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My first Red Pill Bang

TheAFOracle
March 27, 2013
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Title My first Red Pill Bang
Author

TheAFOracle
Upvotes 20
Comments 22
Date March 27, 2013 4:44 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1b49vo/my_first_red_pill_bang/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/my-first-red-pill-bang.3775
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[–]backbitting6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeap you're a douche.

[–]FountainsOfFluids2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wonder if women find the multi-orgasmic male intriguing or odd.

[–]MustNotFfff8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She just got out of a 3 month relationship and never slept with the guy.

Well that's the most blue beta thing I've ever heard.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't remember where I've read it, but there was this guy that started a long relationship with a girl in a mmo and then stayed in that LTR for almost 4 years with out sex and then the girl drifted away, he rationalized as the both felt uncomfortable, any way next week after the girl was fucking one way of her Uni.

I would feel sorry for the guy, if i did not find blue pills so unbelievable pathetic and their own worst enemies.

[–]FountainsOfFluids-2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A girl I knew had a two year relationship like that. Though they did oral. I never did figure out why they never had sex, but I think it was something like once the frame is established that way, it stayed that way. The next guy she was with she really made an effort to make sex part of the relationship. Yes, the girl made sex a priority, because she saw how failing to do that left her without sex for two years. People learn sometimes.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Congratulations on popping your RP cherry, however, based on the BP hamstering I read in your post you have a lot of work ahead of you. March on, soldier.

[–]Endorsed ContributorTDCRedPill2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Afterburner89 says effectively the same thing, but I'm missing it. Would you mind pointing out some the blue pill parts of the OP to help he and I understand better?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I sound like a douche. There's a certain art to this type of writing. We both enjoyed ourselves through the entire encounter, even though it sounds like I was an asshat the whole time, I wasn't. I was a playfull asshat.

No you don't, you sound like an uncompromising man who knows how to build value and just had some of the best sex of his life, and she seemed to enjoy it as well.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

this is what i like to read, reminds me of semi-applying red pill without realizing what it actually was (was angry for a couple weeks before finding this subreddit). Nofap...going to have to get back on board with that, I find after a few days, if I can push through, new mindset and clarity comes to focus. So damn hard to get there.

Appreciate the post, looking to learn and go from there.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Regarding Nofap: I highly recommend it. It's strange how powerful the motivator of sexual desire is, even if it's subconscious.

[–]Endorsed ContributorTDCRedPill4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Now comes the really fun part, the positive messages from a girl confused about how awesome you make her feel and how no one has ever made her feel that way and she knows it may not last but you're amazing in ways she doesn't understand but can't keep from feeling. Those are amazingly validating texts.

Congrats on your success!

[–]oreopimp3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

You have a lot of work ahead of you but good job. It seems like you also still see things as a check list of things you must do. Asshole frame is also the wrong way to think of it. All it comes down to is having desires and if she is not game to come along w you, fine thats her choice, it doesnt affect you...it also comes from a place of having strong boundaries. This stuff should all be intuitive, not anything you really think about on a conscious level.

Also doing things purposefully (going out of your way for her benefit so she sees it) to show you have value over her is silly. Just have value and do what you want because its what makes you happy. You shouldnt really be doing anything you wouldn't be doing if you were out by yourself.

[–]FountainsOfFluids6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm trying so hard to be consistent with this frame. Once I heard somebody talk about it this way (I think Tofu over at seddit) it just clicked so much that I knew it was right.

Found it: You are on an eternal journey towards greatness. When you meet a beautiful woman, you gladly welcome her to come along for the ride, but you are unwavering on your commitment to your journey. You understand the fundamental truth that women don't want to be the adventure - they want to be taken on an adventure by an attractive man. You are that man.

It's rather hard to do when you've lived your life as if getting a woman was the end goal, but it just makes so much more sense this way.

[–]ReggieReddit1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I hope you guys know he's trolling.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How do you figure?

[–]SuperSelfHelpMe0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

PiV?

SMV?

[–]rednailz2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Penis in Vagina was my guess.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

SMV – Sexual Market Value. A shorthand statement for “what you bring to the table,” whether for an one-night stand or for a longer sexual/emotional relationship.

cant help with the other

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

holy shit the glossary thread is pathetically useless.

[–]zionController0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Removed for trolling

[–]CompteJetable0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why did you believe he was trolling ?

[–]telnet_reddit_80-1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I maintained a frame of being superior to her in every way. I teased her. I showed social proof by halving an in-depth conversation with the cashier about their iPad-based checkout system.

"Show, don't tell."`

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