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[–]2RedPillSafe 10 points11 points12 points 11 years ago* (15 children) | Copy Link
MGTOW "monk mode".
You are entirely externally oriented. That's your problem.
When you "unplug" from the world and discover the "Alpha Core" which is your true animal self you will lose all this anger based on things that are "not you".
Understand:
There is "You"
There is "Not You".
...it's important to really, really understand this difference in a profound way.
You sound like just another beta boy Elliot Rodgers type gearing up for a murder suicide deal. That's getting really old by now. Seriously it's getting boring. We don't encourage that here.
Discover your true self... trust me your inner soul will speak to you and show you a ray of sunshine you have allowed the outside world to keep shaded from you.
Beta is externally directed... Red Pill is internally directed. Unplug !!!
(and you have been here before, so we have been trying to get you to listen)
P.S: I'm curious what your therapist is talking about. My mother got an advanced Psychology Degree and I've read much of it and discussed through her second hand and in most cases it's Feminist Blue Pill logic. (Carl Jung). So you will likely get the same Feminist stuff from your therapist as from society overall. (often it's even worse)
The bottom line is you need to unplug.
One last thing...
Your "progression" is obviously a suicide with murder as the excuse. I'm saying that if you want to lie to yourself and let this slid you will get there and end it. The truth will be found when you admit that you need to let it all collapse and you begin to feel your "Alpha Core" as an animal and a man.
You are NOT being manly in your "progression". You are lying to yourself and laughing at the therapist.
Am I wrong?
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -5 points-4 points-3 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Lol.
We focus on trying to change my habits and getting me to be ok with circumstances. I wouldn't call it blue pill really.
Your "progression" is obviously a suicide with murder as the excuse. I'm saying that if you want to lie to yourself and let this slid you will get there and end it. The truth will be found when you admit that you need to let it all collapse and you begin to feel your "Alpha Core" as an animal and a man. You are NOT being manly in your "progression". You are lying to yourself and laughing at the therapist.
I have no idea what you mean.
[–]2RedPillSafe 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
"We" is the problem with a therapist.
The "Alpha Core" involves no "We".
All there is can be summed up as:
"My Physical Body"
"Not My Physical Body"
...before you even attempt to know the world around you it's necessary to discover your "Alpha Core". The "Alpha Core" is the equivalent in Buddhism of the state of "No Mind". It is the state of mind without "Reason". In your case "Reason" is your worst ENEMY. "Reason" is preventing you from escaping the hamster loop. Your "Reason" is keeping you trapped in the Blue Pill Matrix. (it's very obvious)
<<< You are a woman mentally. >>>
What you say?
Women are stuck in hamster loops where they repeat the same themes over and over. You are stuck on the neediness of wanting a woman and the self hatred involved in that cycle of failure.
The answer: "Unplug"
Even your name spells out how much of a beta hamster you are.
"AllOrDeath" - "I'm all in on this hamster loop and would rather die than unplug."
The Blue Pill Matrix is designed to create guys like you (so there are millions like you) and the goal of Feminism is to keep you weak and submissive until some time when a women decides to exit the cock carousel (riding men with "Alpha Cores") and permit marriage with a beta like you. After five years they divorce rape you and take as much as they can. Fun huh?
So it's "by design" that you are weak and submissive, but they don't want you suicidal (or seeking murder) because you are like a "battery" for the Feminine Imperative and will be used eventually. There will be post-Wall fat Feminist chicks that will use you when you get old enough. (~35)
However, Elliot Rodgers actually helped the Feminists because it gave them another example of "victimhood". Another murder spree actually reinforces the strength of the Matrix. So while you might imagine a murder spree as a glamorous form of suicide it's actually making things WORSE for the men wanting to improve the situation.
Are you lifting heavy weights at least 4 days a week?
Lifting forces you out of your hamster brain and into your animal reality.
You need to get out of that hamster !!!!
