Hello all

Just another field report to help keep your heads in the game.

Last night after work a female coworker asked if I would like to go out to eat. I said yes, but I have a bar/restaurant that I go to every wednesday night because they have good beer and food specials at night.

She agrees, although she had no choice if she wanted to go with me. She was worried about being too overdressed so I handed her one of my flannels out of the back seat. To my surprise she strips down to her bra asking me not to look to put the flannel on. Calls it a "boyfriend flannel" to which I say, "I dont date women who paint their nails to match their bra" she was offended/intrigued. We arrive.

There are several bartenders, one of whom is a lifting/drinking/sports buddy of mine. Turns out he was not there, so we ended up with the attractive brunette with big tits.

I am not sure which one of them wanted it more. The bartender or my coworker, but we were one of only two groups in the bar, and we (really me) was getting a lot of attention from the bartender.

My coworker tried her rebuttal increasingly become touchy, needy, fishing for compliments; I responded casually nothing really, because I realized exactly what was going on.

I play this little game for another beer until I flat out say to my coworker - "lets take this back to my place"

We split the check (haha - because I can) and go back to my house to hook up.

Best part of it is, this morning my buddy texts me saying the other bartender was asking for my number and If it would be alright for her to have it. I ok'd, she texted me almost immediately; we are going out to watch my favorite hockey team tonight and we will see how thing goes.

Point is here - if you maintain your frame it works. In this case maintaining frame in one incident has lead to two plates.