the aging mother so divorce. I think he tried to get back with her for a minute there, they just seemed to fight too much. Then you got her marrying the professor later on as an attempted beta bux play which backfires. And then by the final husband she had become so post-wall and worn out that another divorce was no big deal because her irrational hypergamy kicked in after he proved to be not as high status as she thought. She always went for…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:19 PM
1

What's the best case scenario for your wife, in your mind?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:44 AM
1

However, to ignore that TRP is a philosophy and treat it simply as a tool box is to miss the point, IMO. Every good philosophy is a tool box.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:40 AM
1

I'd say it's dudes taking the red pill when they're 45 and realize how badly they've fucked their lives up..
/r/askTRP23/02/15 10:16 AM
11

Good luck finding a $50k condo in any major Canadian city.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:07 AM
1

Meet new friends at the gym but remain friends with the old group as well.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 04:05 AM
2

It's high school and the girl is a virgin, she isn't some bar slut. Not everything needs to be black and white.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 01:18 AM
1

It's high school and the girl is a virgin, she isn't some bar slut. try to have a sense of circumstances.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 01:18 AM
-1

"You don't understand how this works. You have to take girls out on dates before you can fuck them." Proper response to that laughing it off, "oh do I?" and continuing rather than anger.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 05:16 AM
2

Even having a friendly conversation with her was a fucking challenge, a lot of what she said was a judgment of me based on what I was talking to her about. BEEN THERE. Excellent way to put it.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 05:10 AM
3

Cool dude, good luck with troubleshooting your hormones.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 05:04 AM
2

Six months is long enough to learn most of what you need to. In high-school a lot of girls are still innocent / good people. This changes in your twenties and especially late-twenties and thirties. Most women you would try to date in your late-twenties or thirties will play an obscene amount of games. So that's why you aren't resonating with the material here. Which is a good thing, lucky for you to be exposed so young.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 05:03 AM
2

Um, text her to come over to "watch a movie" whenever you feel like fucking...? Am I missing something? How is this a complex scenario?
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:59 AM
1

or if I should just drop her and move on down the list. Yep. My plan is to ask once more in person and pull this whole "Cough I'm asking you out and if you don't reschedule I won't ask againCough" spiel and see how she reacts. Ugh. I guess but you're way over-thinking it.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:56 AM
6

Never been a diehard red pill disciple, but damn, something has to stop the acceleration of young females in this country from becoming white trash trailer mamas who bounce back and forth from jail to trailerpark to prison to god knows what, maybe some meth cooks house in the sticks. It's called natural selection. Or have I become a heartless cynical bastard who is now influencing people to do great evils because of my warped perspective? Why is military school a bad thing? The grandma is comple…
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:54 AM
4

Do it. Also, might want to post this on /r/steroids. You'll need to start lifting to see the most benefits as well, hope you aren't lazy.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:53 AM
-1

She's publicly humiliating you for not being her bitch, what is there to understand? Welcome to the meat grinder. Next time, get her bag but start going through all her shit and making fun of it.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:51 AM
4

You gain more muscle sitting around on trt than you do working out without it. I'm not on it, but I sure as fuck would be if I had your T levels.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:43 AM
14

He fought with the cops and then was running towards his car where he had a loaded handgun. Fuck him.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 04:42 AM
1

lol, this post is awesome. thank you.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:20 AM
1

Depends on what you mean by party. But yeah, the first year is the easiest for sure.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:20 AM
1

Listen to your penis.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:19 AM
1

When she disappeared (walked away out of nowhere) was this a test? Because when I went back to my friends, she was even more into me. Yep, she was seeing if you were high-value / would chase after her. Turned her on more when you didn't bother. Saying she doesn't remember the night, is she ashamed of being seen as a slut? Yes, and she wants plausible deniability for whatever reason. This was also a chance for you to say something like, "maybe I should refresh your memory" and lay the pipe again.…
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:17 AM
2

Way to disregard all the advice here and do the moronic thing regardless. Don't bother posting next time if you aren't going to listen to anyone, fuckface.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:12 AM
2

Yeah fucking your best friend's girl is not rp. Bro's before ho's applies here... women don't matter enough to fuck up a legit friendship.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:12 AM
2

Takes all types... why does it matter to you if your attractions are a little weird? Thank your lucky stars you aren't attracted to 10-year-olds or something.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:08 AM
1

5% to 15% or so. Like the other dude said, depends on the socioeconomic area. Super high in black communities, for instance.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:04 AM
2

No, but it certainly helps. I dropped out of college to go the entrepreneurial route and it set me back at least five years. Helps to have a lot of business experience before you go that route. I wouldn't rush it.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:04 AM
3

