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[–]redpillranger 42 points43 points44 points 10 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Fat women innately understand that their fatness hinders their attractiveness.
Join PoF or Tinder as a moderate-high SMV male and you'll see the stark difference between conversing with fat/unattractive women and their skinnier/prettier counterparts. Fat/unattractive women will be much more forward in their offerings of sex, more suggestive of kinkier/extreme sexual acts and place far fewer (if any) hurdles in your path. This is their way of attempting to inflate their SMV and desirability, in order to maximize their chances of success in the dating market. Theory-wise this is a similar observation to that which the deluded beta makes in Omlala's post, claiming that 'fat chicks are the best at sex'. Fortunately, with the wonderful invention that is online dating, you can make this observation in the comfort of your own home, without having to burrow around in the rancid rolls of a fatty.
Despite the many gems floating around on TRP, a good number of solid theory posts, fail to make the final link between theory itself, and application of this theory to some facet of everyday life.
So to finish off, how is this understanding of a fat woman's psyche usable in your life as a Red-Pill man?
The main application here is using this knowledge to gauge just how high your own perceived SMV is. Fat girls, and girls who believe they're below you in SMV will act in an accommodating way to bolster their odds of dating you. As you observe the behavior of incrementally more attractive girls you'll reach a point (depending on your SMV) where these mannerisms will begin to tail off, and the girls will be less obvious about their sexual enthusiasm, as they are aware that they're closer to your SMV and therefore don't need to work quite so hard to secure attraction.
Understanding this will allow you to recognize at what point girls start considering you to be at a comparable (or below) level of SMV to them, and this is information you can use to further your self-improvement.
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Damn, someone give this man a point.
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I got catfished twice on OKCupid. Now, if I don't see a full body, straight on shot, I'm not wasting my time.
Even girls who I think are attractive and message me, I'll tell them it won't happen until I see a full-body shot. The attractive ones send full body pics right away, the fat ones never message back
[–]CoriolanusRevisited 17 points18 points19 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You have to remember, a dating profile is a resume. If someone had a highly desired trait or quality they would put it on their profile and/or resume. If a woman (or man for that matter...) had a good body they would have an excuse to include a beach pic on their profile. Just like an employment applicant would never in a million years leave off that he is fluent in 5 major languages, so it's more than safe to assume if they aren't bragging about it, they don't have it.
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[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've found the same. For me online dating is useless, because my age doesn't fit the hookup culture and the rest are unworthy of my attention. I do far better in person, and can asses her worth easily. The only thing I use online dating for is amusement, and okc has banned me multiple times because of it.
[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger 20 points21 points22 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So what you're saying is that fat people are so fucking lazy and adverse to working at something that they couldn't even work to develop a bandwagon. They just waited for other movements to make one and strapped themselves to it.
[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa 12 points13 points14 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
strapped themselves to it
I don't know why, but I pictured some obese version of Wile E. Coyote strapped to a Acme rocket flying to the moon and out of our hair.
I guess we'd be the Road Runner in that scenario, always just out of the Coyote's clutches.
[–]topredhat 18 points19 points20 points 10 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
For some reason, I think there are some people trying market to fat people by telling them there all beautifully bullshit. Who will mostly benefit from this - the food industry, health industry, Pharmacy and so on.
[–]avoiceoftreason 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are ridiculous amounts of money to be made on feminists. Create a social media campaign and 'take a stand' for a feminist issue: watch the cash roll in.
A list of examples.
[–]1Kolbath 9 points10 points11 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let's also add into this equation the fact that sites like OKCupid and Online Booty Call and Tinder give further validation to the fat chicks. While there may be HB8+ on these sites, I've never found one. Women of such attractiveness don't need anonymous hookup sites. The majority of these places are infested with fat slobs desperately seeking some male validation, because it is food and drink to a woman. (Although, sadly, not actual food and drink, or some of these planetoids would be able to squeeze into a size 10 dress. And Lane Bryant would be out of goddamn business.)
An HB3 can post a few pics to one of these sites, accompanied by a suitably trashy and inviting profile depiction, and know that she is outnumbered by males at least ten to one. Some male, somewhere, desperate to fuck, will message her. Bingo! validation obtained. "See, I'm beautiful even though I can eat an entire Thanksgiving turkey in three bites."
Its a sad and irritating fact of the hookup site that the most beautiful women there are usually spammers encouraging you to, "Check out my really hot pics at another site! Only $19.99 a month!"
[–]Endorsed ContributorLastRevision[🍰] 13 points14 points15 points 10 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
There is a South Park episode which explains the concept rather well; a woman's pictures on a dating site carry more weight (pun unintended) than the reality of her appearance; like when Butter's is dating the ugly girl and is thrilled walking around with a copy of her MySpace angle picture.
There are two types of fat girl on dating sites and you can tell a lot about her prior experiences by looking at her pictures: the first type has only MySpace angle pictures, which means she can get away with such behavior, which means she's never had a guy shame her and run; she's likely been pumped and dumped a ton by "jerks," but no one outright flipped out on her.
Type two has what I call "the reality pic" almost always at the end of her line of pictures. She's been blown up on by angry guy, or enough angry guys, to have to own up to the truth.
The reality is, once a guy has invested the time, even if she's 20-?? lbs heavier than her pictures, he'll pump and dump because YOLO.
