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[–]Senior ContributorRedPope 33 points34 points35 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not only is your post yet another complaint, it is also concern trolling.
If you have read the sidebar, you saw this quote:
Anger is a legitimate emotion in the face of injustice.
New guys are having their eyes opened. For the first time, they are aware of injustice. Of course they're going to vent. The Mod team has repeatedly said they will never prohibit these anger phase posts.
If you have read the rules, you know concern trolling isn't allowed:
Concern "I feel like this sub is focusing too much on.."
If you think there are too many complaint threads, your best recourse is to contribute the type of content you want to see. Create threads that aren't complaints. Quit being passive. Start the discussions you want to have.
[–]rojo-pildora 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember a post a while ago that had the 4 stages of recovery. It essentially gave you a window into OP's mind to see where he is at in his transition to red. I can't quote this post and I don't have the time to find it so I'm not going into the stages.
However you are spot on when you say it is a new member of the red pill finally opening their eyes to the injustice of men and how awalt.
[–]Vryk0lakas 21 points22 points23 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
The red pill isnt about women. Its about you and taking care of your life. Dominate your life don't let it dominate you. Women follow success. Dont chase them or worry about chasing them. Great post OP.
[–]AssedM 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Stop trying to refine what the redpill is. Right there on the side bar, "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." The red pill is sole about how to get sex. There are plenty of other self-improvement boards you can first. You are projecting what you want it to be rather than what it is.
[–]moveon4ever 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, real meaning of redpill got nothing with women..
[–]Lu_the_Mad 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You get sex by being successful. You get sex by being the person people want/need to be with.
If you are beautiful, successful and fucking awesome and display an aura of confidence that goes with it, you will have what you want, sexually.
[–]RPSigmaStigma 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You get sex by generating tingles. The things that generate tingles is rooted in biology. "Success" as defined by modern society (money/career/etc) is a beta bux sexual strategy. A year ago when I first joined this sub, the general discussion involved concepts such as how to disguise your financial status to avoid being seen as BB material, while emphasizing dark triad, confident, asshole-ish traits to generate primal tingles. This is an AF strategy.
The problem is this sub has accumulated a lot of "purple knights" who think being "alpha" means shit like being "successful" or being a "good" man, etc. If you go back and read posts from a year ago, especially the ones by some of the oldschool patrons like /u/GayLubeOil, /u/IllimitableMan, etc, you'll see.
[–]rpkarma -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Eh, disagree. I was an unsuccessful cunt of a heroin addict for a good 6 years, and I got just as much pussy then as I do now (even more at times), as a successful clean businessman. shrugs
[–]Chinny4daWinny 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
cunt of a heroin addict for a good 6 years
Drugs do shit to you and make you act a certain way. You know those bad boy thugs girls see on TV and wanna fuck? You resembled that. Also you give off a wild lifestyle with surprises around the corner and chicks dig that.
[–]rpkarma 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Definitely, that was my point :) you don't necessarily have to have your life in order to get pussy. It's just better to, imo.
[–]Vryk0lakas 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah man you don't get it. These guys are all complaining and letting drama with women rule their lives. Its not about that at all.
This... So this!
The second you take away women and sexual strategy from the redpill you might as well just sub to /r/mgtow
[–]EstefanoMoravera 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with you man. The more you complain about women and see them as "the enemy", the further you are from the light, in my opinion. You just can't be fulfilled and happy if you're angry at half of the world's population all the time, above all because they don't give you what you desire. It's time to move on and grow up. I agree with many things on this sub but sometimes I think about splitting since there are so many butthurt bitches around.
[–]couid 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
The fact that this is being downvoted says a lot about the way this sub is going.
TRP is about rationale and discipline. Leadership and humbleness.
This is it. TRP is about, in my eyes, becoming the best man you can be. This process may change from person to person, but bitching and moaning aren't desirable characteristics to have for any man.
[–]Lu_the_Mad -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep.
