I just read "How to Get Laid Like a Warlord" the top rated post on The Red Pill, and I noticed the author seems to have an interesting viewpoint on how to deal with being blown off. Maybe someone can help me understand his mindset or correct my interpretation, but he seems to suggest you just totally play it cool at all times and don't get deterred as it's just a test.
The problem I have is that this seems weak. Let's say she blows you off multiple times, do you just keep going for it? This seems desperate. What if she then asks you to hang out? While normally a good sign: in conjunction with being blown off it means you are only seeing each other when she wants it. As another popular post suggests, your power lies in your ability to walk away.
I have been out with a few gorgeous women, but multiple times after a couple dates they have blown me off. They have gone out of their way to assure me they want to see me again. I'm inclined to believe them. They said it out of context and without being pushed in that direction, but then they start being busy whenever I suggest a meeting.
I can provide more specific examples if people think this isn't enough information, but I'm sure this is a rather commonplace occurrence. My ultimate question then is:
tl;dr - should I continue trying to see a girl who is blowing me off to demonstrate that her rejections don't affect me, or should I move on?
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