You probably won't learn anything new from this, it's really to see if all I've learnt in the last few months is considered to be accurate. Feel free to give some feed back.
I postulate that what makes men attractive to women can be summed up into 4 categories: Looks, Social Status, Wealth and Personality. We will go through each in detail.
Looks
Looks can be separated further into 3 subcategories: Genes, Appearance and Physique. Genes: A woman wants her children to have the best genes she can give them, she is therefore more attracted to men with stronger physiognomy and bone structure - defined features
like a jawline or a brow that signifies strength, facial symmetry is paramount. Height is a cardinal feature as well, not only for ripe genetics but also the implication of dominance over other men. While slightly less principle, race can be a factor. While most races prefer their own, most evidence would suggest that Europeans are generally considered to be the most attractive. Appearance: This essentially means how well put together you are, it can include your haircut, your hygiene, skin/health maintenance and fashion sense. These are usually indicators of your status, health and social intelligence. They can also accentuate attractive genetic or physique features. Since fashion changes regularly a definitive attractive haircut can’t be stated but a safe bet is to go with what famous actors tend to have. Physique: It’s no secret that a man with big arms and chiseled abs has an easier time with ladies, it implies that he would be able to take care of himself and her should he need to. Though for certain being neither skinny or fat, the ideal male body type is not defined and really depends on the woman, however being fit with low body fat will probably give the most success.
Social Status
A man with a large following or network indicates a leader with access to resources, and what do women want more than social validation? A man with social validation. The most attractive men will have millions of people who know them and validate them, however even high ranking men in small communities benefit from the attraction to that role. If you’re someone who people listen to and do what you say, women will notice. The same goes for just recognition, if multiple people acknowledge you (whether it’s bartenders or managers) a woman will take that as a sign of social status, a very attractive trait in men, in atavistic times the head of a tribe would be well known and respected, it was him that had the best access to the reproductive line. Making contacts and social circles helps achieve this, also if you happen to become famous for some reason or another.
Wealth
Probably the most simple trait but also the most difficult to achieve. Women like men with money, especially if they think they will buy them things that elevate their status (expensive cars, cars or holidays). If someone finds out a partner has been unfaithful to them a man’s biggest fear is the physical act of fornication, whereas a woman can’t stand the thought of her man’s resources going towards another woman. The primordial reasoning behind this attractive trait is quite obvious, financial stability and access to resources will provide her and her offspring a better quality life. If I knew how to
Personality
As opposed to wealth, this is one of the easier traits but also the most complex. The most important thing is being yourself. That is if you are an alpha male with an abundance mentality. In pick up and red pill circles a term widely used is Frame - acting within your reality and bringing people into it. This essential means you do things on your terms and you are not emotionally affected by her. One of the most important attitudes that you can have in a relationship is that she needs you more than you need her and that your life will not be affected by her being in or out of it, the worst thing you can be is needy. This will come to test when you are tested by her to see if you are mentally stable enough to breed with, she will try to unnerve or get a rise out of you, if you do this you have failed the test. Being focused on your career and self improvement should be your main goal, this will be better for you and she will find that attractive. Confidence is considered to be one of the most important traits a man can have, this means believing that people will respect you no matter what you do or say, this comes across in your body language and voice tonality. This is essential in making a move on a girl, if you don’t believe in your ability to do it, neither will she. There are other traits you can have like humour or intelligence but they can be simulated through your confidence, you don’t necessarily have to be funny or smart, just as long as you act funny or smart. That being said social intelligence is needed to pick up on indications of interest and social cues. Once again these personality traits are found in a leader, causing the attraction.
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