Women want to be with success. No she wolf wants to breed with the runt. No, that Bitch wants the alpha's cock up her cunt.
If you are the Alpha in your social circles, and your success, be it int he gym or the board room, is like a fucking aura, then you don't need to chase tail because it comes to you like a moth to a flame.
I think a lot of people want to be the Alpha, and have come here recently and believe that they can read the advice but then don't put in any of the work, and end up angry because they know now how things should be for them, but because they don't work for it, they dont get it.
[–]GigglestickII 3 points3 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Complaining is a part of the Anger phase. Too much complaining is bad, but if these new people are coming in and having good advice given to them, as well as being told to read the sidebar, then complaining is alright. In my opinion, it's just one of the steps in the process. Some of us skip it. Some of us don't.
[–]Namelessfear9 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I suppose I didn't really have an anger phase. Maybe I am fortunate, but despite the royal soulfucking I have received at the hands of women during my beta days I haven't gotten angry. What I experienced was the "Eureka Phase". Once the shock of all this information and strategy flooding my being subsided I was immediately eager to begin putting it to work. Anger is a waste of energy. Motivation on the other hand is fucking awesome.
[–]mackthetemp3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Agreed, complaining is a nasty habit.
[–]Happy_Gains 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Im sorry, but I know its never good to complain but sometimes thats what people need to do. To get past the anger phase which all us have and will go through, sometimes getting it off your chest is productive not downvoting you I agree but we cant all be instantly stoic after such hard-wiring has engrained in many of us.
[–]KarmaEnthusiast 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then there should be a 'complainers united' section of TRP. I'm pretty damn sick of seeing whiny beta men and if you created that section, NOBODY would go and read it. TRP is the only online male improvement forum that allows this type of behaviour to be cultivated, it's feminine and disgusting. We're men, we push our problems into our brain to be solved, not into the Internet where others can support us.
[–]NickCiufi 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Anger is a natural part of the process. You were angry at the same things, once.
[–]renewedhope 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
This subreddit is slowly pissing me off with its trend of becoming similar to mens rights and shit. I came here to better myself and focus on becoming alpha.
[–]dafuqey 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just type "I need help" after posting your complaint. Then you are technically asking for help for your situation rather than complaining. Example) "I am a short asian and I wanna fuck hot blond chick. I am blah blah and I have blah blah" -> complaint. "I am a short asian and I wanna fuck hot bod chick. I am blah blah and I have blah blah. How can I improve myself? I need help." ->not complaining.
[–]turn30left 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actually, stop complaining about everything. Red Pill up and do something about the situation.
[–]bluedrygrass 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So, basically you are saying that women aren't legally accountable for their actions? Stop with that white knighting shit.
They know full well what they're doing. Otherwise they wouldn't be doing it. They may not know why, but they know what to do.
They act like a children, but they aren't on the same level of a children.
What you are saying is that they even lack the premises to be arrested in case of homicide, theft, or every other crime. Wich is bullshit, of course.
Even worse, your post contraddict itself, because if women really couldn't be held accountable for their actions, if they really weren't responsible, that would put them in an inferior category than men. They would be little more than animals, with your reasoning. Giving all the rights to be "angry" or unrespectful.
Stop trying too hard to be the uberalfa that doesn't care about nothing but getting his dick wet, pretending to be superior or shit. Your logic is on par with a woman's, here.
Wheter women are conscious, and so responsible for their actions, or they aren't, and so on animals par.
Pick one, instead of hamstering the way around that crucial point.
[–]Luckyluke23 -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah this really needs to stop, I know guys HAVE TO go threw that stage but, if you guys could just stop posting it that would be great
[–]Dark397 -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey, If she behaves like a cunt. She gets blamed for it. Period. However point noted. Your blaming wont change her nature, or the world around you. What you can change is your behaviours, your skill sets and the value you offer. A PUA godfather once said "Be the flame, Not the moth."
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[–]couid 5 points6 points7 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Lu_the_Mad -1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
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