Screwed Again

Battle-Scars · 2017-01-31T05:10:29+00:00

Standard trick for divorced moms, next time file January 1st without your W-2 and claim both kids then re-file when the IRS says you didn't add your W-2's. Just file the number from your YTD ending paystub.

Thotwrecker · 2017-01-31T06:50:28+00:00

This is why you get legal and tax advice. This is a very standard trick, a single mom I used to bang told me about how she did this to her ex-husband. Any counsel worth his salt should sit you down and cover some of these common edge cases.

theredpillager · 2017-01-31T12:32:49+00:00

In all likelihood you can undo this. Also, more importantly, you SHOULD undo this. Assuming you are the true head of household, that is, you are the top earner and pay the majority of costs, you can still file as head of household and they'll give it to you, not her. The IRS obviously cares more about money than anything else. It is not Family Court. It does not care about your gender. A co-worker is going through something similar right now so we were just discussing this. Speak with your attorney and a tax preparer, but unless she's the breadwinner, you still got this.

Charles_Vane · 2017-01-31T08:27:01+00:00

I would go nuclear and scorched earth, leave nothing alive and do not be nice about it.

like today go into a divorce office and talk to them about it they would know more on the subject. But that being told

http://robergtaxsolutions.com/2011/01/my-ex-claimed-my-kid-now-what-do-i-do/

is it legally separated or just been apart?

because https://www.eitc.irs.gov/Tax-Preparer-Toolkit/faqs/divorced

this states:

If a client is legally separated for last seven months of the tax year but the client's divorce is not final until the following February, may the client use the Head of Household filing status and qualify for EITC?

A married taxpayer can be considered unmarried and file as Head of Household if all the following tests are met:

Must file a separate return. Must have provided more than fifty percent of the cost of maintaining a home. Must not live in the same home as the spouse at any time during the last six months of the year. The home was the main home of a qualifying child for more than half the year. Must be able to claim an exemption for the child. However, the taxpayer may meet this test if they are not claiming the exemption for the child because they released the exemption to the other parent under the special rule for divorced or separated parents discussed above.

With that being told she is obviously play for keeps why are you not? Go scorched earth right now. If you can throw the book at her.

editing this was aids

mr_perfect1 · Tue Jan 31 6:45:24 2017 UTC

When I broke up with my child's mom, the SS card was the first thing I took. The mother is too lazy to get another one. She even asked my sister a week ago if she could have it to file for 'welfare benefits'. Good thing I'm smarter than that.

max_peenor · 2017-01-31T13:58:17+00:00

So you are the kind of guy that pulls the bandaid off a millimeter at a time and then puts it back on to do it again? And again? And then one more time?

Come on, friend. The bullet is already in the head. Time to let the marriage die.

MattyAnon · 2017-01-31T17:48:35+00:00

I'm currently still married to

Fix this or soon you'll be liable for her next pregnancy too as well as a certain amount of financial responsibility.

I asked her about it..guess what??? Yea, you know it already, the bitch filed already and claimed both of our children!!!

Oh. Right. Yeah... she's telling you to get a divorce, why are you still not listening??

Look, women and marriage screw you. You got screwed. Because women and marriage. Shut up and get your fucking divorce you idiot.

I SAY AGAIN....LISTEN TO HER ACTIONS, NOT HER WORDS.

The correct message is:

Do Not Marry

JP116 · 2017-01-31T18:06:51+00:00

You should file your return as married filing separately.

Take the deductions for both children. The IRS will either (1) not catch that both you and your wife claimed the deductions or (2) catch it.

If the IRS doesn't catch it, move on.

If the IRS does catch it, they will reject both returns and you and your wife will have to work it out. She will not have the final say on this point and it would be another item to resolve in the divorce.

Just STFU and do what you have to do.

