Long story short:
After being fed up with my limited experience with women I formerly occupied myself with PUA-Theory before finding this sub and swallowing the bitter but very nutritous Red Pill.
Since then and after stepping in abundance I have found myself in the unusual situation that I pretty much could choose between a few quite attractive ladies.
Yesterday I visited the one I felt the best about for starting a healthy LTR because this is what I want after being single for a long time.
This lady told me about a colleague of her who maybe the hardest beta-case I have ever heard about:
So first of all this guy was texting her via Facebook everyday with things like:
Hi. hey. How are you?. Etc.
Giving her nothing, only greeting her. Having nothing interesting to say.
At work he would compliment her all the time with borderline creepy things like
You/Your face is so beautiful. You have so nice legs. Etc.
She was only nice to him which was enough to water the seed. So he tried to kiss her at an after work party which she refused not only because they work together but because he constantly gave her extreme validation, nearly stalking her with compliments and such.
After her refusal and the infamous "Lets just be friends" phrase from her side he got very petulant and uptight, acting like a little whiny bitch.
After she blew him off she heard from other colleagues that this guy does this with every new female person who starts to work in their line of field where he has been working for over 10 years! And it always results in rejection and him being pissy and even revengeful in the line of work.
Some people never learn from their own experience.
This was very interesting to hear directly from her because I basically acted the exact opposite when I met her the first time which sparked attraction all over the place.
TL;DR: Special example of an extreme beta guy and how not to interact with women: Overfeed them with validation and getting bitchy when they reject you.
(Sry for the grammar and such, english is not my mother language)
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