What is a social circle?

Your social circle includes your friends, but more specifically, the friends of your friends. Take your friends up on invites to event that they're holding. Your goal is to talk to everyone, and be that charming, aloof alpha that everyone loves.

How do I become a charming, aloof alpha?

It's simple. Learn to charm people. And I mean more than just hot women. Charm the guys too. Charm their not-so-pretty friends. Charm their girlfriends, boyfriends, husbands, wives, families and friends. Be okay with just being friendly. Treat them just like every girl you're gaming, escalate with light kino(especially hand/arm touches, arms around their shoulder, etc). Listen to them talk, and leave and talk to someone else whenever you're done. Don't leave with an explanation on where you're going, just go. You want them to introduce you to THEIR friends.

This can put you into what I like to call the "friendly-zone". This is where you have fun and have solid positive interactions on both personal and group levels.

Growing up I was the oldest of 12, so through babysitting and normal family interactions, I got really good at talking to kids and being there for them. I learned a lot of the basics of charm from those times, although I didn't really realize it until more recent times in my life.

But Reality, I'm planning on charming adults! Why does that experience matter?

As discussed in several posts, women are like children. They are the most responsible teenager in the house. This means that the strategies used for guiding children will work on women. Hell, these strategies will even work on everyone. These techniques will help build a mutual respect and a bond with all people of all ages.

  • Don't talk down to anyone. Act like you're no better than they are(even though might be), and that you truly understand what they're going through.
  • If someone fucks up, be stern with them. Often people need someone to put them in line. Hell, that's the premise of all bad behavior. It's to see if you're strong enough to set them straight.
  • Silence is golden. Sometimes a look of disappointment or a smirk tells all that's necessary. If someone fucks up and the situation isn't rectified, feel free to go radio silent.
  • Be unpredictable. Show up slightly late to events, and leave early on a good note. This allows you to be there for the best parts of the event, and shows that you're a busy guy. Also, too much of a good thing always ends up going stale.
  • Allow people to do favors for you. Never turn down an offer for a favor as long as it doesn't cause any harm. As our pickup forefather Ben Franklin taught us, getting someone to do a small favor for you increases attraction. This means that by asking to do a favor for you, they are literally asking your permission to be attracted to you!
  • If someone is going through a hard time, be a bit more gentle and take a few minutes to listen to them. Use light kino and hold them close for a little while, and then push them away and brighten the mood by being fun and playful. This is what a woman means by wanting someone who is sensitive. You take her negative mood and spin it around into something positive.
  • Make every interaction end on a light and playful note. People will remember that you're fun and easy to be around, and will want to keep you around. Your state of happiness is infectious, and people will gravitate to you like a drug addict always goes back to that high.

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