Sam_SOD_ · 2017-01-31T13:52:11+00:00

With any long process, be it a new career path, starting to take care of your body at the gym, saving money, or divorce/custody battles. Start now! Don't put anything off. Don't look for a good point to start. No that next holiday extended weekend won't be a good starting point. Now is the start. Call a lawyer and start working out payments. Make sure everything this year starts getting claimed... My leach of an ex wife wanted me to pay for her health insurance (legally you must until the divorce is final, and it didn't cost a cent extra to keep her in due to my union contract for insurance, but still saved her $300 a month from getting her own), part her phone bill (on the same contract), and give her money for rent (mortgage was only $450 a month), all while she moved her 12 year younger 20 year old boyfriend into our house 2 days after cheating and one day after me moving out (house under her parents name, better credit, lower interest rate), because 'well, I need someone here to pay the bills'... Little background. While red pill is great for single adult men living in the world of single adult women, we are men. Men are proud strong and protectors. With children involved, the game is different. Nuclear on the mother of a child, is going nuclear on the child. But you can see in the background of what I had to deal with (there's more of course, just a highlight) there's no choice but to go nuclear to give the children what they need, both parents. You need to survive and still be able to provide as a man and father. I let her know what hell feels like until she had no choice but to do an uncontested ricotta divorce. My situation is different as I didn't have the property in my name, I kept cars and small property always appears so she had no claim to it. I threatened to pay the cancellation fee so she would lose her phone number (she didn't want to lose contact with the men she kept on a hook or her friends). She beat me to the verizon mobile because I let her know I was shopping and stopping at the store. It didn't cost anything for her to just separate the bill into her name on her own. The small things like car insurance were easy, simply explaining I couldn't claim to live there nor she stay on line because she couldn't commit insurance fraud by claiming to live with me (if don't know how true it would be, but she believed it). Get rid of the small things, save money for the divorce. My non contested divorce was $200 through Cairns law offices. Internet based. You just print the papers and have the other party sign at a notery. Filing is done in different part of the state. Beneficial so she has less of a want to continuously travel to the filing office sp far away if she divided to contest anything... I got lucky on some aspects. You have a big battle ahead. But look at all of the small things you can cut away at for starters and just get the big things like divorce and custody rolling. You'll get through it. Don't kook at all you need to do, don't worry about what she's doing. Just start cutting away and building...

LynetV · 2017-01-31T16:20:54+00:00

Sure...when she goes "to think about it" it's screwed. Because she decided already. She was just reaching for more time to move things forward and wanted you to wait and do nothing. Fight for your kids! I know it's hard to get them into your care...because you are man, because she is mother, right? Bullshit! Try everything you can try. Rent a lawyer, if you can afford it. You are father, you do have claim for your children.

Marsupian · 2017-01-31T17:23:58+00:00

Did you record every phone call with her? Are you getting good legal and tax advice?

You better make a damn tight dovorce case and see if you can still get some of your money back. Next time act nice and play hard. Go out of your way to be more than civil while playing the game ruthlessly.

RubyOrchid13 · 2017-01-31T18:38:05+00:00

Don't blame her for your inaction. This is your fault, not hers. You should know AWALT. The divorce should have been started about, oh I'd say, 8 months ago. You're making excuses because you have oneitis for her still, and want it to work. If you didn't, that divorce would already be done. You have a lot of introspection to do bud.

Blacklabellogics · 2017-01-31T21:37:27+00:00

Always treat a split as a war. You want to secure the strategic locations and advantages to yourself, sometimes for future missions sometimes to prevent your opponent from getting them.

This means filing first, securing important documents such as social security cards, bank statements, tax documents and prenups.

It means getting in touch with a lawyer who is experienced in divorce law early on, and getting advice as to moves you can take in order to guard yourself against false allegations. This may mean recording your ex or taking statements from her family and friends as to how much time you spend with the kids if you have them.

Always treat the other party in a divorce as if they would conduct themselves in the most immoral and psychopathic manner possible.

hillbull · 2017-01-31T15:32:25+00:00

Who has primary custody of the kids? If they live with you > 6 months of the year and you pay > 50% of their financials, then you have the right to claim them and can even force her to revert her filing. Talk to an accountant.

Grimsterr · 2017-01-31T18:48:44+00:00

When you screw yourself, it's called masturbation.

[deleted] · 2017-02-01T00:59:14+00:00

Nobody will find you in Paraguay. $5,000 in the bank = permanent residency. If your kids are really young, they aren't actually yours anymore; In fact, they might even be brainwashed to hate you. How bad will child support strain you in the future? With my salary, I'd fucking bail.

Lifeisgroovy · 2017-02-01T03:11:18+00:00

If you can prove that your kids lived with you for more than half of the year, then you can take your ex to court over this violation of her return, and report this to the IRS if you so desire.

Title	Screwed Again
Author	gsd7788
Upvotes	77
Comments	25
Date	January 31, 2017 4:49 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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