We see it over and over here. Lift. Meditate. Learn. Approach. Gain confidence. Learn game. Escalate. Read body language. Dress well. Groom well. Be fun. Have fun. Be sexual.

What many newcomers forget is that if you're missing pieces to the puzzle, if you're incomplete, you won't find success. The whole package is what is desirable, what is successful in the SMP.

Doesn't matter if you're successful and fun, if you also have an asshole personality and are physically unattractive, you'll struggle. If you're a male model that has no game, you're going to have a hard time.

I encourage you to watch the story of Dennis

It illustrates a scenario/question that is so common here, it might as well be tailor made. Dude is tall. White. Built like Hercules. Tatted. No game. No confidence. No success. True beta, regardless of appearance.

You get to see home life, and learn how he came to be this way. No surprise, like many of those in this situation, single mom's indoctrination and mental abuse to gain attention for herself.

You get to see AWALT in action. You get to see AMOGing. You get to see low-smv, high confidence men getting the success he can't. Body language, gaze, escalation, conversation, banter, he fucks it all up.

I encourage you to watch this, not only as an example that success requires the complete package, but as a "what not to do" tutorial. I'm sure certain specifics will resonate with some of those learning the way and help to identify and change those behaviors.