The Bitter Truth

failingtheturingtest · 2017-07-11T02:05:23+00:00

Nailed it. Important to note that one can use anything as an excuse.

I'm too short, women don't want me.
I'm too tall, women are scared of me.
I'm too skinny, I'm too buff, Sheilas hate me because I'm too smart, etc.
It's a self-defense mechanism to ensure that we don't have to accept that our success or failure is a product of our own making. I'm sure there will be comments about how you "get hot white women because they want a black man" etc.

Truth is, you found success because you fucking made it happen.

Keep fucking working mate!

lopsidedlucky · 2017-07-11T03:53:59+00:00

As an older man, I applaud your viewpoint. Various groups have been trying to uncover and shut down forums like this since forever. From Carrie Nation and prohibition, to the anti-male shit on some social networking sites - people do not like young men banding together as men (unless it is in war to fight for their own interests).

You are on the right track. Better things will happen for you if you keep this mindset.

1BadDayAway · 2017-07-11T04:22:03+00:00

Im a 21 year old brotha as well. And my god man, I resonate with literally almost 100% of this post, I believe totally in creating your own destiny and treating everyone as if the glass is half full along the way...they fill or empty it.

Ive never had an interaction with the police that the media claims I will given my race after maybe 20 total in my life so far, given what i do for fun. Ive fucked mostly white chicks as well, with only a sprinkle of sistas but I dont really feel like im not "one of them" as in a black person I mean. I 100% identify with, am comfortable around and am proud of my race. The confidence i attain from this source of pride only further fuels my ability and love for connecting and collaborating with all other races on an equal basis in order to achieve the daily success's this life has stored for me and others that pursue them. Glad to hear from another brotha with a similar mental approach to this life we've been granted. Props to you my friend, you're not alone.

Lastly, I want to recommend a book. Its called "Opportunity Comes To Those Who Create It" by Charlamagne The God. A great read with some principles Ive related to and feel you would the same.

Peace!

batfish55 · 2017-07-11T11:11:48+00:00

Awesome introspection/analysis. The victim mentality is for feminists, and if you've spotted that same tendency within black culture...man, you're already miles ahead in overcoming that shit. Never heard/read a black dude step back that far and look that hard. I'd buy you a beer if we were in the same town.

But remember something that Leykis loves to say: Your family and friends will try to keep you where you are, where they are. You leaving and/or bettering yourself is change, and change is hard for them. Even if they're living in a shitty place, your wallowing in that misery with them means they're not alone, you're suffering too.

Just...for the love of god...don't go MRA. You know who complains about the way things are and hopes that someone will fix it for them? Women. Feminists. And MRAs. I know I post a lot on MGTOW, but I'm not out there complaining about the way things are. I just can't make myself give too much of a shit. I don't know. Is red pill apathy a thing? I'm done with RP rage.

But since you brought it up...I've always been curious, especially since you're black and in the midwest...do you suppose you do ok with the white girls because their daddies were kinda racist, and daddy's little girl banging a brother would piss him off if he knew? You know, the rebellion thing.

EDIT: I'm a white male, and the family was just above the poverty line, so....no scholarships for me. Now I got student loans. But....STEM is kinda...monochromatic. Well, bi-chromatic. There were lots of Asians at my school. There must be scholarship money for you. But only if you take a major worth taking. Otherwise you're just wasting your time and life. Check that shit out.

2017-07-11T11:53:51+00:00

I'm sorry, I know no one wants to hear this; but having handsome features or not is likely to be the biggest factor in regards to how much your race matters.

Of course some white chick will choose a hot black or Indian guy over whitey with a fucked face, why is this surprising? But equally, if you're black or Indian with a fucked face, skinny/skinny-fat and no game then why would she choose you over whitey?

That's not to say that 'Game' doesn't work of course even if you are lacking in the face, self-improvement will always up your SMV.

ntvirtue · 2017-07-11T14:43:13+00:00

Its never been about race its always been about culture.

zayelion · 2017-07-11T12:09:43+00:00

Amen for running off the plantation. There truly is a self defeating mentality in the black community. The options are clear, leave the innder city/ghetto/poor areas, or wallow for life.

