Texting?

TheNincro · 2017-02-10T21:30:32+00:00

First of all man, your 16. I really admire the mindset you have right now to improve yourself. I wish I had the same at your age. However Redpill is very difficult to integrate in Highschool. Right now I suggest just letting yourself grow and improving yourself with working out and STUDYING. Dont think about girls that much, its a mindset you have to cultivate right now. However to answer your question:

Dont add her on Facebook/Snapchat without 'asking' first. Meaning saying 'Yo, you have a snapchat? Add me'

In highschool I used to invite girls to school games/parties/and the local mall.

Dont listen to the people telling you to get Coffee. Its a dumb idea in Highschool. Highschool is the only time a first date movie is a good idea.

Text her, just dont be over bearing

Thats really all I can give you man. You're supposed to be awkward around girls, its part of growing up. I bet you anything that she has similar questions as you.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-02-10T19:32:08+00:00

I want to meet her and have added her on fb and snapchat.

Stupid. By interacting with women on social media you are automatically entering her frame, every time.

but i dont think i can meet her without getting to know her better

Another blue pill lie that men are brainwashed to believe, that you have to be "friends" with a woman first. The only thing that matters - is she attracted to you or not. If she is, you can ask her out right away and she will be into you. If not, she won't be and you can move on to the next woman. Women will know if they are attracted to you or not within a second or two, so why waste time.

Mr-Ed209 · 2017-02-10T19:49:28+00:00

You have to realise that if she is interested in you, she's going to be keen to meet up. No amount of texting etc is going to 'woo' her into suddenly finding you attractive and someone she wants to fuck. That means, if you get the sense she's not interested (flaking your date plans), cut her out and move on. Likewise you lose nothing and have everything to gain by asking her out directly right now. Do it now.

as im 16 and asking on her on a date may be a bit weird

Fuck I wish I was RedPill aware at 16. This gives you a massive advantage over your peers. Other guys your age are going to be making mistakes and figuring out what works with the laydeez for another decade or so. Likely messaging their crush on FB for weeks before (if ever) asking her out.

As for the date, be wary of being too 'proper' about it. Going for coffee (especially at 16) with a girl is like how your mum tells you to be gentlemen and treat her nice. It's not what is going to get you laid. Teenagers get drunk at parties and fuck in the hosts parents bedroom every weekend, aim to be the guy who does that.

Momentum2 · 2017-02-10T21:10:10+00:00

This is a very good video on texting/flaking etc. I personally do it almost exactly as the guy at 2:53(RSDJulien) describes it. However, this is just advise, apply whichever seems more congruent to you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJrFQ2ITbcc

I know TRP may mean just leaving it and if i see her again going from there and going for other girls but I dont think i will see her again and I dont get that many opportunities with girls so she seems like a good option

I remember being a horny 16yo, so I understand this is hard to implement, but try to change that mindset/mentality. The whole point of this thread is not how to get this one girl(there is not ONE), but how to be in a situation that you get many opportunities. Good luck!

linsanity2016 · 2017-02-10T19:39:26+00:00

Get her # next time and don't add her on FB or snapchat Just text her, "let grab coffee whats your schedule" If she doesn't reply or is not interested, just NEXT her and talk to more girls BTW "I dont get that many opportunities with girls" is not a good mindset *You will gain abundance mentality by talking to more girls

NietzscheExplosion · 2017-02-10T20:35:05+00:00

Be that rebel that doesn't have FB or snapchat.

Title	Texting?
Author	DolorousJenks
Upvotes	1
Comments	20
Date	February 10, 2017 7:07 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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