Oneitis coming back

THEDICKDEALER · 2017-04-28T12:26:32+00:00

"Just dropping this girl totally is out of the question"... Looks like the oneitis is still alive my guy

AnjaJutta · 2017-04-30T19:25:04+00:00

TLDR: Self professed "natural alpha male leader of other men" looks, acts and posts like an awkward highschool kid.

Skylights1000 · 2017-04-28T11:31:19+00:00

Looks like it's not "coming back". It's already back. Stop tricking yourself to think shes the "unicorn"

Ittype01 · 2017-04-28T11:41:15+00:00

You don't want to give her the impression that you're ignoring her; the impression you want to give is that you're a busy person and that your time is scarce.

It's been 10 hours, you should respond and set a definite date- and you want to court her from here on like you've only just met (even tho you've hooked up with her)- ONLY contact her once per week to set up a definite date but if she contacts you throughout the week don't bask in a long convo just let her know you're cough up with things but you can't wait to hear all about it (whatever she texted you about) when you see her on the day of the date

Shirye · 2017-04-28T15:39:46+00:00

You're overthinking this brah. Just set up a time for yall to hang out and don't text her nothing else.

Lsegundo · 2017-04-28T18:42:38+00:00

how long should I wait to sufficiently let her know not to act up like this again

Forever!

New Chad liked her pussy, but didnt want to waste any time on her unless they are naked. She texted her fall back plan. Let's see if he takes the bait.

TehJimmyy · 2017-04-28T19:13:24+00:00

run away. she will eat you up . read the sidebar cunt.

Joel928 · 2017-04-28T20:42:55+00:00

First, you're projecting a false image of yourself, and that's going to fuck-up your game until you accept this and fix it - you're probably behaving in a much needier way than you realize, especially around women you're very attracted to.

A Natural Alpha is quite rare. He is not crazy about a particular girl - he's crazy about HIMSELF. Hot women are toys to a Natural Alpha, and usually just a nuisance. Ask yourself, how many women is Dan Bilzerian crushing on? The answer, of course, is ZERO. Does Dan have a Oneitis? Of course not. Why? He is in total abundance with women - ONEITIS IS A PRODUCT OF SCARCITY. Asking Bilzerian what woman is his favorite is like asking you what your favorite coin in a large change jar is - IT'S AN ABSURD QUESTION.

If you had a threesome with two Vikki Secret models last night, would you be counting the hours since that girl texted you?!

She disappeared on you because she was busy getting drilled by other guys (and probably still is), and/or you're just another blustery frat-boy Natural Alpha wannabe who CAVES when hot college girls shit-test him hard - your incongruent behavior turned her off, man.

Think about that, dude - she's getting smashed by other dudes and ignoring you. Is she really so damned special?

A Natural Alpha would have skimmed her melodramatic text and forgotten about it in 3 seconds. If he bothered to care about some girl that may have ghosted him (he can't actually remember if she did), he would text her back something very brief about - himself - and he would do this whenever the fuck he wanted to.

When she shit-tests you (again) with another melodramatic text, you DO NOT fall into her frame - it is IGNORED. A few days later, when YOU are doing something amazing, hopefully involving other people, invite her to hang out.

If you do not fall into her bullshit melodrama - in any way - she will be there.

neuromantra · 2017-04-28T11:22:08+00:00

Im sorry its probably gone by now. Sometimes there arent second chances. If you ever go back with her youll need to be whealthier or a dog.

DailyChupa · 2017-04-28T18:51:35+00:00

If she's worth it just stick with it and she will come around. Don't play mind games or act a certain way because that won't win her over. Don't be a bitch and beg and plead to be with her. Be aloof to her rejections, continue to improve yourself, act cool with her and persist. Only do this if you know she truly is special and believe me if a woman senses you feel that way about her through your actions (without acting like a bitch) she'll come running to you. Wanting that one special woman isn't Beta, but you still must be an Alpha in your actions. Betas end up alone on the death bed because they thought treating that special woman (and by proxy all women) like garbage would win her over.

19RomeoQuebec · 2017-04-29T03:03:20+00:00

Understand, that once you figure out that AWALT, and that its only your turn. I think life will be better for you.

There is also a married red pill, maybe you should read some of that.

ThePwnter · 2017-04-29T03:34:38+00:00

I'm just going to throw this out there, but the fact that she abruptly ended it, was so she could ride guilt free on another cock. Once she got it out of her system, then she was willing to entertain your advances again. Don't forget these are the carousel years.

Honestly, it seems like you have lost your SMV with her, and it appears you are going to let oneitis screw you.

urbanwizz · 2017-04-29T01:50:43+00:00

As a fellow pledge brother, drop her. Funnily enough, my pledge brothers gave me similar advice just about a month ago and I'm so thankful for it. Who knows what sort of beta-behavior I'd be engaging in right now at the start of SUMMER BREAK if I was to get back with her...

Any ways, shoot me a PM, tonight's my last night before initiation at a fraternity at University of Toronto (provided I don't get dropped),

Title	Oneitis coming back
Author	ecocrat
Upvotes	0
Comments	23
Date	April 28, 2017 11:17 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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