Let's test whether you are actually a psychopath (very doubtful):
https://personality-testing.info/tests/BIG5.php
...this test is administered worldwide and generally very accurate.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
You sound like a religious zealot. Only your religion is TRP rather than something like Judaism. The basic idea of what you are saying, as far as I can tell, is to just be happy with myself and stop depending on women. I'm not interested in enlightenment. I'm interested in how to get laid.
I lift 3 times a week and do cardio 3 times a week too. So I exercise 6 times a week.
Whether I'm literally a psychopath isn't really the point. The point is I'm going mad.
[–]2RedPillSafe 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Just take the test.
Then we can be pretty certain what is going on.
The Big Five Personality Test is well known and a good baseline to begin a discussion about what your personality is really like.
I've taken it before... it takes 5 minutes.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I took it and have the results. What do you want to know?
[–]truchisoft 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If you just want to get laid then get out. :D
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I can't. That's the problem.
[–]truchisoft 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I meant get out of the forum and seek help somewhere else. Red pill strategy involves a "get better until it is effortless" approach. So there are no shortcuts.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Where would you suggest I go?
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So being a player is not me cause women reject me and if I was Zen like about accepting myself that wouldn't matter?
[–]Endorsed ContributorGarl_Vinland 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
He's dancing around the subject a bit by saying 'unplug'. Everything that you are doing, you are doing for other people. That's not a healthy way to live. As much as you might think so, pussy isn't going to solve your problems.
If you can't handle rejection, then stop approaching until you get your shit together. Go hire a prostitute and find out how much pussy is worth. Go read the sidebar link about Goals, then read the top comment on that post.
Here's a little exercise for you. Take a look at your submission history. It's fucking sad. That's the kind of person you are. Can you imagine any woman wanting to be with a person like that? You've been posting shit like this for 6 months. Imagine if, instead of spending the next 6 months doing the same fucking thing, you focus solely on self improvement.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -5 points-4 points-3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Everything that you are doing, you are doing for other people.
I'm doing it for me. I want the women for myself not for others. Learning what to do to get them is ulitmately selfish.
If you can't handle rejection, then stop approaching until you get your shit together.
I can't stand being alone either really.
Go hire a prostitute and find out how much pussy is worth.
I'm going to be doing that soon I think.
. Go read the sidebar link about Goals, then read the top comment on that post.
I've read it.
I can't imagine any woman wanting me given the parameters of their attraction as described in this subreddit and that which experience has shown. The ironic part is if them being with me would change a lot of that stuff and they wouldn't be with that person for very long at all. In any case, all those posts were self improvement and were posted during different self improvement phases. One can complain and work at the same time.
[–]svogliate 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can't imagine any woman wanting me
Then why are you upset that they do not? It really doesn't make sense.
I can't imagine the daytime sky being red, because the sky is blue
Would you have a rage attack because the sky is not red? Would you get upset because day after day you look out the window and the sky is blue each day? Does it make sense to do that?
The difference here is that you have the capability to change the conditions of your life. For some folks this is easy; for some folks it is only a little easier than turning the sky red.
Which can be done, by the way; I remember a day of wildfires near the Nevada-Calif. border on I-395 where the sky was blood red, literally crimson.
If you are lazy and want a girl to desire you without putting in the work to make yourself desirable, come out and say so - so that you can hear it yourself. Because, for those of us who understand powertalk, we understand that this is what you already said.
You took what I said out of context.
Idk. Depends. Maybe, the sky being red is all I want in life. Wouldn't make sense, but it could be.
Lol. I've been doing work. It never seems to be enough. You act like you know my whole life story and everything I've done.
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[–]markasstrick123 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I'm trying to figure out why some guys get rejected so much. I was 5'2" up until age 20 and have had attractive girls fighting over me since middle school. Like really, you must be creepy as hell if you can't pull.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
What does creepy even mean?
[–]jiveraffe 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
In this case: desperate.
You ooze desperation and neediness. Weakness. Women aren't attracted to weak men.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
What's creepy about desperation and neediness?
Creepy has to be more than just not being attracted to someone. It's being off put in some way. What's so bad about weakness? We are all weak in some way and in some time. Why can't these women grow up and realize that's true and that we're all humans in search of similar things in the end?
