Results?

hydrogenperoxide1 · 2013-04-17T18:32:57+00:00

I got over my oneitis of a girl who dumped my three years prior. Everything else is peanuts in comparison to the lifting of that burden.

redpillschool · 2013-04-17T18:26:45+00:00

Best shape of my life, more sex with more women in the past year and a half than the rest of my life combined, have yet to find "bliss" but certainly found a daily dosage of happiness that was mostly missing from my life before.

forbinsdecline · 2013-04-17T21:36:16+00:00

I'm in worse shape, because spend my evenings sleeping with my girlfriends instead of going to the gym :/

thecajunone · 2013-04-17T19:54:41+00:00

I've stopped trying to fill the hole in my life with women and started focusing on what's important, good job, great shape, etc etc, now women are just something I happen to have along the way. I think the problem is with most guys at first is they feel the need to be validated by women, to tell them they are good enough when really they need to look inside instead of outside and find the strength to be the man they want to be.

The Red Pill saved my life, perhaps literally.

idle_wildfire · 2013-04-17T20:06:44+00:00

quit my day job and started a bootstrapped, profitable business with a friend. it's been less than a year and i'm already paying myself the same as what i used to make as a minion for someone else.
joined a gym the same time as i quit my day job, and it feels awesome to look at the fucking badass in the mirror every morning.
casual, genuinely fun dating with multiple women in a rotating schedule. with the confidence to say what i'm feeling to them at any moment and escalate to physical intimacy.
developed a self awareness to truly enjoy amazing moments. even small things like noticing when the weather and scenery are just so gorgeous while walking down the street and being able to soak it in with all the senses. this is fucking better than any drug.
controlling and eliminating my anxiety/nervousness under pressure, which had seeped as poison into many aspects of my personality through college and my corporate career. this issue had been one of my heaviest "beta" chains.

2013-04-17T19:19:18+00:00

1 open relationship with a girl i've been seeing for a year. (getting into BDSM master/pet stuff, it's awesome) She's bi and we've had 5 threesomes.

Best shape of my life.

Get sex whenever i want it from 4-6 different girls.

Starting to focus more at work. hopefully in 3-6 months i'll be set for a good while.

Able to inject red pill wisdom into the men of my life slowly and surely, mostly just by telling stories about my life and showing them what is possible when you unplug.

I don't spend money on girls. A few bring weed and beer over everytime they come.

I never think in terms of "oh theres a hottie i should go game her" anymore. It's just a "oh theres a hottie, i'm going to tease her" and if she responds great, if not who cares. There's plenty of fucking fish.

Life has literally never been better. I said that yesterday and i'll keep saying it every day going forward. there's no turning back now.

roe_ · 2013-04-17T20:04:17+00:00

Excellent question!

For me, b) c) and d).

I wasn't huge on self-improvement or anything, and life was reasonably good but something about the possibility of upgrading my marriage from "typical" to "passionate" kind of lit a fire under my ass.

There was a thing where I kind of went down the rabbit hole and realized there was a bunch of stuff about myself that I needed to fix.

dropit_sphere · 2013-04-17T18:48:13+00:00

I'm a newbie, but:

Last Saturday some chick asked me for a cigarette, she was objectively fuckable, but I'm picky. I told her "Nah", she said "Come on", so I teased her a bit ("Why would I do that?", "So you think you're entitled to my material goods?") with a genuine "I don't need you" attitude and the harder I was blowing her off, the harder she was coming onto me and ultimately I decided to leave that bar to get away from her. Now at 5'7" I'm no stud and a lot of guys would be thrilled to have her all over themselves like that...

... so of course they'd whip out that cigarette without blinking.

That was my "It does translate to real life!" moment and I'm anxious to see what comes next.

wh40k_Junkie · 2013-04-17T21:30:00+00:00

On top of being in great shape now, I've stopped apologizing as much.

For example: I was suppose to go get mcds with some girl today during a study break. I was talking to her and made a joke and she didn't take it well. Now, before this, I would have become a wreck of "I'm sorries" and pretty much beg to still go. Not today. Instead I told her it was a joke and that I was going irregardless of whether she came along or not. Told her "I don't really care if you think I'm a jerk or rude, text me at 8 if you still wanna go" and that's that. I will not text her to try to get her to come, balls in her court.

rebuildingMyself · 2013-04-18T15:59:28+00:00

I am in a better relationship. Although I didn't discover /r/theredpill until recently, I have had my own self-awakening over the last year or so. I was in a LTR that, over the years, I allowed to walk all over me. At one time I remember her really upset and nearly screaming that "she shouldn't have to lead and come up with things all the time." I was a classic blue-piller.