You talked way too much and weren't direct / terse. Came off like a tryhard nerd, tbh. It was obvious you gave many, many fucks.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:02 AM
1

Yikes... why would she be getting beaten? For being home late?
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:01 AM
1

Seems like a bad situation that she feels a need to raise your self-esteem. Are you saying negative things about yourself to her? she's trying to "encourage" me that I'm a big stud for her. But that only makes it worse because I know it's not true. What makes you think that, exactly?
/r/askTRP22/02/15 03:57 AM
-5

You're doing fine and this is normal. Just don't let it drag out for months. If it happens a couple more times, you need to tell her that being physical needs to be part of the relationship if it's going to continue, and take off, then don't talk to her for a couple days. Basically you are both trying to set your boundaries right now, and there's a bit of conflict, which is totally normal. It'll sort itself out in the next few weeks, guaranteed.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 03:55 AM
14

Seriously. I'm always more weirded out by people who think sitting through a little office BS is "excruciating" than by the actually office bullshit. Having a boring office culture with lots of red tape is a sign of first-world affluence. Go live somewhere shitty for a while and see how you like it long-term. Offices are just like high school, which was also boring. But you learn to deal with it and learn to thrive, it isn't such a bad thing. I can pull down six-figures in many offices easily be…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 03:23 AM
70

Nothing wrong with a "short-term" LTR in college... a couple months here or there. Or as long as she's making you happy, really. Everything doesn't have to be black or white.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 03:18 AM
2

Exactly what question are you trying to research with the book(s)?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 02:24 AM
1

Yeah, she's concern trolling you unintentionally. Be cautious, concern trolling can be its own special genre of shit-testing. You're doing the right thing though, just keep being amused by whatever she is concerned about until someday when it's actually valid.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 11:49 PM
0

Troll Ivy-league colleges..
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:38 PM
4

Steve the IT guy thought it would be funny to stick a Jewish girl with a $1,300 bill and brag about it on 4chan. ;)
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:36 PM
1

Jews tend to breed based on success... it's a smarter strategy in my mind than typical alpha fucks hampstering.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:35 PM
1

Maybe we should start going after Jewish women if they hampster so much less. Then again... the familial depictions I've seen in Woody Allen movies aren't something I'm really after.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:33 PM
4

She essentially noticed that other girls put up nice-looking photos and made their profiles sound more fun and upbeat. Shocker.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:32 PM
1

Practice telling people what they want to hear while nailing as many hotties in the class as possible?
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:06 PM
1

Staying there would be a HUGE MISTAKE. For multiple reasons. And you already know this.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:05 PM
4

Nope. Rich woman are able to get the alpha fucks they really want... why would they bother with beta bucks?
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:03 PM
3

What is this, some anti-gun fear mongering bullshit? Women who conceal carry don't generally go around shooting random people in the dome, thanks for playing.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:53 PM
4

I think you've subconsciously created a psychological catch-22 for yourself that you can never break out of. It's not even a good one. Getting a job is the first thing you need to fix, period. Socializing and dating is for AFTER work. Girls don't like you because you have no life / ambitions. And pursuing girls when you have no job / money makes no sense. That will only serve to continue the cycle. Which is what you want subconsciously, I'm sure. It's all just an excuse for you to remain depress…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:22 AM
1

I'm sure you could figure out how to get one. Why would you even be trying to date / socialize when you don't have any money? That's so backwards..
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:14 AM
3

Why don't you at least get an escort to lose your virginity?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 02:58 AM
2

http://fit-juice.com/joe-rogan-kale-shake-recipe/
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 02:53 AM
3

Eh, sounds like not the best relationship. Speaking the "same language" is one of the more important aspects of a ltr.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 06:41 AM
0

She fucked her ex over Valentines Day. Or someone else she has a thing for.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 02:19 AM
2

Haha, trust me I know. I have a whole protocol for that sort of thing.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 01:06 AM
1

Tough situation. So you're the only male offspring. And your sisters are probably going to model their relationships based on how your Mom treats your Dad. So, shitty futures for everyone involved, probably. Personally, I'd write your Dad a letter, assuming you're over 21 and out of the house. Tell him what you really think about the situation over 2-3 pages (in a very tactful, almost superficial way) and tell him you never have to discuss it again if he doesn't want to, but if he keeps ignoring…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 11:15 PM
1

Pretty twisted man, sorry you went through that.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 11:02 PM
1

Sure, the bottom 30% who generally can't get women anyway and bi-sexuals.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 11:00 PM
1

Your question doesn't really make sense. It's basically, "If we hadn't been having sex at all, would I have come to my senses quicker?" Yeah, probably. Maybe. What's that have to do with anything, though?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 10:47 PM
1

