Saw this gem on Quora today

Jackrabbit710 · 2017-03-29T20:00:00+00:00

Honestly, if a chick flat out said NO, like it appears here, then I would move on. It would make you look desperate trying to change her opinion in many cases like this and probably is the chick who would be playing unnecessary games.

TryhardPantiesON · 2017-03-29T21:45:37+00:00

I am gonna quite disagree on this one, in my dictionary NO means NO, there is no reason to give NO a different meaning here, she is stranger, you don't want harrasment charges on yourself.

Remember that old thread about that girl asking if she was raped? You don't want more posts of that kind, now do you?

Barmacist · 2017-03-30T15:29:22+00:00

Woman says no.

Man has been educated since birth that No = No

Woman is confused that man took no as meaning no

Is this not what you asked for? Are you not entertained?

Archwinger · 2017-03-29T19:52:30+00:00

Complicating matters is the fact that this is instinctive for most women.

Before you've even finished your sentence asking her to grab a drink with you, she's already saying no. That's just her default response. She's not supposed to say yes to guys who try to get her to go somewhere with them. That's what sluts do.

Unconsciously, she is weeding out losers by saying no before she even thinks about the question she was asked.

"Suzy, can you make a copy of..." NO! Whether or not the guy shrugs and makes his own copies or whether he brings the hammer down and tells Suzy to get off of her fat ass determines whether Suzy is dealing with a guy whose orders she will take.

"Suzy, some of us from work are going out for drinks and..." NO! How a guy responds to this determines whether he drinks with Suzy or whether he drinks with Fatts McGee from the cubicle to his left.

"Wanna get out of here and..." NO! Suzy is already weeding out losers who aren't worthy of fucking her before the fact that she was propositioned even crosses her conscious mind.

30 seconds later, Suzy thinks to herself, "Wait. What did he say? Oh, yeah. I kinda wanted to go out with him. Why didn't he keep pushing?"

This is bitches 101. You got to break the bitch shield.

Docbear64 · 2017-03-30T00:38:03+00:00

The number of times I took a no as meaning no and was confused when a chick looked disappointed or missed out on having sex before this sub is staggering . I didn't have a clue about Shit tests and the few times in the past that I probably overcame them had more to do with frustration or me being horny as fuck more than anything .

This is one area where this sub opened my eyes to the rules of a game I didn't even know that I was playing . Now I understand that if a chick says no as she licks her lips and puts my hands on her tits ... maybe ... maybe it's not really a no at all ..... betas gonna beta .

theONE843663 · 2017-03-29T21:32:11+00:00

You should have scrolled further down there's a guy citing Robert Greene quotes from the art of seduction lmfao

mrust · 2017-03-29T22:19:02+00:00

This is why game matters. The problem is that when the girl says no to a date (for example) you are being put in a double bind. If you keep chasing you are losing attraction and frame.

The correct answer is: Utilize game so that

You are hanging out together instead of asking her on a date
You are ignoring the stupid words that come out of her mouth (as OP rightly pointed out)
You are able to reframe the situation so that she is the one chasing you

[deleted] · 2017-03-30T00:14:13+00:00

Being that Quora is a forum that is typically frequented by... well... nerds,

And teenagers offering life advice. It's pretty funny.

ChelseaDagger14 · 2017-03-30T14:25:22+00:00

How is the first guy a "beta-cuck"? I'm new to this section, but I don't see the point in insulting him, when he hasn't said anything that people have disagreed with.

MrTyler_Durden · 2017-03-29T21:48:25+00:00

I can't believe this topic was posted. I was literally thinking the same exact thing this morning over breakfast. I was thinking about making a post explains why it's so important not to take no for an answer. Only beta nice guys take "No" and walk away. Coax these chicks into your bed , that's what they instinctively want. If a girl ever tells you no when you ask for her number, say "helllllllla lame, c'mon it will be fun" and physically hand her your phone to put her number in.

blue_dover · Wed Mar 29 19:56:42 2017 UTC

Can you please do a post further elaborating this?

RPYoungBuck · 2017-03-29T23:08:07+00:00

Different kinds of no's. I've experienced cold rejections where you just have to walk away or escalate freeze entirely also have experienced "No, No! Stop" while naked, giggling and spreading her legs wide.

abbafishhead · 2017-03-30T09:42:17+00:00

"No" doesn't necessarily mean "no." "No" sometimes means "not yet."

lwbrown10 · 2017-03-30T13:42:55+00:00

I remember back in college, a chick I had recently met messaged me on FB messenger, we chatted for a bit before I asked for her number. She replied, "You're gonna have to try harder than that ;)".

I lol'd and never messaged her again. She was constantly hitting my messages up afterwards and randomly "running into me" on campus. I had a lot more trim that I could get without trying half as hard. She says "No"... On to the next one.

Kingern · 2017-03-31T12:55:35+00:00

"Let's get drinks" "No"

"Hmm. Well, the women marching down the university campus waving signs saying 'NO MEANS NO' getting legislation drafted to make not taking no for an answer punishable with hard prison time make an appealing case, but the slayers on TRP say to ignore what she says and analyse the positioning of her feet, so you can tell what she really means"

Call me beta but in today's climate this feels like dangerous advice.

Rudeyyyy · 2017-03-31T13:15:56+00:00

If you keep persisting you seem desperate and come off as needy. Fuck that, she said no my ass is moving on.

Asked out a girl I liked the other day. Told me she had a boyfriend. You know what I did? I said that's ok, and just left. Onto the next. Don't orbit around this one girl. You're gonna give into her shit meanwhile she's riding tommy twodick over there while you're home waiting for her. No way, move on. Plenty of more to go around.

[deleted] · 2017-04-01T00:30:06+00:00

I have other options. If a chick says no, I simply move on.

That's way to early to deal with a shit test, and by trying harder you automatically give her the power.

Kinote_42 · 2017-04-01T09:12:17+00:00

I love it!! I love how this vagina ruled dating scene is screwing itself over by a paradox it created. Obviously the no means no culture was created by women to ward off man they are unattracted to but because of a women's nature she can't help but give soft rejections to men she potentially is attracted to to see if he is alpha. The Irony is DELICIOUS!!!

summersss · 2017-04-04T01:06:05+00:00

60% chance that guy would have been accused of harassment. I say he was right to just walk off, screw playing games,this aint highschool.

yomo86 · 2017-04-04T20:24:47+00:00

A straight up, flat out no is a NO. Cut your costs mate you just wasted 3 minutes instead of 3 dates. Considering even the opposite she shit-tests hard. And it will not get any easier.

Title	Saw this gem on Quora today
Author	SMVSMY
Upvotes	15
Comments	38
Date	March 29, 2017 7:43 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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