my looks: i want to state this firstly because i reckon how you look will make a difference when trying this. i think my looks are like 6/10, i'm considered handsome by a few people but majority of people will say that i'm just a normie.

case a) there is a good-looking girl at the cafe who is alone. i'm watching her to buy her drink and stuff. she seems like a person who is not social or bitchy. just good vibes. that's all i'm getting. she starts to drink her coffee and i'm getting pretty sure that she is single and this is my chance to start cold approaching. my wingman pushes me to do it as well and tells her girlfriend that i'll do it even though i'm not sure. they're watching and encouraging me. the pressure is too much, and i'm about to fucking explode at this point. i finally decide to go and said to her that i want to know her and whether it's appropriate for her to give me her instagram to make a connection. she smiles to me and says "unfortunately, it's not possible :)". there is nothing i can do. this is a short and direct rejection. i leave

case b) this time i'm in a event at the college. i'm watching a movie with strangers. i'm alone with no friends. again, i'm looking for a girl who is not bitchy or nerdy etc. to increase my chances and decrease the possibility of harassment accusations etc. when the movie is over, i go to a girl who is not very good-looking but very lively. as i expected, when i say "hi, did you like the movie?", that's all it takes for her to speak a lot of things regarding the movie etc. it's pretty great that she is very talkative because i'm nearly shaking, i'm really not used to talk strangers. the convo goes well but she gives me a bit creppy vibes. i ask her instagram, she says "i don't use it". i think she honestly doesn't have an instagram account and she would give me if she had one. i didn't like her looks that much and also she's kinda weird, so, i didn't push her to give her number to me. we left each other with no ways to communicate after talking a bit.

case c) this time im at a cafe again. i'm pretty sure that this time it wont go well. im not ready at all. i cannot even make direct eye-contact with the girl that i will ask her insta. i'm not ready but i still do it to gain experince anyway. i change my way halfway when going to her, i'm too anxious. fuck it, i'm gonna do it. i do it, ask her insta straight to meet without saying much. she kindly rejects.

case d) this time, im in a event at the college. it's the same event again. after we watch the movie, i randomly go to a girl and say "hi, did u like the movie?" phrase again. her first reaction is pretty calm and i feel fucking weird that how she is not even remotely scared to talk to a male stranger that is trying to start conversation. i'm still anxious af but she makes things easier for me, asks me some questions back very calmly. she's into it and it's pretty obvious. i ask her insta before leaving her after talking for 10 minutes. despite i barely listened to her because of my social anxiety but that's ok since i was good enough to hide it. i get her insta. it's my first W and 1 out of 4 is pretty good for me. she texts a lot but she doesn'r respond very quickly. i don't know what she feels that much. hopefully, i will arrange a date soon.

in my opinion, every redpilled guy should try this to gain confidence. it's massively imporant to have courage to do it even if it's not natural to meet women this way. a lot of people will make fun of you but it's one of the best things to do to improve yourself. imo, it's much harder than going to gym etc. and i bet that those cyncial complainers about how shallow it is to talk with strangers will never have the guts to do something like this. and don't worry, girls usually react well and will not accuse you of sexual harassment if you don't look like a freak like some mgtow guy on the internet claims. this ability will allow you to meet any women at any time. it's so underrated that it's crazy. thanks for reading