[–]2RedPillSafe 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
100% a complete denial of Red Pill.
Red Pill teaches than men are STOIC.
To be stoic means you are capable of formulating abstract mental models that define objective reality. Emotions of neediness and desperation are simply not a part of Red Pill wisdom.
Face it... You ARE a Feminist. If you go on a killing spree topped off with suicide we here at Red Pill will KNOW you were not thinking as we do.
The press might write up an Anti-Red Pill story (most likely) but it will be a lie.
Do you really want to create such a lie through your actions?
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That doesn't make any sense at all lol and it can be proven with a single question: What is my reality is one of scarcity? Then being desperate and needy are the corresponding emotions to that situation. Sure, I could be stoic or not, but that's simply a matter if me not feeling the scarcity. Doesn't mean it's not there.
Your whole feminist/TRP thing is just absurd. I guess you're worried if I were to do something that RP would be damaged and are trying to make my ideas seem rejected. Which is ok, I guess, but this is about women not RP. Women's continuous rejection of me is what is causing me to become unstable.
[–]2RedPillSafe 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why are you here?
If you aren't unplugged why not go to /r/seduction ?
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can we drop the powertalk and speak plainly?
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -5 points-4 points-3 points 11 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Why should she date you? What are you bringing to the table?
Myself. I don't know what else to say because women's desires are so bizzare.
Why are women rejecting you?
I have no fucking idea. I guess they are not attracted to me.
What kind of women are you asking out?
Any kind I find attractive.
What are you doing and how are you trying to improve yourself.
I'm learning new stuff, trying to lift, working on my psychological strength and trying to get a job.
[–]svogliate1 points 11 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
You know, I think you may be a little hard on yourself, and you may be expecting more than is reasonable. I am worth nine figures, drive a nice car, live in a great house, work out, and have an advanced degree and a great job, and I still get rejected regularly.
I have been working on my game for 20 years - only this year did I really learn how women evaluate game, how they respond, I was beta as hell for most of this time - and I still have a great deal of approach anxiety and rejection fear. In fact I suspect that you may have made more approaches than I have in the past year. In which case, respect.
How old are you? How many times have you been rejected in 2014? Let's get some facts out in the open and discuss it.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -4 points-3 points-2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My god. You have all that and still get rejected. I should just kill myself now. Women are never happy unless you break this stupid hypergamy code. I swear to fucking god. What the fuck is going on in thier minds?
I'm 25. I have no recollection of how many times. The days feel like a blur to me. My brain is atrophying from the incel induced depression I think.
[–]svogliate0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Women really aren't happy with all that stuff I mentioned. I mentioned it to let you know that all women are like that and, in some sense, all men are like you. I have all that stuff but I have been where you are at, many incel years, many more years of being exploited for validation or beta bux, a fate which you still have the power to avoid.
Regardless of what a woman says, what a woman really desires is a strong man, strong in body and strong in will, a man who can do what TRP calls 'hold frame.' You can give her that without all the stuff I named; you need to have the experiences that forge the steel.
You're having them. It's not fun. You come out the other side changed.
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[–]AllOrDeath[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yea, they want alpha and social status. The latter being completely meaningless to me and the former being what I'm not. I'm only interested in having either to those things cause women want them. I couldn't care less about how well I maintain frame in the eyes of others or how popular I am if sex wasn't at stake.
[–]2RedPillSafe 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Your view of "Alpha" is like a cartoon.
Real "Alpha" just means you are well aware of your inner animal self. It's the calmness of maturity.
The guy who is "Alpha" naturally takes what he wants because it flows from his inner being easily. There is no craziness in mating, people for the most part get what they have built up in themselves. If you reject internal improvement you can't expect to be successful in life or happy when alone.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What you just said sounds religious. There's nothing about the laws of the universe that says having an inner calmness will lead to women coming. Unless you believe in some The Secret stuff.
. If you reject internal improvement you can't expect to be successful in life or happy when alone.
The whole point is not to be alone. Happiness and success are not the point.
[–]2RedPillSafe -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bullshit.
Alpha means the woman senses your inner animal.
