Monday field reports

deepthrill · 2014-01-20T21:16:52+00:00

Went out with a bunch of friends, mostly female. A friend of a friend joined us and sat next to me at dinner. We were on a pretty even keel upon meeting, but when she realized I was older than her, and established in my career, but also the fact that some of the other girls we were with, as well as the waitress, was attracted to me, the dynamic changed and her whole body language said she was interested.

But I wasn't that interested in her, as she was not very attractive. She start to hang on me a bit throughout the night, and I was pleasant but aloof. Not as a strategy but simply because I wasn't that interested. She started to hang around me a bit more.

Anyway, fast forward many drinks later and I'm out dancing with a group of people and a girl comes up to me and starts dancing with me, very aggressively. Now this new girl was much more attractive, so I was a bit more receptive, but still aloof. She was making out with me on the dance floor, and not really holding back.

I looked over at my friends (again mostly female), and saw they were watching me out of the corner of their eyes. Then one of them made a motion with her hand to me, and I realized that she was telling me that the girl I was dancing with had a wedding ring on!

I never look for that, because it really makes no difference to me with how I treat them. But it was an interesting turn of events.

I later found out that the original not-so-attractive girl tried to come over to "steal me away" or "save me" from the married girl, but my female friends were good wingwomen and told her to let me be and to let me enjoy myself.

The married girl's friend (also married! and her husband was there!) started trying to dance with me as well. What was interesting was that married girl pushed her friend away (jealousy? competition?), while the girl's husband didn't seem to be bothered at all.

It was a very odd night... but it sure did end well.

TRPtruth · 2014-01-21T05:36:25+00:00

Still swallowing, first time out with Alpha with top notch game. Only could have appreciated the night and/or understood what was going on after reading TRP, so you get the FR despite the seddit overtones.

Sat night, pre-club we (group of 5 guys, 2 hard betas, me swallowing, and 2 alphas) meet at bar for what can only be described as pre-game strategy meeting. Alpha 1 says he's going to run a number close game tonight and use me as wing. Alpha 2 says he's just out to drink tonight and chill, so he's out. 2 betas are just homies there for the entertainment, cannot be used as wings as they would ruin with beta lapdog questions/interactions.

Alpha 1 breaks down the plan: 1) hot chicks will walk in with a fat/ugly friend; 2) make no eye contact with anyone at the club except our crew; 3) once hot chick is marked, slowly migrate as we have engaging bro convo towards her; 4) when close, wait for opening, opening comes (someone drops a glass/loud noise/bump into each other, he makes the move); 5) He talks exclusively to fatty for 10-15 minutes, turns back to hotty; hotty will get anxious and be desperate for attention, flip her hair, feel awkward; 6) After hotty can't control being blown off she will physically/verbally indicate a demand to be included in convo/get attention, he will turn to hotty; 7) when he makes his turn, I break off from the crew and come in to distract fatty while he number closes.

Admittedly I was skeptical . . . WRONG. It went exactly as he said. EVERY. FUCKING. CLUB.

3 clubs three number closes on the hottest chicks in the club. BEAUTIFUL 9-10s. "I could have fucked any of them" he remarks. Yeah, he could have, I witnessed the interactions.

On close #3, a sidewinder tries to swoop as A1 is still in the 10-15 minute fatty warm up/build hotty jealously phase. It was actually pretty smart and I got a chuckle, he used Alpha 1 as defacto fatty screener and took full advantage. Alpha 1 just pretends like sidewinder was not even there and ingeniously pulls me into the conversation, 2 betas follow me (which was good because sidewinder is assed out on the side awkwardly by a group of dudes, gives up). Was pretty funny. Number closed.

What did I learn? Yes, hot women fall for this routine. Yes, hot women always have a deputation of fatties tagging along. I learned how he made his intro, listened to how he kept the conversation going, watched his body language, tone of voice, build value (and helped him do so), showed confidence, and got what he wanted. I gained some experience talking to stranger women (fatties but still).

Also had a chance during the interactions to engage with hottie who could smell my transitory phase and IMMEDIATELY non-stop shit tested me. It was like pure instinct for her to do so to me as I noted that A1 was not getting any shit tests, really. I maintained frame with 2 or 3 tests (agree/amplify/act like question was never asked and just kept talking), but did not push my luck (these were solid 9/10s) and quickly blew off hotty to return to fatty duty. If you do engage hotty as the wing, cool get the taste, but don't get over your head and blow it for alpha. Keep it to a minimum while you are learning.