Well one day, after fighting over the fact that I wanted a day to myself, she comes over. She starts yelling, getting pissy, etc. I tell her it's over. She's shocked, upset, but in the end it really was over. I go to a party and have a blast that very night, meeting a cute girl and we eventually go on a few dates. I think it was too early because I didn't make the right moves (still learning, boys), but it was a great start in my new life.

Fast forward to today. I'm in another LTR, but I'm well aware of the basic shit tests these girls throw at you early in a relationship and have maintained my frame. I will be the leader of this relationship. I call out her bullshit, I am not afraid of losing her as I honestly have a few options should something happen. I work out a lot more now, I quit smoking, I am practicing /r/nofap to help focus my energies more productively.

Your-Wrong · 2013-04-18T07:45:45+00:00

I am still new here, but I think if you are considering the ideology based on the benefits it can provide you, you have missed the entire point.

You need to start thinking for yourself and learn how to determine what is and is not true, what is and is not right.

Bobsutan · 2013-04-18T15:48:06+00:00

The communication skills I learned while bettering myself following seduction community advice helped me secure a great job.

My overall red pill outlook on life has kept me out of trouble with some crazy women I started dating.

I've always been a fan of lifting, so red pill thinking didn't affect me in this regard, although I'm more sensitive to the changes in women's behavior when I'm thinner and more muscular.

More sex did happen, but I've since slowed down due to learning how to screen properly. See above about avoiding crazies.

My current relationship is the best I've ever had, which I see as a culmination of all my self-improvement over the years. She's a former model and child actor, 13 years younger than myself, and treats me better than any woman I've ever had a relationship with.

Jonny_SD_Alpha · 2013-04-18T16:46:05+00:00

From a newbie's POV

1) Definitely got a better job - teaching in S. Korea arranged for later this year and a free summer to spend enjoying myself and practising game. I feel less anxious and much more in control.

2) I have much greater confidence in myself. I don't apologise. I don't ask permission. I feel more capable at approaching new tasks. I feel more comfortable in approaching women. Shit tests were a major stumbling point for me. Now I just don't get upset in the slightest by them. I just laugh it off or emphasise and fling it back at them.

I have just finished making a wood fired oven with my Dad. Gave me plenty of time to talk over problems with him. I actually found he was quite interested in the ideas. I was able to lay them out in a calm, logical fashion. He disagreed at first but he says the more he thinks about it the more it makes sense. He also pointed out that things have changed a lot since his youth. We also watched Fight Club together; he said he didn't get it.

3) Not getting laid more often yet but I can tell there is more female interest in me. I'm in Spain at the moment so I'm taking the opportunity to get in shape, get tanned, learn skills, apply for jobs (sorted now), gain confidence and get my life in order.

Also on dating sites and arranging some girls for when I get home. Positive responses so far from girls looking for an intelligent, confident, independent guy. If you want to see some confirmation of TRP check out the number of single mum's desperately trying to find betas to care and provide for their sprogs. Will wait and see how this progresses.

4) Best shape I've ever been in. I'm taking pics every week and the results are pretty fucking sweet. Still not smoking. Drinking in the evening every other day but never much. Taking care of myself and constantly improving. Writing and drawing just to please myself and practise for S. Korea.

Got a good reading list on the go - Almost finished The Game, No More Mr. Nice Guy, Mode One, Day Bang and re-reading Bang. Also reading Rational Male's blog which is a great primer.

In short I'm really glad I found TRP. I don't believe or agree with everything on the subreddit but my life makes more sense now and I'm happier and more comfortable living it.

2013-04-18T00:15:35+00:00

What tangible results have you achieved by following the red pill philosophy?

Honestly? Happier. Also cut out a bunch of people out of my life (mainly extended family members) who were trying to blue pill me. Its like a rock lifted of my shoulders with them fucking gone.

Title	Results?
Author	hydrogenperoxide1
Upvotes	2
Comments	42
Date	April 17, 2013 4:54 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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