The Loin does as he pleases... he is calm.
Can you explain the mechanisms by which all this happens?
[–]Smitty6 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You just think of rejection as a bad result and have a belief that it's a bad thing. For me I think of it as the second best result. The worst result is that you don't approach at all if your interested in her. The only time rejection actually bothers me is when I'm real drunk and can't control my emotions as well. But I have learned to not drink so much when I'm meeting women.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm glad you have a healthy way of dealing with rejection. I can't say the same for myself.
[–]tombreck2 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
You are doing it backwards; focus on yourself first and then women will naturally be attracted to you. What do you have to offer them?
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
People keep asking me that and I have no idea how to answer that. I could offer everything except one thing and that one thing is what they want. To ask point blank what I offer seems so random. The irrationality of what they want is an often talked about thing throughout human history. Why don't you tell me what you think they want and then I'll tell you if I match it?
[–]tombreck2 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When a woman meets you she needs to be attracted to something. What do you have to offer that would give her feelings that she will be attracted to; you play in a band, have a six pack, you go to invite only parties, etc.
[–]Smitty6 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Can you give her an orgasm? Make her laugh? Do you look like her ex bf? A women will be attracted to you for a number of reasons. Know this and instead of trying to attract women and avoiding rejection, give women the space to be attracted to you. Don't play this game from a losing place. Play the win win game. Where she either gets to receive your cock or doesn't.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The answer to all 3 of those questions is "it depends". I'm sure despite my inexperience there are some girls I could give orgasms to and some I can't. I can make women laugh and others find me unimpressive. If the girl dated someone that looked like me then yes. If not, no.
A women will be attracted to you for a number of reasons. Know this and instead of trying to attract women and avoiding rejection, give women the space to be attracted to you. Don't play this game from a losing place. Play the win win game. Where she either gets to receive your cock or doesn't.
This seems just like a way reframing what rejection and attraction mean to ms so that it's not as emotionally damaging. Just a mind trick to cope.
[–]Smitty6 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well ultimately the opinion you have of yourself is more important. So it's not a reframing it's a way that you treat yourself. You can either beat yourself up for a women not finding you attractive or you can decide it just doesn't matter that much.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well ultimately the opinion you have of yourself is more important.
More important than what?
You can either beat yourself up for a women not finding you attractive or you can decide it just doesn't matter that much.
Not that simple. It's not like my libido and the heart pangs of loneliness go away just by me wishing them to.
[–]Smitty6 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's more important than what she thinks of you.
So what your horny... Learn to use your sexual energy to do more with your life. It's called sexual transmutation.
It is that easy because ultimately you need to be your own best friend before it all. Your most likely going to die lonely. If your lucky only your family really cares and loves you for who you are. The rest like you for what value you have for them. If you can love yourself and who you are rejection won't matter. If you want to fuck women. Meet lots of them and learn game. That's it.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Might as well become a monk?
I love myself except that I can't get women and it ruins everything. I hate the fact that people are so greedy and selfish, but if I can't have a more altruistic species I'd at least settle for being able to use the greed and selfishness to get what I want aka sex, but that seems impossible. I am trying to get out there, but no head way is making way and I feel like I am approaching death.
[–]Aiadon 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Wanting others to suffer doesn't make you a psychopath. It's neither a condition nor a feature of psychopathy in general.
[–]markasstrick123 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I take pleasure in seeing people from my past suffer. I was bullied by friends of the family when I was little. I guess I wasn't up to their standards.
Fast forward today, I am buff, intelligent, witty, and can make a girl crazy for me. I am on way way to joining the US Navy with plans to become a SEAL. Becoming a member of that fraternity is the equivalent of having two siblings graduate from Harvard. That is extremely high status. I'm becoming one, or I die. I want it that bad.
Then I look at the people who picked on me becoming single parents in their late teens, working embarrassing jobs, and not really living up to the higher status I believed them to be. I just smile now. My SMV will be reaching elite levels in a couple of years. Feels good man.
I'm becoming one, or I die. I want it that bad.