[–]ColdEiric 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Do you remember the name or the season/episode?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
season 17 episode 10, from google.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Beta males really don't fall into fat acceptance unless they're reaaaaaally fucking pathetic. Being an average beta male nowadays is like being a middle class family trying to pay for college. You've kept yourself reasonably responsibly, you're not obviously terribly off, and it doesn't seem prima facie like you don't deserve college assistance. Thing is, you get no benefits.
Your average male is a bit feminine but not too pathetic. There's a reason that people still talk to him. Hell, a bizarre but accurate look at the friendzone is that even high value women will spend months scheming for even a low value man's time. He's not obviously undeserving of a girlfriend, which is why he can rationalize his situation so well, but he rarely gets laid.
The govt tries to mitigate middle class college student situations with loans that are easy to take out but it's not a satisfying solution. Likewise, feminists try to pacify beta males with fat girls but that doesn't really do it either. Many people will avoid college if it comes with a six figure loan and most betas still don't want a fat chick.
Of course, if the fatty is easy enough then she can still occasionally get laid... But she knows what's up.
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Had it happen. Super skinny pic. Reality = wider than tall. I think the pic was a decade old as well. There must have been a fuck-load of pies and an expired gym membership after that photo was taken.
Told her it wasn't gonna happen, that she's not as described. "But we can still be friends, right?". Err... NO
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Laughed at "let's call the dog Tess Holiday." Good shit 👍
[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I was waiting on someone to catch that.
[–]bea5tly 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wish FPH was still here.. lol
[–]askmrcia 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I met someone off of OKCupid and man she got me sooooo bad with that myspace angle.
Here's a little backgroud. I've done online dating in the past and was NEVER successful. Hardly in matches on tinder and was never able to set up a date.
Now to be fair I'm a very good looking guy, played college sports and am still in great shape. I just lacked all the fundamentals when it came to online dating (take certain pics, write certain messages, ect...)
I brought this up because of my lack of success in online dating I was just tempted to lower my standards.
Anyways I saw this girl (22) and all her pics was her with a straight face and a myspace angle. And When we set up a date, I looked at her pics for like 30mins. She looked really thin in her pics. Now on her pics she looked like a 7/10.
Me and her was attending the same school for grad school so it was easy to set something up.
We finally met up and she looked so nasty that I felt such shamed. Her teeth was all jacked up when she smiled and she had a huge floppy gut. Like her chest looked ok, but her waste and gut was just nasty and floppy.
It was so awkward. I asked her how she was doing and then said "my class is about to start.," and I ended up leaving.
Blocked her account logged off that website. I wanted to say something to her so bad about not looking like her photos, but we were in the campus lounge area surrounded by other students and I didn't want to make the situation any worse.
What I don't get is how can any woman or man make a themselves look like something they are not and not expect a negative reaction. Like that makes no sense.
This happened in May.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because it's only a validation machine. They're going on dates (just like their pretty friends do all the time), and they're only accepting guys who they think they actually have a chance with (i.e. guys "only" 2-3 SMV points higher) to minimize the constant rejection.
Most importantly, they're still getting the occasional guy who looks both ways to make sure no one is looking and then decides that a warm hole is a warm hole. He'll go back and say she was attractive but crazy, she'll go back to her friends and say he was so hot but such an asshole. She gets to live the skinny girl life of constant pump and dump, and everyone is happy except all those guys who got catfished in between.
[–]kalse23 points 10 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Remember Gents, fat women will bruise your groin, your dick, and your ego. If you must partake, never let them be on top. I knew a guy who had to see a doctor.
[–]truchisoft 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
(Incorrect due to subjectivity. Fat chicks are great at sex in your eyes compared to skinnier chicks because women will only truly enjoy putting out for men they deem worthy. Skinnier chicks don’t find you worthy of good sex, so in turn the sex has been dull.)
This is strong, as I have commented elsewhere, before taking the pill, I was never acknowledged as having a big dick, but since taking it, every girl I have fucked remarked how well hung I am.
[–]Philhelm 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And yet, after actually reading her bio (something I rarely do) it paraded on about how “proud” she was to be fat and how “accepting” men should be of her weight and how “better” fat girls were.
Human centipad does not read.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep confirms what I said about women being like dogs.
[–]Science_isthenewcool 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think the FA movement also desensitizes betas to the horror of obese women. Thereby lowering their repulsion or gag reflex threshold. This helps with their acceptance/rationalisation that these whale hamplanet obeasts are actually fuckable.
But Chris Rock said there was "some good pussy under there!"
[–]ShitfacedBatman0 points 10 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Red Pillers need to start rejecting all forms of online dating. All it should take is setting up a troll account or two and you should clearly see how much bullshit and dogshit it all is. This forum talks about it so much as though it's legitimate. I can never see it as legitimate.
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[–]ShitfacedBatman2 points 10 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep. It's a lot more apparent if you create a few fake accounts on OkCupid and mess around. Now that I've seen it, I can't unsee it.
[–]bea5tly -2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
3 things.
1) Don't ever meet a girl without a full body pic. Well how can I assure its her and not a old pic? The best app ever SNAPCHAT.
2) If you are unsure just ditch the bitch. If she doesn't want to prove it not worth it.
3) Fat acceptance is the biggest bunch of idiots out there. These butter golems are so delusional it reminds me of another group.. (femnazis)
[–]PeluzaHT -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This should be done in reverse. Is fat acceptance something people really embrace? Then fat betas should get a benefit, too. Of course, they would still be far away from redpilled guys who lift... but eating what´s left after them is always better than being incel due to wqomen´s hypergamy.
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