Stats: 19, white, 6’5, blonde hair, blue eyes, 5/10 face, 7/10 body, 170lbs, slightly muscular

I started reading TRP in May of 2018. I thought to myself, “wow this really all does make sense”. 3 months after a slight hiatus of lifting and bettering myself I started spinning my first plate. Wasn’t the greatest looking but it was a start. After that, more pop up and one even comes back from the days before I swallowed the pill. Everything’s going great. Then suddenly, my last plate breaks in January of this year. Shortly before that though, I stopped going to the gym, I started skipping out on work, and stopped my pilot training.

I start matching up on tinder even more but no success with any girls because I’d get flaked on right before our plans. Since I live in a small city, I ran out of girls to match with on tinder. Had to screw with the age range and mile radius to maybe score an HB5 at best. Still the same shit though. Pickup line, snapchat/number, start talking a bit, make plans, get flaked on. I thought to myself, what the hell fucking happened? Then it dawned on me. I needed to get the hell back on this subreddit and read the hell out of it again. No more acting like an ADHD kid that can’t pay attention worth a damn. Read every fucking word.

Then I got back in the game. Made a new tinder profile with better photos using advice found on this sub. HB6, HB7 matches start popping up right away. Start game immediately. Immediately made plans with a Filipina HB6, we go grab coffee, shoot the shit, got to know each other, and ended that with a hug-close. She was kinda boring so I ghosted her right after and had no regrets about it at all. Next one up, HB7.5 that lives 40 miles away. She’s with a friend (who I also met on tinder) at the mall and asks me if I wanna come meet up with them. I said fuck it and went over there. Hung out with them for a bit then we both went out to our cars. Her friend stays in her car and she comes into my car with me. We shoot the shit and then I went in for the kino. Kiss immediately after. After our little makeout session, we found a more discreet place to park while her friend sat in her car doing whatever fucking around on her phone. Then it happened. Dry spell cured.

Admittedly I did fuck up on some part with this girl. She was SUPER flirty snapchatting me so I ended up caving in and started validating the hell out of her. We still talk and she even posts on Snapchat that she has her eyes on someone. Constantly tells me that she wants me to be her boyfriend. I’m still giving it some time though to decide if I want an LTR with her though.

Lessons learned:

  • No matter what goes on in life, keep trying to achieve your goals. I had a major depression phase after seeing multiple friends almost commit suicide over their oneitis. I was too damn worried about them to even go to the gym or go to work.

  • Pay more attention to readings in this subreddit. I skimmed over way too many details that ended up helping me.

  • AWALT, as always. The girl I mentioned could very well hard next me (or vice versa) and everything that happened with us will be another blip in the endless history of the universe.