This is my attitude with sex. Why aren't I getting sex?
My SMV will be reaching elite levels in a couple of years.
I'm trying to make my SMV rise.
[–]goo22 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
If youre getting rejected 100 times, u should be trying to learn from every approach. See what sparked attention and what killed the vibe. Each rejection should guide u towards a more refined and attractive path. Rejection is only a bad thing if u don't learn from it.
Evaluate your interactions directly afterwards. Keep a journal or something.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I don't have any basis to judge what works and what doesn't. I'm practically autistic. To me, almost all interaction is just the same.
[–]goo22 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well its safe to assume your current approach does not work. Change it up! Make it an experiment out of it. Lol u sayin u have no basis what works and what doesn't is ridiculous, obviously you know what doesn't work, you've been doing it 100s of times! Try anything else, literally anything else than what you have been doing. Try going out with a fucking top hat. Approach the hottest girl you ever seen and tell her she's ugly. Fucking fart and start dancing. Stop making excuses about you not getting girls and do something about it. The world owes u nothing. Also I have a weird suspicion you're probably an avid porn viewer. Cut that shit out
You don't get what I'm saying. To me, all interactions are the same. They're just words and gestures being exchanged. I don't see why, for example, a confident combination of words and gesture makes women horny and a depressive combination makes them run. To me, both people need affection and, if they try and connect with someone, they are seeking that out and that's all that matters. The intent behind the actions.
[–]2RedPillSafe 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Again... missing the core tenets of Red Pill.
Men are not naturally needy for affection. We can be conditioned to be beta through extensive brainwashing, but it's not our natural "Alpha Core" position.
Men are such a large group that one can't accurately say for sure what any one man is like. You can make generalities, but you can't say all men do not have personality, psychological and neurological configurations and that make them predisposed to things like neediness or depression or low confidence or sensitivity in general. This is just a basic fact of statistics.
And, to concede some what to your point, I wouldn't be so needy if I actually got some female affection, but I don't. It seems impossible to for who I am right now.
[–]Aiadon 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I thought that too once and turned out I was just giving myself an excuse (A.K.A. hamstering) to procrastinate .
Well, that's not the case here. Do you have alternative view?
[–]AsymptoteZero 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have a lot of anger and keeping it inside. You think about sex very often and that just makes it worse. And whenever people are giving you advice, you are refusing it and coming up with excuses as to why it won't work.
YOU need to take responsibility for this problem. This is not about the girls, not about the world, it's about YOU, my friend.
I suggest that you release your anger on exercise. Lift, run, get busy with the punching bag (wrap your hands first though).
Release sexual frustration through art. By art I mean painting, singing, writing.. whatever you wanna do. CREATE something. Sexual energy is the energy of creation. Also, cut down or completely stop watching porn.
I can attest to these personally. I was a person with a lot of anger, violent fantasies and insane sexual frustration. I had zero success with women, my career was royally fucked and my life was falling to pieces.
Training MMA made me less angry. Writing, playing the guitar and problem-solving made me less horny. Basically, I found ways to channel all that energy inside me into positive things. This took me awhile, and it wasn't over in a day, but it drastically improved my life.
Overall, it made me more balanced and attractive and now I find that women (and everyone in general) are naturally attracted to me. I've been successful with them since.
It is also noteworthy that they are most attracted to me when I stop wanting their attraction and let go. I think there is something to this.
I hope this helps you in some way to channel your energy to something constructive. We've got enough of them destructive types in the world as it is...
[–]2IVIaskerade 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
No. Honestly, nobody here can help you. If you haven't figured that out yet, there's something wrong.
We can give you hints, we can show examples, we can offer advice, but until such a time as you decide to take the lead, you'll find no help here. You won't find any after either, but you won't be angry about that either.
You need to lift, you need to go out and do your own thing. You need to get your shit sorted, and you need to not go on TRP for six months. Use those months to get into shape, approach relentlessly, and work on improving your work and hobbies (and find some if you don't already have any).
Come back in six months and see how things are then.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What if I kill myself before 6 months? What if I need a quicker solution?
