So I had a gf for about 5 months when she left me for my beta roommate(now exroommate). She said she got tired of the constant negging and mind games and just wanted a nice guy to make her feel safe and wanted lmao. The guy she left me for is 130 soaking wet and only puts up 125 on bench. I'm 225 with a 315 bench. She said the only reason she stayed as long as she did was for my body but then I was just too intimidating and she even called me a "muscle bound freak". I make 165k and drive a BMW R 1200 RS. Any tips for getting back out there after 5 months locked to a ball and chain?