Yes, you should.
-Should I ask girl X out?
Yes. You should.
-Should I lift, eat healthy, read books, meditate, dress better just to get women?
Yes. You should.
-Should I next girl Y?
Yes.
-Should I fuck my best friends’ wife because she came on to me?
Yup.
-Should I shove a ping pong ball up my ass and tell my fiancé?
Definitely do this.
Wait? The answer always yes?
Yes.
You see, you aren’t asking us if what you are doing is right. You’ve already pondered the situation, which is why you bring the question to here. You already know the correctness of it. You are asking us to validate your decision. And for once my answer changes—no. We aren’t going to do that because you shouldn’t be seeking it.
Fundamental to the red pill is understanding that we share information and you use that to deal with your problems. I’ll tell you what I have done in the past when I encountered the same situation. I’m not telling you to do that. Take the information, show some intellectual courage, apply it to your situation and then MAKE YOUR DECISION.
You are responsible for you. We aren’t. We are not surrogate mommy #2,291, which you found after littering the earth with 2290 other surrogate mommys. Women will use your need for a mommy to box you up and keep you as a BB. No woman ever lusted for enthusiastic sex because a guy needed a boob to cry on because he had a bad day.
Ok, but let’s say you really did mean yes. Don’t tell me what to do—share some information, Max
Ok.
-Should I ask girl X out?
Will you die if you do it? No? I don’t stop myself from doing things because it might not work out. I stop if there are consequences or the risk of consequences are higher than the potential reward. The risk and consequences of asking a girl out is typically VERY, VERY low. However that is not to say they are always none. Observe the situation and make a decision based on the observed situation and not because you are afraid she might say no.
Observe. Analyze. Act. Gee. Where have I heard this before?
-Should I lift, eat healthy, read books, meditate, dress better just to get women?
I do it because it makes a better me for me. You are the prize. You are not doing these things to win the affections of m’lady. That could be a very pleasant side effect though.
-Should I next girl Y?
In my experience, if you are asking the question, you are already done. Anything you do after that is just attempting to rescue a bad situation. Finding a new bird is always easier than fixing the current one. Hmm.. Where have I heard that?
Hint > > >
Should I fuck my best friends’ wife because she came on to me?
I typically wouldn’t because of the last answer I gave. It is almost always more work than just finding someone else new with less drama.
And what about the ping pong ball?
I already answered that.
Why now?
Because these are real questions I see on asktrp all the time. Yes, even the ping pong ball one came from there, though thankfully that fellow seemed to have found his answers and moved on to greener (browner?) pastures. We cannot hand you answers for you to succeed. You have to internalize the data. You gave to practice the dance. You have to succeed and fail. And with this I conclude essay #192 on how there is no quick fix to your celibacy….
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