[–]2IVIaskerade 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What if I need a quicker solution?
Why do you assume that such a thing exists?
You have two choices - one will take six months, during which time, you will become better at everything you do. The other is permanent, but you won't actually achieve anything by it.
There is no need. You want a magic bullet, a panacea to cure your ills, but none exists. What you need is to take responsibility for yourself. If you can do this (and believe me, it's well within the capability of anyone to do) you'll see a pretty rapid change.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm working on it like I said. I don't necessarily want a magic bullet. I don't think going out on 1 date, for instance, is a magic bullet. It's just a small success showing I'm on the right path.
[–]2IVIaskerade 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So, small steps. Going out on a date is quite a big step.
The first time you notice that your arms are bigger because of working out? Huge confidence boost.
The first time you run 6k in under 30 minutes? Confidence boost.
The first time you get rejected, but blow it off and go to the next girl? You've made the first step toward that date.
You can't jump straight from "nobody loves me" to "successfully asking a woman on a date". That's more than a small success.
I rarely ever have "big sucesses". I have a lot of small successes, and when I look back, I see that they made up that big success I wanted, but it didn't feel like it because each step was just a natural progression.
I don't think I have 6 months.
If you've made it the last six months, you can make it the next.
Take your mind off everything with exercise. Exhaust yourself in the quest for improvement. Devote yourself to bettering your physical form.
Take your mind off of your problems with stuff. Learn carpentry. Learn ballroom dancing. Learn to speak another language. Go to a state fair and just soak in the atmosphere. If you're working, ask your boss for a week off and go somewhere to do nothing but soak up sun and read good fiction. If money is tight, cooking on a budget is an awesome way to improve - you'd be amazed what meals you can make for a pittance.
Seriously, 6 months from now you'll look back and wonder what you were doing. Keep a journal of day-to-day things you did.
[–]-robknows- 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Why haven't you become a MGTOW yet? Never go full Elliot Rodger mode.
[–]AllOrDeath[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I'd prefer the latter to the former honestly. MGTOW is just giving up. At least the latter was an act of rebellion.
No actually there was no rebellion by Elliot Rodgers because he played right into the Blue Pill Matrix as the "perfect victimizer of women".
Red Pill means you "wake up" from the Feminist brainwashing. (very different)
So far you haven't shown any signs of unplugging.
He's being used that way, but if enough men were willing to do what he did then there would be a counterbalance to hypergamy the way their used to be in more traditional societies.
If no man tolerated hypergamy, things would change. It wouldn't even have to be violent. If every man walked away totally from any woman who threw even the slightest shit test then they wouldn't be any more shit tests. We are subservient, as is, to the demands of women and red pill is just glorified slavery to their whims wrapped up in the comfort and rationale that the individual women who enslave us are fungible and that there are techniques, beliefs and behaviors that can make us free. That if we walk away from woman who goes too far we'll be ok with another. We seem to forget AWALT and that no matter how high our SMV is, we are playing into their hands. Only a revolution which harshly rejects all hypergamous behaviors can emancipate men.
Take the Big Five Personality Test.
[–]williamwilliam2 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Continue on the path, yet mix in some new approaches, mantras, places, etc. Experiment a bit, in a fun way.
I'll probably end up doing something crazy with the path I'm on. I can't take much more rejection.
[–]2IVIaskerade 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And yet you don't do anything to change your path.
Why?
I've been doing a lot to change. You are just assuming I'm doing nothing.
The payout isn't there yet and my mind is deteriorating because of that.
[–]Position5hero -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You need to learn to cope with rejection.
For starters:
Stop looking to others for aproval, find it within yourself
Any woman that rejects you has bad taste. It's that simple.
I've tried to internalize these things. The problem is my libido is so powerful I can't even think often. I become like an animal that just wants to satisfy himself. Nothing else matters then.
Men have this habit of getting on a single train of thought and being unwilling to steer a different course in spite of all evidence that the chosen course isn't working.
[–]cali_gunner -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fucking a woman won't fill this void in you. If so then pay a hooker for a good time and see if it's better. Or lower your standards.
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