By now everybody knows the the little tidbit how 70% or whatever of women can't orgasm from PIV sex alone. They need some form of clit stimulation. So the narrative these days is men need to man up and go down!

Bullshit.

I read a book a few years ago called "She Comes First" all about eating pussy. It's a short popular book that always got mentioned so i figured why not. Well looking back the whole book was as supplicating as can be. The most grand pedestal I have ever seen constructed within two covers.

The author, a male, had premature ejaculation and performance anxiety when he was younger. So to compensate he began concentrating more on his tongue and fingers. The book goes on to essentially downplay PIV sex since most women cant feel shit when getting fucked I suppose, and how we need to go down on women for 45 minutes every time to make sure "she comes first".

I remember thinking to myself as I was reading it how fucking stupid women's orgasms and the clit were. The penis is a very straightforward and efficient organ. You stroke and/or fuck it for 5-15 minutes and we will cum. It fits nicely into the vagina so you figure everybody is having a great time when they come into contact. Nope.

Meanwhile the clit is outside the vagina (it goes inside too but obviously doesnt do shit there outside the mild G Spot) and you have to rub and suck that shit in a bunch of different ways for at least a half hour for most women to get her to erupt. Meanwhile your penis is dangling by its lonesome.

How did men and women become so sexually incompatible like this? You'd think the clit would be on the inside on the vaginal wall and we'd both get happy in the same amount of time, but nah we have to numb our jaws through half a movie so she can get her jollies. Was God drunk when he made the clit? Did he misread the instructions?

Men already have enough to worry about during sex. We have to do most of the work position/fucking wise, We have to actively hold back our pleasure so we dont bust in a minute. Meanwhile a woman can just relax and let go. Everybody wants her to cum as fast as possible, because even if she does cum fast she can keep cumming multiple times, while men have to stop for a little bit. So already sex is lopsided in a woman's favor, and now we have to lick her for the duration of a whole album before we even get started with the real thing. And yes PIV is the real thing, no matter how much the author threw "coreplay" in my face.

See the red pill ventures into the bedroom as much as anything else. Many women actually dont like it when men put too much pressure on them to cum. They get off more when you're getting off and everybody is just enjoying the damn moment. A woman can get more pleasure in a good session without cumming than some mediocre session while cumming. Dominate her ass, really be in the present with her, and put yourself first most of the time and she'll love it.

Basically don't be a beta bitch in the sack. You'd think a woman would like it more if you catered to her every desire and need in sex just like in a relationship, but as we know that's completely wrong in a relationship and it's no different for sex. This doesn't mean you completely ignore her, but you treat sex as an extension of game. Don't neglect your own needs and pleasure.

I never go down on one night stands, because STDs. I'll do it to completion for a girlfriend when I feel like it. Now if you genuinely enjoy eating pussy then go for it whenever you want, but this idea that men have to do it fully every time annoys me. Only do it when you feel she deserves it. Dont make it a routine thing, even if she cant get off any other way. Switch things up and keep her guessing.

Essentially I think the whole she comes first phenomenon is just another way we are feminizing every aspect of male/female relations.