I would recommend this to any new swallower. If you can, go clubbing with an alpha, have him lay out a plan and set you up to wing. Do not go with the intention of anything but observing and running fatty/sidewinder interference. You will get a chance to talk to a fatty, which is probably a great level 1 intro to talking to women--they are easy to talk to, usually have an interesting conversation or personality, like the attention, and you will see what being an alpha is all about by keeping a third eye on your alpha buddy as he games the shit out of a hotty. Pay attention to what fatty says and keep asking her questions--that's all you have to do.

Nobody in the crew had any idea what TRP is, some guys are just pure alpha.

MrFunnycat · 2014-01-20T19:24:43+00:00

Friday - Nothing to report, i literally can remember a damn thing happening.

Saturday - Early doors, really early i'm chatting with debby (the venue manager) for about half an hour because she's avoiding doing any work, and she notes, being more observant than me (I was probably distracted by her tits) "Them two girls are just waiting for me to fuck off so they can bug the shit out of you", i look, sure enough they're looking over but they quickly divert their attention. Eventually Debs goes back to work and surprisingly they dont actually make a bee line straight to me, they play it a bit cooler. But only a bit. I notice out of the corner of my eye that the slim one (9 body, 6 face at best, attitude problem face, you know the type) is staring at me, intently. I try not to look her way but eventually the tractor beam pulls me in, she keeps the stare for a second, smiles and looks away. I play a few songs they seem to like and the slim one starts blowing kisses at me every time a new song comes on. Eventually my curiosity as to whether i could get a win gets the better of me, i wave her over. "If you're going to do that, you may as well do it properly", so she does. "What time do you get off? 2 yeah?" she says. "Aye, always 2", "I'll meet you outside".

About half an hour later in comes a girl who defines the way yoga pants should be worn, i later learn she's a former holiday club dancer and singer 24, solid 9. Her friend was pretty hot too but i knew where i was going. Start running some light game, chatting about her former career, how she's back at school etc. Its going well. I say "Look ive gotta get some work done, why dont we continue this conversation tomorrow" and hand her my phone, in goes the number. I figure great, im in here.

A girl comes in around this time that ive been flirting with all week, the main topic of discussion being her promise of a blowjob after my set. I had kind of already figured out she was probably just a cocktease by this point, but i wasnt going to look a possible gift horse in the mouth. "Can i have X song (Dubstep, this isnt a dubstep place" "I dunno about that, whats in it for me" Looks down at my crotch "Oh is that a promise?" "Yeah" "Alright then"

This girl will figure later in the story but rest assured, the blowjob never came.

A redhead of about 40 then comes up to me, she was tidy enough for her age i guess but nothing special, she was flirting HARD and i was kind of humouring her and running practice game. I notice some tiny guy is kind of hovering on the periphery but think nothing of it. She goes away, and i notice he's following like some sort of lapdog. Comes back a bit later on and i ask "Is that your mate like?", over he comes, on her shoulder like 10 men.

Her "He's just asking me about a song" Me: "No, thats not what i said, i said is that your mate Points to him Him: "No, thats my fucking lass" Me: "ahh, alright cool, good for you" Him Eyeballs me Her: "Pack it in" Me: "Listen to her" Him: "Or what like?" Me: (Having 7" and 80lbs on him) "Or this will end very badly for you" Him: "Oh will it now, what you gonna do like?" Me: "Right now sweetie ive got a job to do, but i'll tell you this, ive got no interest in your girl, if i wanted her, id have her by now, if you want to be a prick my shift finishes at 2, but my advice is to walk away" Him: "See you at 2 cunt" Runs away while trying very hard to disguise the retreat

I get a text from the dancer as i'm leaving "Yeah i heard 2 girls talking in the toilets about how much of a slag you are, apparently you wouldnt play their song unless they gave you a blowjob" Not quite how it went down, but still.

The girl who was meeting me at 2 did indeed stick around. Unfortunately by this stage her phone had been stolen and she was more interested in fannying on trying to ring her dad on her fat mates phone as if he's somehow going to be able to get it back at 2am. I waited 5 minutes, got bored and came home. Didnt leave a number, she had nothing to save it on haha

And thats how i once again managed to turn 3 solid leads into a dry dick ¬_¬ Its becoming a pattern

Redonqulus · 2014-01-20T20:34:56+00:00

Hey mate, DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT.

bradyo2 · 2014-01-21T16:16:53+00:00

Right, first ever field report.