Well that works. I just mean it might be worthwhile to meet her friends. In my experience single friends might make good plates down the line... guys there can sometimes be worthwhile business contacts, etc. Of course, if all her friends are trashy and not worthwhile, that tells you something too.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 11:54 AM
1

Good. You shouldn't see value somewhere where there isn't any. Look dude. When you get your life in check, a girl will come along and she will bring value. She'll light your life up. It won't be work. Until that happens, don't pretend there's value where there isn't any.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 11:50 AM
1

Did you try it?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:45 AM
1

I generally don't vote but align with dem / libertarian. They're all terrible though.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:41 AM
1

I've never seen someone overthink totally useless shit so much, damn.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:40 AM
1

I'd go just to see what her friend circle is like. Call me curious.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:38 AM
1

To which I got the response: "They don't need your approval". I was baffled. Wow, you care way too much... what she said, was basically just a "no shit" statement. I'd have said, "well, no shit." And been done with it. How was that even a shit test?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:35 AM
1

Learn to edge.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:33 AM
1

Talk with your hands. A LOT. Be loud. People mistake volume for confidence.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:32 AM
1

Yep, he's right. Right now you still care too much. "But why aren't they nicer / better / more loyal." You'll get over it.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:30 AM
1

I don't see myself ever getting along and feeling secure in a relationship. Good. You should make yourself feel secure. A woman shouldn't do it for you.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:29 AM
1

How would we know why this is happening to you? Overall it sounds like a good thing, unless you're the guy who shit his pants on stage or something.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:28 AM
1

you love yourself. You have close friends. You have close co-workers. You struggle with your goals. You fight for what and who you want.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:27 AM
1

she gave me the "come back in an hour" I'd have laughed in her face, if that tells you anything..
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:26 AM
2

Only if they're like 40 and trying to brag about it.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:24 AM
1

If you think she's a liar, next her I guess.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:23 AM
1

But this isnt a valued trait, and really has only left a target on my back. It's a valued trait if you are higher up in the corporate world.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:19 AM
2

I live and work in Silicon Valley where there are a ton of Indian dudes, and I've never seen one with a white girl unless he's extremely rich (think director level at Google). Indian dudes aren't really what most American women go for, unless you have a really striking look and attitude... sorry. Also, use spaces after your periods and paragraph breaks, for fuck's sake man.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:18 AM
0

Restaurant jobs when you're eighteen don't matter, might as well go for it.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:15 AM
3

Not shit tests... just basic consideration.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:14 AM
1

A lot of guys are going to be criminal / alpha as fuck in Columbia, what the fuck are you talking about?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:13 AM
6

99% of the time it's going to be her being a raging slut who banged "badboys" in the past
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:12 AM
2

"Hey you wanna hang out with me go to the bar? I've never been to one" So go to a bar by yourself. Better yet, go to a pool hall by yourself and practice shooting there.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:11 AM
2

Is this some type of narcissistic behavior or thinking? Yeah, basically. You get off on being desired. It's an ego trip. Not entirely healthy long-term but not awful either. Better than unrequited love.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:09 AM
1

Just get all over her pussy right away... ass rubs and so forth.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:07 AM
1

She won't fuck you after a few dates...? Seems straightforward to me.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:07 AM
5

How many more times will you quit your job for a woman before you learn?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:06 AM
1

... Did you have a question?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:02 AM
-1

How would I react? I'm pretty much honest about that sort of shit.. mainly because I want to know her partner count too.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:01 AM
1

Be terse.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:00 AM
2

Wow, your response is extremely poor. Good god man. Are you guys LARPers or something? So... is the shit test here her telling you she wants to sleep with your roommate?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 07:59 AM
9

... There's no issue here, it's a just a word. Ignore it.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 07:58 AM
2

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.. All this being said, he reacts very negatively when i drop some RP views on him. Could you go into more details about this? Was he asking for help / advice at least? Do you have any siblings?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 07:57 AM
2

by far the best answer set..
/r/askTRP15/02/15 06:27 AM
1

Use short, clear sentences that they can use easily for soundbytes.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 06:24 AM
1

Chuck or donate it. Although I'm sure your mom had some inkling...
/r/askTRP15/02/15 06:22 AM
16

Next fucking Elliot Rodger right here...
/r/askTRP15/02/15 05:32 AM
1

The guys you're referring to probably don't have fulfilling careers / plates / FWBs / etc. They are mostly the bottom 30% who all women rejected, and they never could get married. I do think life in your 40's and 50's might feel a bit empty without children though, personally.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:03 AM
17

