I went on an OKC date meet up last week with a self described feminist cougar. I didn't do anything different than I usually do, same bar close to my apt, buy the first round, talk about whatever, add humor, kino, then go for the kiss. When I make out, I usually do it for a couple of seconds then push her away and start talking again, then pull her towards me (repeat).

In our exchange of convo and lip locking we both acknowledged that it was getting late, and I believe I said "Well I have your number." She said that basically I needed to contact her and that "All men should take the lead. It doesn't matter what other women say not even feminism."

Just thought I'd share