Friday - Went out few a few drinks at a bar which turned into a lot of drinks at a bar with some of my friends-who-are-girls (all the guys were too pussyole to come out, one joined later in the night after work). Got chatting to a local girl who asked to sit on our table cause the whole bar was so crowded. General flirting going on, but I try not to invest too much interest, which was one of my problems I had previously. Noticed that she, like me, had a tongue piercing, so I called her out on it. She said we should 'touch tongue piercings', which we did. Not full on mouth-on-mouth action but it was a lot better than anything from my last few months. Then the weirdest thing happened. SHE asked for MY number. Now, I'm not a bad looking guy, but this was a first for me, she was a good 8 on the scale as well which shocked me. I nonchalantly handed my phone over so she could put her number in, then called herself to get my number. Bit more flirting, arm wrestling contests (I guess you can almost count that as kino??), then I asked if she was out tomorrow at Replica (only decent club for students on Saturday) she said yes, and told me to call her when I'm there. Me and my mates left about 10 mins later.

Saturday - ignored her completely (again, something I would never have done before finding TRP), and went out to the club. Didn't see the girl there, but was flirting way more than usual with bar staff and cloakroom girls. Got chatting with one of my friend's cousins, being a bit too keen, so I decided to leave her and go to the smoking area with my friend. Surprise surprise, she follows 5 mins later, and we end up chatting again. Again nothing happened (although I had to take my flatmate home as she gets way to drunk a lot) but it was positive signs.

Finally, today (Tuesday), I get a text from girl 1 (tongue piercing girl) asking if I remember her from Friday. Again, this is a total first for me that a girl has text me first when swapping numbers. Really is testament to how great TRP is and how much fun I'm finding it after just 2/3 weeks. This was my first proper attempt on nights out as well, and can't wait to try it again next weekend.

TL;DR: TRP works.

slcjosh · 2014-01-22T19:02:31+00:00

Only real event for me was Saturday. Watched the game with the boys, invited some girls over, had some beers and enjoyed the game. When the game was over, the girls started looking for a party and a buddy and myself fired up some tunes, started passing out some shots, played some video games while we looking for something to do.

Girls finally find a party, but it is a bit of a hike and I knew it was going to be a complete sausage fest. I tell my friends I'm not interested, they follow suit and a unanimous "fuck that shit" stated. We tell the girls to go without us, we are going to one of our favorite bars down the street. We ditch the broads and hoof it to the bar.

Get to the bar, we are regulars. See tons of people we know, lots of fun, conversations, socializing ensues. Walk up to the bar to order another drink, there are two cute girls sitting next to where im ordering. Im not in an ideal position to order, but im not worried, im a reg, im 6'5 and the bar tenders know what i want. These two cuties look at me, smile at each other, then one of the girls grabs my sleeve, and tugs. I look at her, i dont lean in or go to her, i grab her hand and pull her to me. As i Tower over her, i ask whats up. She melts in my arms, i can feel her body lean into mine. She says she wanted to help me get a drink, since i was never gonna get served where i was standing. I squeeze her hip gently, and tell her she need "not to worry about me". I just smirk at her and gently push her back to her friend, and made eye contact with my friend behind the bar. He grabs my beer, and hands it too me between the two girls, before they even got to order. I did a kind of cheers motion with my beer and winked at the girl i thought was cuter, and returned to my friends.

About 20-30 minutes later I look up and notice the girl Im interested in is looking at me from across the bar. I catch her staring and hold eye contact. She gets kinda shy, looks away and plays with her hair. Its fucking on.

I walk up to her as she is sitting at the bar again after about ten minutes. She asks me what beer she should order. We chat a bit, im keeping solid eye contact, taking up lots of space at the bar, and when im looking at her, im just imagining tearing her up in the bedroom. She is EATING IT UP. Shes touching me, playfully hitting me, etc etc. I lean across her to grab my beer, and she leans in closer too and kisses my cheek. I just smirk, pull out my phone and hand it her. We exchange info, and had my hand on her hip the whole time we are exchanging info, and I give her a nice squeeze on the ass and tell her ill be back in a few.

As im walking back to my friends, her friend intercepts me and says "i need you to back off, ok? She has a boyfriend, and" i cut her off and said "You're a good friend" and just walked right past her. I went back to my friends, and looked over and saw the girls gathering their shit to leave. I decided to go have a smoke, and they walked past me on their way out. She came over to me, hugged me, and i kissed her. After our brief kiss, she held on for a bit. Her friend shouts out "Youre an ASSHOLE, SHE HAS A FUCKING BOYFRIEND!!!". I kept eye contact with my girl, one arm around her waste while she is hugging me, and my free hand im flipping off her friend. Friend gets even more pissed and walks up and breaks us up, grabs her friend by the wrist, and storms off. As they are walking away i hear twatswatter 3000 screeching at this girl "what about david, what is wrong with you!!!!"