You are obsessed with getting this stuff back... that's not how gifts work. Those are her flowers and chocolate now, you gave them to her. Why do you think she would give them back? Trying to get this presents back from her is essentially throwing a petty temper tantrum (taking your ball and going home) because she didn't respond the way you wanted.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 02:52 AM
6

She can fuck OP and still have orbiters and maybe even a boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 12:01 AM
9

She's actually perfect low-frequency plate material dude. Just give it a few weeks and see what happens. Great write-up.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 11:07 PM
3

That means you're intelligent. Unfortunate for you!
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 10:57 PM
1

same night lay. so easy.. https://www.google.com/search?q=snl+redpill+-saturday+-skit+-obama&oq=snl+redpill+-saturday+-skit+-obama /s
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 10:56 PM
1

Making a girl cum is practically effortless for me. If that's true, don't you already have a few plates spinning?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 10:51 PM
6

Problem with this is you're introducing yourself as classy. So the girls will try to be classy as well... AKA, they won't sleep with you for a few dates so you don't think they're sluts.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 02:47 AM
1

Do you think it will make future women less inclined to commit/whatever? Nah, they will be more into you... women love dads, it's instant social proof. Do you think it can fuck with my career? Only if she goes crazy and starts calling your work? Any other bad things you have thought of that I haven't? The financial hit is really the biggest issue. And making sure the kid is raised in a good home.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 02:37 AM
2

Just a bad break, might work out for the best long-term though. Shouldn't have admitted to saying anything.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:47 PM
5

It's been around 150 days since I last ejaculated, Jesus christ. 150 days?! Use it or lose it man. Once a week or so is less than average. Once every six months is crazy.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:45 PM
3

Listen to your boner (or lack thereof). If this girl isn't getting you hard you need to move on to someone else.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:43 PM
55

manufactured controversy to sell papers / fill space.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:39 PM
3

there's always some female character or manginas who try to talk me out of what I want to do. I feel you bro. Buy a cheap house that's all yours and work on making your career as independent as possible... it's the best way.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:36 PM
2

Practice.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 01:21 PM
3

Actual scarcity? In NYC? Are you fucking serious?
/r/askTRP10/02/15 01:19 PM
1

She sounds great for a LTR... low N-count, etc. It sounds like you're creating a problem where there isn't any. Just keep moving your goals forward and see if she is genuinely along for the ride.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 01:17 PM
2

Not sure what you mean, DNA carries all of that. Educational potential is basically IQ -- that's 85% hereditary. Height is 70% or so... http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/how-much-of-human-height/ Athleticism is certainly inherited, for instance running... How exactly do you think traits are passed down if not through DNA...?
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:07 AM
2

Just based on demand. Women all want tall, well-educated, athletic, etc, etc.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 10:50 AM
1

That's a lot for one month.. damn.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 10:40 AM
1

And if he doesn't want to raise a child but wants genetic offspring all he has to do is go to a sperm bank. They generally only take dudes with Ivy level education nowadays.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 10:35 AM
3

Uh, maybe she isn't a slut and wants commitment.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 09:04 AM
2

Ignore it both publicly and privately. She likes you, what's the big deal?
/r/askTRP10/02/15 08:22 AM
2

$40k up-front is an awful lot for anyone in their twenties though. And he doesn't even want to raise the kid, which defeats the whole purpose of surrogacy. I'm not entirely sure how much child support is for someone who doesn't make that much (OP said he's a student)
/r/askTRP10/02/15 08:20 AM
1

Do you have any idea what surrogacy costs? Its like $40k minimum.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 08:07 AM
1

I'd do it personally, but I'm all about having kids. Assuming you think she'd be a decent mother.. also realize this well tether you to her for the next 20 years, at least in some regard.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 08:05 AM
1

In what context?
/r/askTRP10/02/15 08:04 AM
0

Yeah, this is what happens when the arrogance of redpill posters saying, "Fuck any girl, who cares if she has a boyfriend / husband.." meets reality. You didn't assault this girl, yet you still got completely fucked over by disregarding social norms. See how that works? Moving on... obviously try to keep training and staying in top physical condition. Do some life enriching stuff if you can afford it, like traveling to Europe or just all around the US. Learn to be happy on your own, without your…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 08:00 AM
1

but I just told her I was feeling more confident. lol, you need practice for sure. Just shrug those sort of questions off. P.P.P.S. Also she cried and says she wants her sweet man back She'll get over it.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 07:46 AM
3

She probably broke up with him so she could fuck you all week... Make a rule, no more talking about the ex during that week... you're just there to have fun not be a relationship counselor.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 07:01 AM
5

Your post could not be more spot on..
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:47 AM
3

