'She wants something more'

MattyAnon · 2017-07-24T17:33:44+00:00

"I want something more" is girlcode for "I want something more FROM you". She's not offering anything more herself or of herself.... she wants exclusivity so that she can start the betaization process and extract security from you.

It's not always because there is another guy in the picture (although you can assume there always is), it's often because they know there is another girl in the picture (which there should be).

Kisstafer1 · 2017-07-24T03:14:19+00:00

thanks for the heads up. solid. boomerang game. got it.

This is kind of where I'm at with one of my ex's. It was a mixture of being manipulate to become more beta, and fighting back against becoming more beta, eventually it became long distance which just ended it. She has some BB boyfriend now out there.

She's eventually going to move back here, and I think it's going to be a heavy case of boomerang game. I'm not going to make the mistake of LTR'ing her again, if I even see her at all, it's going to be heavy plating like it should have been in the first place.

I've been doing the whole lifting and raising my bank account thing, it's going to be satisfying. I don't need to be so alpha that I can't enjoy my sweet satisfaction.

redpillschool · 2017-07-24T17:49:25+00:00

Take the we-need-to-talk opportunity to ghost. She's handed you a gift.

BestSC86 · 2017-07-24T16:55:55+00:00

Too simplistic...

I have to wonder whether some of the posters have actually ever been around real women at all or are just around the lowest quality chicks in the neighborhood tavern....because more and more post read like dudes transposing their beliefs and thoughts on to women instead of having experienced the ways of women in real life.

The vast majority of women will want for the "relationship" to be moving toward something or somewhere. Only a subset are going to be okay with an extended period of being a cum dumpster to hit up after you finished watching porn? Usually those are very damaged and low SMV chicks desperate for male attention while somewhat more attractive women will employ the 'sure, let just chill and fuck" routine for a short period because some have begun to think that is how they are supposed to reel a dude into them. Then you have the real vast pool of attractive women with options who are never going to be open to being just booty calls or doing it for even a short period without at least some level of other relationship activity attached.

Of course, all women ask the "what are we", everyone knows that if you have actually been around women....and it doesn't even have to involve another guy at all. It is just the way that women are.

Truedemocracy2 · 2017-07-24T19:31:22+00:00

This analysis is absolute shit. And by shit I mean pure shit since it's exactly the opposite of what is the truth

When a woman asks this it's because she wants to lock you down - she views you as a high quality male. Yes long term all women try to put beta traits in their men but this is not her turning you into a "BB" (it's not a overnight thing when it happens lmao)

Could there be another guy? Yes, actually very possible. But that guy will be LOWER SMV than you, that's why she is trying to lock YOU down and is trying to give you an ultimatum.

Agree that this can be a major spot to lose frame. When women initiate this it is likely because they want a relationship and its benefits while you don't or are indifferent. But the rest of the analysis is pretty damn spotty

Shakydrummer · 2017-07-24T16:42:04+00:00

Yeah the boomerang game is where it's at. I finally established my own first plate and it kind of cracks me up how the dynamics of all the stuff I read here literally come into play. I can clearly see when she's trying to shit test and have me break frame like a bunch of other orbiters she has, so I just casually work through the shit tests and then soft next. Sure enough, I get messaged back because I don't give her the attention she wants, so she instead fights for it from me. Women are so goddamn predictable it's almost shocking sometimes.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-07-24T14:35:17+00:00

'She wants something more'

"Hypergamy + Opportunity = AWALT"

At least the authentic ONS ("One Night Stand") ends before any opportunity for acting on anything.

A Plate (being somewhere between a ONS and a LTR) is that gray area where you must expect her to try to manipulate things to her advantage.

The only cure for Hypergamy is abundant Dread Game.

When she asks for more you say you are okay with "Next".

redaftrp · 2017-07-25T11:36:53+00:00

I experienced this firsthand, After my divorce in 2013, I started dating a girl who I'll call Sarah(totally her real name). This was pre-redpill and its no surprise to see how this story plays out. Sarah and I would text occasionally, however, I was more interested in going to the gym and playing video games, than I was in just texting with her.

She would get super clingy, and freak out if I didn't text her. This led to me breaking it off with her and going hunting for a new chick. Who knew this was like crack to the ladies, I would block her number for a week and then unblock it, she'd text me to see if she could come over, bootycall, and then leave. This happened for about 2 months, I broke it off again when she started catching feelings.

A couple months later she messages me asking to hang out, I reluctantly agree, she comes over, and complains of her back hurting. Cut to me giving a backrub and sex "just happens" . She would periodically come over, hang out, we'd have sex and then she'd leave. The last straw was when she confronted me after coming over and fucking me, she asked me where I thought our"relationshit" was going. I told her I was perfectly happy with being FWB only. She broke down crying and I held frame, remarkably easy, as I truly didn't give a fuck if she left and never came back. She left angry then, and came by another night and knocked on my door for a solid hour. I ignored her and continued playing video games until I went to bed.

Six months later I was deployed, began swallowing the Red Pill and I had unblocked her on Facebook, she hits me up and after 5-10 messages I had her sending me nudes. This went on for about 4 more months, and when I came back she picked me up from the airport, blew me after an 18 hour flight and we were knocking boots in my hotel for the next couple of days. Fast forward to Valentines Day weekend, she texts me asking if she can hang out with me, I give her requirements for the time we spend together and she comes over. It was a pretty awesome weekend, and it set me up for a great date the night after she left, which ultimately is where I found my current LTR.

schifosa80 · 2017-07-24T06:31:52+00:00

Maybe it is true, but not always. I was in that situation, i asked for more, not becouse was someother guy in the picture, just becouse i realize that i want a future, after 17 mounth in a shit situation, wich made me suffer. I accepted his behaivor becouse i had a good time with him, and we had a strong conection.( WE are not kids any more, F36 and M47), can be good advice what you describe but is not the low.That is a whore behaivor, parasit women, looking for the best what they can get.

Title	'She wants something more'
Author	Dmva100
Upvotes	10
Comments	36
Date	July 24, 2017 3:09 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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