I guess i didnt work the friend hard enough. I wanted to take her home, oh well. She text me the next day, I asked if she really had a BF. She said yea, but they are in a rough spot and she doesnt think its gonna work out, because things are complicated. Alarms go off in my head that she is branch swinging and that despite being super attractive, I want a ride or die bitch in my life, she didnt really qualify. I told her to call me when things get "un-complicated" and left it at that.

Varrian · 2014-01-21T04:22:55+00:00

Alright. First field report. Constructive criticism more than welcome.

Earlier during the week, an aquantence from my beta days messaged me on fb asking to pay me back for the times when I drove her home. She wanted me to pick her up and take her out and claimed that she was paying. I took it as either she wants to get with me, or actually wants to pay me back. I assumed the former.

When the time came, I went and picked her up. Lo and behold, she wasn't there. After looking for her, I gave up and went home. She texted me asking where I was 30 min later. I should have rescheduled, but I went and got her because I said I would. I was a little pissed and she noticed it. I tried to escalate early, based on my assumption, but she literately flinched away. So then I thought she actually wanted to pay me back for all those rides and based my frame off that.

I suggested that we see a movie and she would be paying as a way to pay me back. We went to the movie theater to buy the tickets but it turns out that it doesn't start until two hours from now. I was hungry so I suggested we get something to eat. We endef up at an A and W. We ate and chatted a bit. No escalation and just mundane conversation. I kept my frame that she's supposed to be treating me, and prompted her for interesting stories. I shared my onion rings because it would be awkward to eat alone and she paid for the meal (of course)

We still had 1.5 hours left so we went to a nearby bookstore. She browsed pokemon manga while I looked at cookbooks for research on a project. We didn't talk much and did our own thing. When the time came, I waited for her to finish the manga before we left. Very beta, I know, but the girl is paying for everything.

The movie was paranormal activity, the chosen ones. It sucked ass. The trailers had all the exciting scenes in it. But whatever, now I know. She didn't enjoy it either. I commented to her that we should have just watched 'frozen'. It was a quiet drive back and I brought up the topic of her flinching away just to make fun of her. She said that its because we don't know eachother that well, and I said that I do that to everyone.

At the end, she said 'we're even, right?', which I took to mean 'I don't have to see you again, right?' I replied 'yea'. Just to mess with her, I said 'we should do this again sometime.' She didn't reply.

TL; DR: 4/10 hardcore pokemon fan treats me to a movie and dinner. Now that I think about it, I should have got her to help me beat Time Crisis 4.

Sunday came and I went shopping for materials for my cooking project. The parking lot was pretty crowded and this guy was taking forever to back in his crappy ass minivan. After waiting for 2 minutes, I swerved in and took the spot. It took me less than 10 seconds. He got out of his car and everything about him said beta. He said 'I was going to park there, don't be an asshole.' I shut him down and replied 'go find some other parking spot.'. Then just walked away.

JirosGyros · 2014-01-21T21:34:20+00:00

TL;DR Made out with L, left her, made out with other girl, left her to dance with L, and made out some more. After I turned her down from me going over that night. Not too much of a FR, but I went out on Saturday after getting off work with a co-worker my bro and met the guys out at a local bar. They were trashed so me and my bro went to smoke hookah. After seeing not a single good looking woman in the streets or hookah bar we went to another bar on the strip and got shots. Our other friends joined us and brought the M to F ratio to 1:1. L was there again so I made out with her as usual when we drink and left to another bar.

At this other bar my friend tried to wing for me when I talked to a 8 at the bar who turned out to be a complete total bitch. After about 2 minutes I left them and went to another friend who was talking to girls that had talked to me before. Neither were cute but not too bad either (been a while sadly). The blonde said we were pretty boys and guessed we were in the AF. We leave to a bar to play beer pong which we destroyed in. Blonde from the bar that looks not so great but not that bad is there and says im a pretty boy again (we were dressed up, slacks and button downs) and goes to hug me.

I hug her and make out with her before letting her go. She's again not that great looking so I leave it at that. We go to a "club" or rather a bar with a dance floor and I dance with L and my F friends. Make out some more with L while dancing because the girls there weren't my picking either. On the way home L hints at wanting me to go home with her but I say I can't and go home with the guys. Why? Because this cat and mouse game has gone on for 3 weeks now and I have her where I want her.

Title	Monday field reports
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	32
Comments	27
Date	January 20, 2014 7:06 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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