Welcome to the meat grinder. I'd start playing dirty, it's the only way you'll win. But that probably won't even save you at this late date. She's being groomed, the company award is proof of it. Very likely she will get promoted above you in short order, and then the real fun will start, assuming you're her direct report. You seem to have lost the competition, as well as your frame, and any respect she had for you. At this point it's all about minimizing your losses. You'll be lucky if she does…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:43 AM
3

When you're 38 self-improvement is a lot less about taking new classes, spinning new plates, working out, etc. Chances are you already have a solid career, nice homelife, decent body, professional skillsets and so on. It's much more about fixing aspects of your personality that don't work so well for you (drinking?) and knowing yourself really well. I'd try journaling if I were you. It's basically forcing yourself to write 10-15 paragraphs each morning (or whatever works for your schedule) -- if…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 05:46 AM
11

You need to be needed. You need to rescue the wounded puppy / damsel. She manipulated that part of your personality. She told you all the reasons why she "needs you so badly" to get you hooked. Then once you were, she dropped you. She played games with your heart and with your head. Of course it's going to hurt. I'd stop trying to suppress those feelings and let them out. Emotional suppression doesn't work, you need to give yourself the time and space feel what you're really feeling, whether tha…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 05:14 AM
31

It makes sense evolutionary for FA types to bow out. Women basically all want the top 20% or so, and beyond that another 40% or 50% of guys can still do decently. But if you are in the bottom 30% of guys for whatever reasons... well. Natural selection doesn't really want you to procreate. And women are the herald of natural selection. I'm not saying that they shouldn't try to improve themselves, they should. But the fact that they don't is evolution in action.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 04:50 AM
11

Don't be a pussy. School and workplace are not the same and cannot be so casually equated.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 04:41 AM
1

It's not site-wide, but the mods of most of the defaults have their automoderator settings set to silently remove any comments that contain r/theredpill. see this thread: r/TheRedPill/comments/2hfx9u Feel free to test it out. Link to this sub in a comment on r/AskReddit, wait a minute, click permalink, and log out, the comment will be erased for everyone but you. Not that the RedPill automod settings are much better, I had to resubmit this comment without any links so it wouldn't be removed. But…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 11:44 PM
1

Bit off topic, but watch it with the anti-histamines, they apparently cause dementia over a longer timeline. http://www.nhs.uk/news/2015/01January/Pages/media-dementia-scare-about-common-drugs.aspx
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:25 AM
0

Welcome aboard! Congrats getting over your onitis.. I have a friend going through a divorce and the oneitis is still strong, despite her doing some ridiculous stuff to him.. So pat yourself on the back, not everyone makes it that far.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:23 AM
3

You're welcome, kid. If I may ask, how old are you?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 02:43 AM
2

An alpha male. Like these guys: Alistair Overeem, Brock Lesnar, Vince Wilfork, etc. Those guys are all huge as a career. If you want to be like them you'd need to get into MMA or whatever. If you don't feel like a "real man" b/c you're not like those guys though, then you have some psychological issues you need to address. Being 'roided out to the max is just one aspect of manliness and no where close to the most important.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 02:23 AM
5

You ever had your sperm count tested? your story is pretty horrifying..
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 01:22 AM
0

Be loud.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 01:14 AM
5

These girls sound dumb, simple as that. I went to a pretty good school, the girls I'd do projects were always pretty efficient. I would play dumb and get them to do a lot of my work as well. Are you attending a low rank university?
/r/askTRP07/02/15 12:35 AM
10

completely agree... harsh but true.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 06:51 PM
1

C'mon, nothing for that great video link? ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 11:50 PM
11

That's why a lot of women think she is.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 11:36 PM
1

These guys all think they're acting nobly too... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8teRxOSNHs
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 10:45 PM
-1

It sounds to me you've already made your mind up, you just want the practical aspect of it to be easier. I'm going to base my response on two presuppositions: You're definitely going to dump this chick, maintaining a relationship out of guilt / pity is retarded and it's holding you back. You do love and care about her so you don't want to see anything bad happen to her. Which leaves only one option at the end of the day... you need to help her get onto a path where she is independent and won't h…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 08:22 PM
1

A lot of the time too in my head I'm thinking "don't get emotional and fuck this up, don't get emotional and fuck this up" and I wind up doing just that. I'd worry less about getting emotional... women like guys who get emotional. Why do you think they are turned on by passionate men / or felons who are violent and can't control their tempers... Be emotional. Be cocky. Be belittling in a fun way. Be a little crazy. There's something about your post that makes me think you're coming off as a bori…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 08:12 PM
0

Also, what stuck out to me is your pursuit of nobility. Good luck with that, one of the dumbest things you can do with your life.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 08:06 PM
27