1BadDayAway · 2017-07-11T02:09:42+00:00

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empatheticapathetic · 2017-07-11T09:34:57+00:00

What do you have to claim victim about if you've never experienced racism? I've experienced it my whole life as a brown guy and finally moved to a more multi cultural place where I can start to work on my issues. You have freedom, do whatever you want, no one is stopping you apparently.

Juxtapointer · 2017-07-11T10:51:44+00:00

Keep it up you magnificent bastard

RatioRegnum · 2017-07-11T11:08:40+00:00

Neil deGrasse Tyson

Colin Powell

Oprah Winfrey

Condaleeza Rice

Tiger Woods

Barrack Obama

Rosa Parks

George Washington Carver

Racism is a thing, and a wrong thing. It should not be condoned or accepted. However it is also just one of many obstacles life may present you with. Being held back by family and culture is also a thing, surrendering to victimization is a thing, and these are far more dangerous than the irrational fear and hatred of strangers.

Keep going OP.

RP_Scotsman · 2017-07-11T16:28:02+00:00

I like the cut of your jib sir.

throwawayQCsummer · 2017-07-11T17:39:45+00:00

Racism is a thing but less if a thing than class and culture. I am a 37 year old black male married to a white homecoming queen with two mixed babies and an executive job in a major US city.

Sir_Distic · 2017-07-11T11:42:20+00:00

Honestly I haven't seen any posts about "woah poor me I'm black/brown/indian/whatever here in TRP in months. Aside from ones like this calling out people who whine about not being successful due to skin color. I don't go to AskTRP much so it might be there.

There WAS a lot before but now I haven't seen any. And that's a good thing. Because there's no reason someone's skin tone should hold them back from being successful.

i4mn30 · 2017-07-11T12:09:05+00:00

Race might not affect your game, but where you live will.

I live in India and trying to come to the west, but it will take a lot of time in the career ladder to make it happen. Till then, stuck with entitled princess bitches who flake out even before going to first date.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-07-11T11:02:18+00:00

The brainwashed typical beta black guy believes that they are a "victim" so they project a hostile attitude when they don't need to.

You get what you send out.

So if you are a really cool guy and send out some good Game vibes then others just naturally conform to those expectations.

I'm a white guy and can in an instant tell which black guys are trouble and who is cool.

Now I think part of this is because I had an early childhood (late teens) experience of working in a black neighborhood (Oakland near Lake Merritt during the 1970's when it actually was dangerous) and seeing the mix of really cool black guys as well as gangster thugs getting into fistfights in the streets and in the store. You gain the realization that each person has the potential for free will and some guys are smooth players and others are stupid and violent.

Statistically the stupid and violent are in higher numbers in the black community.

But we're talking maybe 2% of the wider non-black world versus 10% in the black world who are really extremely out there with violent tendencies. So the 90% of black guys that aren't out there murdering are decent folks.

The stereotypes are valid only in probabilities but that's it.

You must evalute people by the quality of their character.

And that requires good intuition... the gut feeling.

circlhat · 2017-07-11T10:37:17+00:00

If anything, I had more success with white women. I've been with a ton of white HBs ranging from 6-9s and only a small sample of black women. It is what it is.

I mainly date black women, in fact I find black women more easier to be around, but than again since a black person is over whelming at least from a statistical stand point marry another black person , I don't see how this could come as a surprise.

Your own race is the easiest to date, so no it's not it is what it is, on one hand you speak about making success for yourself but than excuse your failures with your own race as "it is what it is"

During the times I've been pulled over by the cops, I clearly deserved some sort of disciplinary action but each time I got off.

I had the same experiences , until I went to a poor inner city neighborhood I was treating like shit for no reason, they accused my girl of being a prostitute and keep us in the cold freezing weather for 30 minutes

And this was just one time, I can't imagine living around cops like that

Something I took from The Red Pill is whether you're white, black, blue, whatever, you are responsible for your own life.

You seriously needed red pill for that ?

Title	The Bitter Truth
Author	1BadDayAway
Upvotes	105
Comments	38
Date	July 11, 2017 1:19 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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Truth is, you found success because you fucking made it happen.