So I M23 is moving into this new city and was dumped by my girlfriend of 3.5 years recently since college ended and we were moving into seperate cites, i thought I'd connect with some of the people from my old School to see if something clicks. And there was this girl who i kinda knew from school. She wasn't that popular in school and was not so attractive, being frankly honest. Now after 5 years she has got that "college glow" and she's studying medicine in this new city I'm moving into.

So i texted her on Instagram and things moved to Snapchat and we were flirting, iykwim. I was sharing pics, she was sharing pics and stuff. The problem is that i over-complimented her. Yk, when you know you kinda look like Billy Joel but someone says you look like John Hamm, you know they're complimenting but you also know they're wrong and just tryin to make you feel good. So that's what I did with this woman, cause the pictures were seriously hot. Then on day 2 (all this happened on day 1), she stopped showing interest me at all, so i was kinda agressive in texting and showing interest. She didn't care that much. She told about how it's not about the body and more about personality. The thing is, i liked her personality too but she doesn't belive that.

Then i told her that I'm moving into her city, and she showed interest again. But now she doesn't show interest when i text her. But if i stop for a even a day, she says she missed me and why i didn't text. She makes it known that she wants more than a fling with me. But again, when i do show interest, she pulls back and goes offline for 8-9 hours.

What am I doing wrong here, what is the course of action now, what should I do? I move to her city in a week, she kinda knows it, but i have got others prospects too. She's not that cool, our vibes clearly don't match, but she's kinda cute. Idk man.

Thanks for reading, please comment.