The whole point of plates is that they don't take up much time or effort so you can focus mostly on doing your own thing. It's not entirely a binary choice like people here like to make it.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 07:59 PM
16

Excellent write-up. What was your wife like before the marriage? In hindsight, were there any red flags that she would turn out like this?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 07:57 PM
11

If we were living in the 1950s, it would be different. Women needed providers then. I've concluded men no longer fill the provider roll. They're more like fashion accessories to women now. At least that's the way I see it. This is entirely dead-on. The man as the head of household has been replaced by a combination of government and television, imo.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 04:14 AM
3

I had great desires when I was little wanting to play basketball / ride my bike / etc. I'm sending them to the wood shop.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 04:12 AM
-3

So - really - IS THIS COMMON ENOUGH YOU KNOW PEOPLE LIKE THIS? Cause its fucking weird. Most people in the US are pretty low class it seems.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 12:56 AM
1

I work in Silicon Valley and most everyone is married, not sure what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:41 AM
4

Lots of beta bucks science nerds out there..
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 08:46 PM
3

A lot of TRP stuff is biological. Even a very effeminate gay man is still not a woman. Doesn't have the hamster or the same societal outlook. They generally don't pair bond like women do either. I'm sure gay guys can take on elements of female behavior, but I wouldn't put all that much into it. The gay dudes I know don't go crazy for alpha thugs like women tend to, they don't form soft harems, etc.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 08:17 PM
0

I'd rec a dialed-back version of the CKG diet from /r/keto sidebar / FAQ. No carb == all the benefits of fasting, plus building more muscle because you are eating carbs after lifting when your muscles need them.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 08:15 PM
1

Tldr: things went well, kinda disgusted by past actions of primary girl, You're disgusted because she had poor experiences with black guys in the past? Are you saying that's her fault for dating black guys, or what? I don't understand.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 08:10 PM
2

But then her bringing it up again out of the blue and spinning it so negatively really caught me off guard. She was basically talking out loud to herself. "You better watch it with this guy, he's calling all the shots, it's exciting but I don't feel in control..." I edited my convo because I forgot a big portion of it in which I told her she can have control this weekend but I am taking it back next weekend. That's fine... just be real shallow and shit test her a lot when she chooses [whatever.]…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 08:05 PM
15

She is likely spinning you as a plate. Stop calling and texting multiple times, one and done.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:15 PM
1

Don't validate her concerns? What makes you think you need to defend yourself from her..
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:14 PM
6

She is manipulating you hard core. Personally, I'd be very put off by what she said. First, she doesn't take responsibility for her actions or feelings in the least. You're assertive, so she suddenly has no agency. That means in 6 months or 6 years when some other guy gives her the tingles and she goes along with it she'll say, "I told you I have trouble saying no sometimes" and you'll feel like a dumbass. Second, she loved that you pushed her boundaries. She's eating it up. It's like you said i…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:11 PM
12

Yep. I read it as an indication of her intelligence as well. A girl who is smart enough to maintain a LTR with a programmer or scientific researcher is a very different breed than a woman who goes after "someone with swag" who is just peacocking but has no real social status (think Jesse Pinkman)
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 06:50 PM
1

trust me, I'm not a bug fan of gambling either. I think of it as video games for people who don't know how to manage money. Spending $20 a month on a WoW account (or however much it is) is so much better than getting sucked into flashy lights at a slot machine and wasting hundreds, if not thousands. Problem is, my town is basically shitty and there isn't much to do beyond mini-golf, a movie, applebees or the casino. And the casino is like, five minutes away...
/r/askTRP29/01/15 07:31 AM
1

This is a favorite, thanks. It didn't even occur to me to ask her for money to gamble.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:58 AM
1

How did she burn you exactly..?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 12:50 AM
4

Completely agree. Not to mention Dave is also a piece of shit who neglects his financee for some random girl he has a crush on.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 12:49 AM
2

I was just looking for an old FR that has stuck with me, the one about using a hotel pool. Found it, turns out that was yours too! Small world on here and goes to show how few people actually contribute good shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 10:48 PM
1

good advice, thank you.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 10:33 PM
2

what happened since all that? Are you two still together...?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:57 AM
3

There really needs to be an app that dings your reputation if you're a flake like this. While it's certainly possible to not let it affect your frame, this sort of bs is something decent people (people who meet their obligations) shouldn't need to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:50 PM
11

Good for you bro. This is what it's all about. Just make sure you're able to roll with the punches, life will throw some random curve balls at you.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:34 PM
8

Yeah, unfortunately I'm in my thirties now. Too much of a power imbalance for me there. For dudes in their early to mid twenties though...
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:50 PM
9

