PSA: If you are bullied or disrespected on V-day, you already lost long ago

Here are signs that you lost frame long ago and should consider a Soft or Hard Next:

She demands/hints at dinner/gifts/anything material => Instant Soft next
She complains that other girls' guys get nice treatment, but she doesn't (this can be a comfort test... but highly suspect) => Soft next or at least a red flag raised
She calls you names or a "cheap ass" => Hard next or a month long Soft Next if you wish to be a pussy and let her off "easy"
Withholds sex or affection => Soft next for 7 days. She does it again? Keep doubling the Soft next duration for each iteration.
Tells other people about how you behaved and shames you => Soft next for a couple weeks or a straight up Hard next
You hamster about "what should I do?" Or "what should I buy her". FAIL

Signs that you have good frame:

She doesn't ask about Valentine's day leading up to the day ( but you still have sex with her that day or shortly before/after)
She offers to make you dinner/buy you your favourite beer (dangerous to accept since it means she is turning you into a boyfriend...tread carefully)
SHE wishes you Valentine's day FIRST via text
She doesn't say anything to you about Valentine's day on, before, or after the day (yet you still fuck her after the day like nothing happened)

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Your original statement was this:

Do thoughtful things because--not so that--she gives you unlimited sex.

"Do thoughtful things because she gives you sex" (your thoughtful things are monetarily based)

"Trade for Sex"

Material trade just for sex = whore. There is nothing wrong with whores. There is something wrong when being in denial about it. If she is a whore, she does NOT ADORE YOU, she adores what you are providing.

$5 flower or a $500 whatever. The dollar amount is irrelevant.

Doing this trade on a specific day that you are told to do so by marketing companies makes it even more Blue Pill.

But claiming that a $5

As this debate goes on, you continue to add minor support statements to defend a "blanket statement".

If you wish to mix BP behavior (the magnitude being subjective, because you see it as small an insignificant, where others do not) with RP behavior that is your prerogative. But don't go around claiming that Purple actions are valid as Red. Especially based on irrational (hamstering) justification.

But claiming that a $5 rose on Vday is going to make me into a thirsty beta is a joke.

It isn't all about you. Your behavior just continues hers and others future cycle of entitlement on Vday.

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PSA: If you are bullied or disrespected on V-day, you already lost long ago

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Title	PSA: If you are bullied or disrespected on V-day, you already lost long ago
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	33
Comments	47
Date	February 14, 2017 8:34 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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