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The sister paradox

silver_light

January 26, 2014
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Title The sister paradox
Author

silver_light

Upvotes 1
Comments 7
Date January 26, 2014 5:14 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1w7bpi/the_sister_paradox/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/the-sister-paradox.10439
https://theredarchive.com/post/10439
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[–]aquaticbub 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would imagine the whole answer is to simply not think that way. It's a sexual game, for you to try and get ahead. You wouldn't want anyone fucking your sister, but that doesn't stop you from getting laid right? Simply put, they're not your damn sister. Also, would a true Dark Triad alpha really care about this shit?

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[–]silver_light 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yes, of course ,I dont think about my sister when Im with a hot girl or a friend. Just let the testosterone do its thing. But later I think: whats the best for her, and certianly a guy who sees her as an object, is not the right guy

THe paradox here is, I want to be that guy, but I dont want my sister to end up with that guy

PS. now that I read my intro, I LOL'd too

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In the end you would want your sister to be able to secure a man with strong alpha qualities wouldn't you? Strong, Successful, Doesn't put up with women's shit?

Otherwise she'll end up with some beta bux provider she will spend maybe 5 years in marriage with then divorce rape and be unhappy post-wall woman doing the cougar thing in her 40's.

[–]averageredditor123 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think what you want is for your sister to have good enough female game to snag a quality alpha man for a relationship instead of being his pump and dump.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think you're looking at it in black and white. Yes there are beta, nice guys. Yes there are, alpha, dark triad guys. But at the same time there are guys that fall in between. You just happen to want to become somebody that leans more towards the dark triad end of the spectrum. A guy that falls in between is somebody that you should want for your sister; a guy that knows how to lead and be in control of the situation, but at the same time prefers to be in a relationship. I too have a sister. She is in a committed relationship. I have respect for the guy. He is a stand-up guy. He is not a beta wimp, but he knows how to keep the right balance to make it work with my sister. At the same time my sister is sort of a "unicorn" which afforded her to keep him committed. Maybe is because of our background (we are Latin American) and the fact that our parents are still together. We lean more towards traditional family values, and sexual promiscuity in women is looked down upon.

[–]peoplesuck357 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think you're unnecessarily associating being alpha with immorality. Alpha/beta are amoral terms; just as much as there are bad guy alphas and nice guy betas, you can be a beta who's a bad person or an alpha who's saved lives and defended the weak.

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