... if you read his history it's pretty consistent. Not to mention he provides a lot of good content to the sub. In contrast, your submissions here are all questions, complaints and rants. Basically bitching. Do you basically think FRs are fake because you don't seem to have much success yourself?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:44 PM
15

Hell, 16-22 in most states.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:41 PM
32

It wasn't really humble. Just a successful pickup. If you don't like reading field reports, why come onto them and complain?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:20 PM
6

I didn't say your comment was too long. I said it was lacking in useful content and off-topic considering what he asked you.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:08 PM
5

Is there any point to your comment?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:01 PM
6

He asked you which part was humble, not for a litany of complaints. I enjoyed the details. Storytelling is meant to paint a picture, this post did so. Please take your bitching elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:00 PM
1

idk if this is the best resource to link to for "powertalk" Feminists calling TRP neckbearded quasi-rapists is more powertalk. Neckbeard is their powertalk code word for "unattractive", but the real unattractiveness they fear is his lack of mastery of powertalk. They're afraid of the creation of a sort of hybrid, a man who understands powertalk well enough to see through their bullshit, but not well enough to create his own bullshit and actually thus BE attractive. That's why they use the term "…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:23 PM
4

He's also fairly warm and charismatic, it's a fine line.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:20 PM
-3

Left to Right..
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:12 PM
1

Facts don't lie. Look at the numbers..
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 08:23 AM
3

Here I am in the real world wondering if there are groups like fraternities that I should be searching out or looking into joining. Sure, they're called corporations..
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 08:05 AM
12

I think it's more locale. Rural areas have a lot more innocent girls. Big cities? Not so much.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 01:33 AM
1

Neither you nor I can prevent that once they enter the school system. There's always unschooling / homeschooling. Or CAVA if you're in Cali.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 12:49 AM
19

I somehow doubt that lack of Red Pill awareness makes women unhappy. post-wall. It makes a lot of them unhappy in the long-view. They have it made in their twenties and early thirties, sure.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 07:41 PM
7

Yep, I agree. The ultimatum was probably unnecessary here and I do think it lowered his value a bit, not that it apparently matters much in this case.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:03 PM
2

How would you let her choose in that scenario? Just sort of blow her off any time she started talking about her orbiters, or what..?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 03:54 PM
5

You didn't have to ask her to kill off the orbiters, you already had her back. I'd say this is where you fucked up. You essentially lowered yourself to compete with them when it wasn't needed.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 03:52 PM
3

He did make her choose... her orbiters or him. She seems happy enough with her decision.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 03:51 PM
2

Please use longer ficticious names in the future. Like Oliver and Victoria. Anything really. Reading single letters is annoying as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 03:48 PM
1

Have you asked him what sort of guy's he's into / finds attractive?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:10 AM
1

This is an excellent and under-rated post.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 12:38 AM
2

You can be chill and still "next" women who cause drama, or who break your boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 11:55 PM
3

To date, approximately 2,000 babies have been born from frozen eggs. The largest published study of 900 babies from frozen eggs showed no increased rate of birth defects when compared to the general population. Additionally, results from one study showed no increased rates of chromosomal defects between embryos derived from frozen eggs compared to embryos derived from fresh eggs. There have also been over 300,000 children born worldwide from frozen embryos using primarily slow-freeze cryopreserv…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 06:40 AM
1

As someone who's on that spectrum, how do you feel about people glorifying the lack of empathy? It shouldn't be glorified. If I was "in charge" it wouldn't be good for a lot of people. For instance, I basically believe that six billion people is way too high of a global population, and eugenics is the only rational way to move forward. I think the US would be much better off if everyone with a below 105 IQ disappeared overnight. My philosophies are frequently based on hard, violent realism and l…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:51 AM
3

That's an amazing post. Not going to lie, I'm on that spectrum. But I do have a lot of loyalty to those who I respect... my inner circle of friends. So maybe there's a happy medium. Psychopaths are lonely people. Imagine thinking you're better than everybody else, get incredibly arrogant because you feel superior but are unable to connect with anyone and so are perpetually lonely because "nobody is on your level." You have such a low opinion of people that you cannot find value in most people. Y…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:28 AM
1

I wouldn't interpret the crying as any sort of sign of disinterest, strange as that is. Read this post for instance.. The months fly by. My social circle is expanding. My gigs are starting to become impressive. I hear my own music on the radio. And my girl is becoming increasingly needy, emotional, neurotic. Don't get me wrong, by now she has already told me that she would literally be willing to die for me, but since just after the first couple of months of our relationship, she has up until no…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:05 AM
3

