The 'Are you a player?' thing

DaddyMonster · 2013-12-28T16:20:58+00:00

Standard shit test response methods work fine with this one, such as agree and amplify, ignore and redirect.

Basically, you need to convey that you are in your own reality and that you are amused and/or unaffected by her shit test.

Sample responses to "Are you a player?":

BigTimer5's response was good: "No, I'm actually a weekend-only pimp. This is only Thursday, relax."
"Totally." - I'd deliver this one either distractedly (scanning the room for other chicks), or with a cocky smirk.
"Player? Are you trying to insult me girl? I'm a pimp." - Delivered with mock indignation followed by a cocky smirk.
"That's an interesting question." and then you start talking about something completely different. Basically shows that you DGAF.
"Interesting." When she asks what's interesting, you reply, "You must find me very attractive if you're worried that I'm a player". Game on.

frequentlywrong · 2013-12-28T15:53:31+00:00

'that's personal. I'm open to talking about that kind of thing but not over text with someone I've never met.' It sounds good to me, I don't come across as a trying-too-hard-to-be-cocky type, while adding a little mystery to me.

That is defensive and thus comes off weak. Either deflect:

"I've been known to fire up call of duty once or twice"
"How did you find out about my D&D addiction?"

or agree & amplify:

"player? I'm a pimp.".

The reason A&A is recommended is because it's a stronger shut down of her shit test and likely to impress her more. After all if you weren't confident in yourself, you would not have the guts to respond in such a way, so there must be something unique about you in her mind.

Fred_Flintstone · 2013-12-28T18:39:22+00:00

tangentially related:

http://www.reddit.com/r/alpha/comments/1tvseh/tinder_game/

DaddyMonster · 2013-12-28T16:17:59+00:00

"So you want me to kiss and tell after you then?"

Call her an exhibitionist.

carrotplanter · 2013-12-28T16:27:40+00:00

Agree and amplify

Mandeponium · 2013-12-28T16:39:05+00:00

"Yeah, piano and bridge."

stln00b · 2013-12-28T20:48:58+00:00

"I'm not a player I just fuck a lot". Usually gets a laugh and they brush it off.

AllYouCanEatRedPills · 2013-12-28T18:26:47+00:00

Please explain TinderTrash. Not familiar with this term.

2013-12-28T22:53:34+00:00

you might get more responses over at /r/asktrp

good question tho.

machimus · 2013-12-29T08:49:38+00:00

Ahem: "A player? Why, do you want to be played with?"

2013-12-30T20:59:37+00:00

It depends what her aims are. Sometimes what sounds like a solid gold shit test is actually a legitimate query making it effectively a double-agent shit test.

Source: Blowing it with a girl who looked for all intents and purposes like the worlds biggest party girl slut by over egging the pre-selection. Would never have guessed she was looking for beta game.

Glorious_Master · 2013-12-28T23:42:54+00:00

are you a player

no I'm a virgin

haha nice joke

no seriously

me in some occasion, I think the joke was on me.

fuck.

bobjoe177 · 2013-12-28T16:53:13+00:00

You mean basketball, football, hockey? Sure I love playing those

Marsupian · 2013-12-28T22:00:18+00:00

Naw dont be silly

themasterof · 2013-12-28T18:40:50+00:00

"Dont worry, the only toy I want to play with is you"

Do you think it would work /TRP?

DaddyMonster · 2013-12-28T15:45:50+00:00

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wickedstag · 2013-12-28T16:17:24+00:00

Are you a slut? No? Then I'm probably not a player.

Title	The 'Are you a player?' thing
Author	rumbledust
Upvotes	26
Comments	25
Date	December 28, 2013 3:29 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1tvnri/the_are_you_a_player_thing/
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