Tl/Dr self proclaimed blowjob queen confused as to why guys don't like dating anymore
Hey guys,
This girl I've been sleeping with says she's sad that guys no longer like dating anymore, they're just into hookups.
This girl is a self proclaimed blowjob queen. She is eccentric in that she's a small girl that loves talking overtly sexual around friends, loves bragging how good she is at sucking dick and how many she's been through. She says it like an innocent joke and it is kind of funny, she's actually a very entertaining person I would consider dating, if the subject matter of her stories was different.
I'm sleeping with her and she's hinting (maybe more like asking) about going on dates and our future.
My thought process: I don't want my children being kissed by those lips. I don't want a wife that was a blowjob queen before she met me.
I think it's my job to enlighten her. Maybe help her out. It's not her fault she's an idiot about this stuff, it is the feminist society's, so I tell her:
There's three types of guys. Those that are going to fuck you and love it, and not even think about dating. They're players or studs or not that into you, but either way they're obviously no good. Everyone you fuck or suck makes you less desireable. Then there are those that will love you regardless because they think you're better than they deserve, or have low self worth. These are the guys that are relentlessly messaging you on fb (which there are a few of) and asking to go out and hang out and whatever. These are the guys you're not interested,you said so yourself. And there's guys like me, that always consider dating an option, but can do better if you don't meet my standards- which you don't.
She makes me dinner. She wants to reform. Her kill count is low, bj count is enormous, to her that means nothing. Totally submissive, shes not an idiot- actually is very smart. She understands the theory. Acts innocent. Acts like she is my inferior.
But the damage is done. I tell her i probably would date her if I wasnt moving away soon. Truth is the bj count is repulsive.
Ill keep her around because she is pretty goddam good at head. Im a softy so before i leave i may take her on a date or two. But ill never date her and a girl like that i will never be able to marry.
Edit: from a few good comments, it's actually fucked how differently our minds think in action vs behind a computer. A lot of shit u guys called out I didn't notice at the time despite the readings id done. Thx
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