Journal... around ten paragraphs every morning. Empty your head out on paper (or in wordpad) every morning. If you're anything like me, your journals will be really angry for around 2-3 months. Then they'll gradually get more and more constructive. I started out with entire paragraphs in caps, shit I didn't even realize I thought subconsciously. Rereading them would scare me sometimes. Now when I journal it's mostly goal and task centric. Big difference.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:50 AM
2

Guess what, there's nothing "wrong" with it. You made a decision, and now there are repercussions. You got pussy Your friend doesn't want to be your friend Accept it and move on, don't come to us for validation or approval. Doesn't change. Just apologize to your friend and let it be his call.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:27 PM
3

Now I just nexted another one and she's been spreading shit to other girls. This is a good thing. Just wait and don't give a shit about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:24 PM
5

They're fine, but they can shit test you on a whole new level since the world is their oyster. Basically, hard to compete with a guy who has basic game and makes $250k year at google.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:23 PM
3

Fucking gorgeous cinematography.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:00 PM
13

Rich dudes who throw large parties at their houses.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 07:30 AM
4

you're good, they're messed up. You're confident and have perspective and they don't know how to handle that so they lash out. Just move on.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 06:56 AM
2

takes two to tango. When a woman makes a commitment (like signing a lease in the OP) or a MARRIAGE, nothing wrong with holding them to it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 08:02 AM
4

She could at least not sign a year long commitment and then break it within two weeks.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:57 AM
1

That's about the only way the OP in this thread could have came out ahead as well, gone and confronted the new guy
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:41 AM
13

It's because he's so dreamy... http://servingdope.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Tavon_White_mugshot_480x556.jpg
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:27 PM
0

Seriously. The one sub where it's probably a good idea to use an alt, and you can't b/c no new accounts. The fuck.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:48 PM
4

I think most here are apolitical / unrepresented.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:10 AM
1

Nope, that subreddit is apparently just fine. http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1018597
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:41 PM
8

https://i.imgur.com/J5L4Ien --> great image
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:12 PM
4

Just call anyone who gives you shit "bigots." People hate that.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 07:55 PM
1

Dude, you start kissing her neck and go down from there. But it also didn't get a rejection. Hence the confusion. Because you were supposed to continue.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:14 AM
0

She wanted her pussy eaten and a good fuck, not just kisses. You said, "There will be consequences" then you only kissed her... what a smuck. This isn't high school. You were waiting for her reaction when you should have gotten her alone and just continued.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 06:26 PM
1

This might be a dumb question, but is there any drama with any of the guys? Any feelings or emotional turmoil?
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 07:53 PM
12

I wasn't totally poor, and my family certainly helped me out when they could, but experiencing the high-class culture and saving up for a trendy apartment was the furthest thing from my mind - I just wanted to eat and be able to buy textbooks and some clothes. Welcome to the life of being a disposable man.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 07:52 PM
12

Damn your wife sounds high maintenance. I mean, well played, but damn.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 07:36 AM
2

wrong. she told the truth when she was pushed to. He just couldn't handle it.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:25 PM
4

maybe less men 'make it' in life than we think. Far fewer. This had been the most difficult realization of my adult life. All those kids though, are going to look up to your friends as the hero in their life.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:02 PM
2

Your biggest, fallacious assumption is that you shouldn't feel angry. There isn't a need to suppress your feelings. Just direct them in a rational, productive way.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 04:51 PM
1

little kids man. Once they're two or three, different story.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 04:49 AM
5

Stop fucking women you feel resentful towards. Also, you're supposed to direct those "coddling" feelings towards your small children, not women.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 07:56 PM
3

I agree with you 100%, the internet has made life a lot easier for those of us who are smart enough to utilize it properly. Sorry you sort of missed out man. You can always still get a mail order bride and have like ten kids though.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 06:42 PM
2

Yep, she thinks you have no other / better options. Time to hire a hot personal trainer at the gym.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:36 PM
6

Ugh, no. These are bad. The first one says you need approval from other people to do what you want, the second one is really ass-kissy, telling her how sexy she is. Then they both come off as really rapey on top of it. You want her to make the moves... instead you're being super sexually aggressive towards her.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:32 PM
58

wow... that's pretty obscene.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:21 PM
5

Guess you didn't read the "no concern trolling" rule huh.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:20 PM
2

What makes you disbelieve in free will?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 10:53 PM
2

that I should not come home. Don't go home. You need your own place. As soon as you're 18, GTFO. It's an abusive, codependent relationship and you need to get far from it.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:53 AM
12

“Male students tend to adopt the attitude of, ‘I’m a man; I can do what I want.” So men shouldn't do what they want to their own bodies? The fuck?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 06:46 PM
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