monk mode payed off, but didn't expect this.

[deleted] · 2016-05-26T19:47:47+00:00

This is the key point where you get plate #3.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2016-05-26T17:32:53+00:00

You are missing one of the basic rules: KEEP THE FUCKING FRAME. You know don't want to be in a ltr but this girl is pressuring into taking her. The moment you agree to her demands it's game over.

[deleted] · 2016-05-26T18:49:19+00:00

So you got 2 chicks:

Yoga chick
Wanna green card chick

As far as I understand your problem is that both chicks are cornering you into relationships now. All right.

Now the first question is:

Do I want a LTR?

If the answer is NO, just stay where you are. Both chicks will leave you sooner or later with different with a different excuse. This is ok since their goal is settle up.

If the answer is YES here is what you going to do:

Take a vacation from both of them. Go somewhere for a week. And think both through.
Before you took your vacation collect as much evidence about them and also reflect on what are you need from the LTR.
Weight both of chicks through your needs, do cost-benefit analysis of their personality. Pick one.
You dump 1 chick, take another for LTR. Prepare that the dumped chick may revenge you or do some crazy shit. Nobody likes being fired.
Go get your LTR and enjoy it.

Jakei34 · 2016-05-26T17:56:34+00:00

I second user Pastelitomaracucho. Keep the frame

(Yes I typed it out)

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[deleted] · 2016-05-26T20:54:46+00:00

Unfamiliar territory? If you don't want to invest/get in a relationship just don't. This sin't rocket science. Listen: all girls are replaceable. Don't start negotiating and compromising in order to keep a girl. KEEP YOUR FRAME and next her ass!

[deleted] · 2016-05-26T22:26:17+00:00

She's pushing for an LTR. Say no. If she leaves, you'll find another. If not, you've got a plate.

EscritorDelMal · 2016-05-26T22:52:26+00:00

I told her to give me a few days to think and she agreed.

This is where you fucked up. If you KNOW you don't anything more, SAY IT. Don't give a fuck if she leaves. ABUNDANCE MENTALITY.

Protip: she'll most likely not leave

FrameWalker · 2016-05-26T22:54:28+00:00

Girls only push for commitment when they think thy can win. Go too alpha and they might even ghost to save themselves go too beta and they demand it. Walk the line. A good guideline is to see girls once a week and no more than twice every ten days. When you hang out 2/3 of the time make it sex and no other activities. Say you dont want a relationship all you want but if you cuddle and hold hands and tske them out often they will expect a relationship

Paratonir · 2016-05-27T06:40:02+00:00

She's not gonna leave, 90% sure. She is simply trying to pin you down, but keep in mind that she is going all in on this. Since you have the upper hand in this situation, as long as you do not give her what she wants, she will give up on the LTR and you can plate her for good.

turbosympathique · 2016-05-27T17:01:28+00:00

Question for you:

Are you ready to let them go?

If not you're fucked!

Ragnorabove · 2016-05-26T19:57:38+00:00

How you managed to get a date in Tinder? I always get dumped before getting that far.

TomFoo · 2016-05-26T20:22:09+00:00

I reported this shitty post. Sidebar, motherfucker.

Title	monk mode payed off, but didn't expect this.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	18
Date	May 26, 2016 5:25 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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