Shit test help

FortunateBum · 2014-01-28T00:38:37+00:00

I have found that when in doubt, complete silence and lack of acknowledgement work wonders. Pretend like she isn't even there. If she asks you direct questions, pretend like you didn't hear. Better yet, check your messages. "Sorry, this model I met yesterday wants to get coffee."

So for this particular situation:

"Sometimes you are really patronizing and I don't like it"

[You look at your phone and check messages.]

Changing the subject and leaving the room works great too.

Politicians have this technique where they answer the question they wish they heard.

"Sometimes you are really patronizing and I don't like it"

"I love the way your tits look in that dress."

99% of the time, direct engagement will get you nowhere. I know, it doesn't make any logical sense. She asked you a direct question. You should engage on that subject. Welp, try it. See what happens when you completely disregard the literal meaning of her words.

For instance:

"Sometimes you are really patronizing and I don't like it"

"My dad always warned me that smart girls were trouble."

Wait does that sound patronizing?

Agree and amplify remember?

One more thing, if she gets upset, that's a good thing. Any and all strong feelings she has due to you are good. If she gets upset and starts crying DO NOT REACT. Stoneface. You neither care nor don't care. You are above it. Ride it out. Just listen and let her calm down. If she doesn't calm down, tell her you're late for your butt hair wax and get out.

I think one of the mistakes I made as a young man was giving a shit about how a woman felt and believing that I had something to do with it. You have nothing to do with how she feels. Nor can you change her state. Remember that. I know, seems counterintuitive, but try it and see what happens. Caring about her feelings and thinking you can influence them will get you nowhere.

[deleted] · 2014-01-28T00:30:42+00:00

[in same playful tone] "I know, I'm awful, aren't I?"

Then soft next her for a week.

[deleted] · 2014-01-28T10:20:18+00:00

In the beginning I was always thinking about witty answers for various shit tests, but after I while I just became bored of them. Whenever a girl threw one at me I was just like "Meh, seriously?" I usually don't even react anymore at all to them and just keep going with whatever I was doing before. Just shows that you're so far above her that her little tests don't even amuse you anymore. Powerful tool, you should try it sooner or later.

whatever6 · 2014-01-28T08:14:29+00:00

A shit test is her baiting you into losing frame. Silence is fine because you still maintain frame. If you have a funny/smartass response that destroys her bait go for it. Her getting upset at your cocky response is evoking emotions. Women thrive off of emotions, even bad ones.

But never acknowledge her bullshit. Never get upset when she is upset. You are a rock and she is a roller coaster of emotions.

OrchardThief · 2014-01-28T00:52:10+00:00

Great comments and advice. Thanks, as always.

robesta · 2014-01-28T16:46:34+00:00

Agree and amplify ALWAYS works in my experience. The worst thing you can do when vagistupidity comes out is take it seriously.

jobs33ker · 2014-01-29T17:07:16+00:00

My response is to not take anything they seriously. The idea that she is trying to get you to "wipe that smirk off your face" is basically a shit test. She wants to see if, when she "gets serious" if you will drop frame and try to appease her by apologizing. As long as you don't do that, any response is fine. I just like to laugh at them.

bama79rolltide · 2014-01-28T06:28:34+00:00

http://i.imgur.com/0MZCW53.jpg

da-way · 2014-01-28T08:02:17+00:00

OP, please add flair. It helps with framing your submission and helps with signal/noise ratio.

Thank you

Title	Shit test help
Author	OrchardThief
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	January 28, 2014 12:18 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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