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Seeking assistance.

budhabro

August 12, 2015
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Title Seeking assistance.
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budhabro

Upvotes 0
Comments 6
Date August 12, 2015 4:58 PM UTC
(10 years ago)
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[–]TrainingTheBrain 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why would you smash your friend? Because your girl sucks and you're too much of a pussy to move on so you take it out on him instead of facing yourself in the mirror and realizing the problem is you?

You say you have options, prove it. Take one of those options out and stop sulking over the one that got away.

There are chicks out there that will give you what she isn't, or have you not read anything on TRP?

Edit Just like there are no Unicorns (I hope you understand that) there are also no Dragons, you aren't special dude and you're not the top dog or she'd be all over you and claim you as her prize to show off.

[–]OneTouchHowMuch4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Forget about her and go fuck 10 other women. That means no contact - no text, social media, in person (except for polite hi/bye if you can't avoid her).

After that, if you're still feeling it for her, try it.

Meanwhile, wish your friend luck w her - literally - and if he succeeds, congratulate him.

Keep lifting. Read the sidebar.

That's about it, mate. Pretty simple stuff.

[–]dapowa0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I support the ten other women recommendation, too. When you're ignoring nine of them that are waiting for your response, read a few books. Matter-o-fact, start the sidebar(Whole thing.) it'll count as your first book.

[–]bl33dingr3d 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You seem to be early in the process of growing into a man with abundance mentality, which is totally normal (everybody was there at one stage or another). So you had a crush on a girl and she has kept you in the friendzone? The only possible chance EVER with her is to focus on spinning new plates that are at least as hot as her. That's the raw truth, dude.

Bros before hos is a saying for a reason. If you value your friendship with this other guy, let him have a crack at it and realize that you just aren't a good fit for her. Focus on your own personal development via lifting, fashion, and approaching new women. Your day will come.

[–]JustApproach2 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Learn to be happy by yourself and not depend on others. Have an abundance mentality at all times. Always be replacing not chasing. The only thing holding you back is yourself. Never put girls on a pedestal. Improve your self confidence.

[–]1drtigerface0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Start fucking bitches. Ten other women, whores, whatever. Just go get your dick wet. I promise you nothing makes you forget about old pussy like new pussy.

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